Ngolunye usuku, uJulia Savicheva wabelane nabanye ababhalisile izindaba ezingemnandi - umculi wahlukana nomyeni wakhe u-Alexander Arshinov. Umculi wathumela isithombe lapho enomyeni ovele esevele ephethe ngosuku lomshado.
UJulia no-Alexander babejwayelene isikhathi eside, ngoba ukubamba iqhaza kwe-savicheva kwiphrojekthi yomculo ethandwayo. Ngokomculi, lo mbhangqwana wahlukaniswa, kwaba nokuthula futhi waphila ngokuzolile. Noma kunjalo, umshado awukwazanga ukugcinwa, abashadikazi bahlukana ngokuphelele.
Cishe kuzo zonke izibili, izikhathi zivela lapho othile eshaya umnyango, kepha ahlala ebuyela. Ochwepheshe bezengqondo bayazethemba ukuthi akukufanele ukuthola ubudlelwano ngemuva kwesikhathi eside, ngoba uma okungenani omunye wabalingani angenandaba nokulondolozwa kokuxhumana, akukho lutho oluhle oluzophuma esisesibili noma ngeshumi.
Sasicabanga futhi sanquma ukuthola ukuthi kungani ukubuyela kwangaphambili kuhlala kungumbono omubi.
Ukhombisa ubuthakathaka bakho
Ake sithi usuvele uhlukane, kepha ingxenye yakho elahliwe ayikwazi ukuvumela ukuba uhambe. Konke lokhu kukhombisa ukukhohlisa ngumlingani wangaphambili. Uma uvumela lo muntu ukuba abe yingxenye yempilo yakho futhi, ngeke uthole lutho ngaphandle kokusebenzisa okungathembeki kuwe, ngemuva kwakho konke, ngalokho okwenza kucace ukuthi umuntu oyelahla kakhulu, ngakho-ke ungaguqula noma yini.
Ubudlelwano bakho obuhlulekile obukhombisa ukuthi umbhangqwana wakho awunakuba khona
Yibuphi obunye ubufakazi bokungalingani okudingayo uma usuvele uhlukane? Cishe akunakwenzeka ukuthola umuzwa omusha wesikhathi esedlule, ngokwakho uyakuqonda lokhu, njengoba bephila ngokwanele nale ndoda ukuqonda ukuthi nihlukene kangakanani abantu.
Ikusasa lakho kulobu budlelwano alaziwa
Lapho ubudlelwane bungena ekhoneni, khona-ke ngeke uthuthukise umlingani wamanje. Ngasikhathi sinye, ngeke ukwazi ukubheka umuntu omusha, njengoba bekungakahlukaniswa ngokuphelele neyedlule, ake uthandane kuphela. Cabanga nje ukuthi kungazelelwe uvele ingane, bese usuvele ungayi ndawo komunye nomunye, kodwa emndenini akukho okubi kakhulu kunokuba abazali bakho abazondayo.