"Ubusuku obungakanani ... Ungaphila kanjani kanjalo?" - Ucabanga, ubheka abazali bakho abasebasha. Ngenkathi umama ekhumbula amacala amahlazo avela ebuntwaneni nasebusheni, futhi ubaba uzama ukugcwala ngamahlaya afanele, usungula uhlelo lokubuyela emuva futhi usazama ukubonakala okuhle. Ngabe awufuni ukuba sesimweni esinjalo? Ngemuva kwalokho ochwepheshe bezengqondo bacebisa ukuthi basuse imaski futhi babe ngokwabo, ukuze impilo ingafundisi isifundo esithandekayo.
Ukuxoxisana ngeqhaza loMalokazana
Isigamu sokuqala ihora lokuhlola umndeni ngokwesiko lakhiwa ukuzethemba: Ngokuqinisekile uzocela imfundo, umsebenzi, ukuzilibazisa kanye nemvelo eseduze. Imvamisa, ingxoxo enjalo ihambisana nemizwa emnandi kunazo zonke: umuzwa wokuqina, isifiso sokuhlangabezana nokulindelwe ngabazali futhi wakhe ubuhlobo bobudlelwano obuseduze. Ukwenza lula ukukwazi ukujwayelana nabazali, dala ukulungiswa okunethezekile ngaphambi kwesikhathi: Khuluma kaningana ngesoka likamama ocingweni, Bhalisela ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi - iningi labazali leminyaka eyi-40-50 ubudala nabo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokuya ngezithombe ku-Instagram, abazali bensizwa bangafunda kabanzi ngawe, ikakhulukazi uma uhamba nokuthunyelwe okungenani amasiginesha amafushane.
Kungenzeka ukuthi amasiko omndeni ngeke eze kuwe
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Napka-ndodaka
Abantu ngemuva kwale mile bazizwa bamanga: Ungazami ukwenza izincomo kubazali ngamabomu futhi ukhulume ngokuthi ngilinde isikhathi esingakanani umzuzu, uma kungenjalo. Ngikholwe, abazali nabo bazizwa beba nzima futhi ngenxa ye-romar yokuqina bezama ukufihla ukungezwani kwangaphakathi. Yiba ngokwakho - le yindlela engcono kakhulu yokusungula ukuxhumana nabantu abangajwayelekile. Buza isihloko sengxoxo - kungaba ukuhamba kwakamuva komndeni, indaba ehlekisayo yobudlelwano bakho nomfana noma i-cat, esisesigabeni sehora ukuze u-pure emadolweni akho. Ngeke uqaphele ukuthi ingxoxo izohlelwa kanjani futhi ingene endaweni efanele.
Landela ukubukeka
Vumela insizwa yakho ithande lapho uya emgodini omncane ngentambo ejulile - ngokuthandana nabazali bami, lokhu kuyindlela eqondile. Cha, bopha ihembe elimhlophe kuzo zonke izinkinobho bese ubeka ipensela le-skirt phakathi kwe-caviar nayo. Ngokuvamile kuvame ukuya kuma-movie noma esitolo sekhofi nezintombi. Ingubo yakusihlwa nezithende zilungele kuphela icala uma umhlangano wenzeka endaweni yokudlela. Futhi uma wabizelwa eZwezwe, unganqikazi ukuza esutsheni lemidlalo yakho ethandekayo ne-UGhi.
Pheka njengekhekhe lesipho noma amakhekhe ahleliwe
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Ungakhohlwa ngesipho
Isethi ebizayo yezinkomishi ze-porcelain kanye nekhefu elifudumele elifudumele kamuva - lezi yizipho hhayi zecala elinjalo. Khumbula kangcono indlela yakho yokuzilibazisa futhi uveze okuthile okwenziwe ngothando. Dweba - Bhala isithombe, ingaphakathi elifanelekile lendlu noma indawo yomndeni, ama-workshops Cooks - Khuluma ikhekhe noma iqoqo lamaqebelengwane, isithombe - nikeza ukuhlela isikhathi se-mini-isithombe. Ukunakwa nokunakekelwa kuzokwaziswa ngumuntu onenkani kakhulu emizweni - isenzo esinjalo sihlaba umxhwele ngokunembile abazali bensizwa futhi bazokwakha umbono omuhle ngawe.
Futhi wajwayelana kanjani nabazali bakho umfana wakho? Yabelana ngamathiphu kumazwana bese uthumela isixhumanisi ezintweni ezibonakalayo kubangani, ezizoba nalomcimbi oyisizotha.