Kwenzeka kaningi ukuthi sithole incazelo yesikhala esihlala siphupha, sithumela kabusha, sithola impendulo, futhi sinenhlolokhono, nansi inhlolokhono. Kubukeka sengathi lapha kungahle kungahambi kahle? Eqinisweni, yonke into, ngoba sivame ukwenza amaphutha angaqageli. Namuhla sinqume ukuthola ukuthi yini engaba yizimbangela zokwenqaba okungazelelwe ngemuva kwengxoxo yakho nabamele inkampani.
Awukwazanga ukuphendula imibuzo mayelana nesifinyezo
Ngokudweba isifinyezo, kaningi asikhumbuli ukuthi sengeze ngqo kudokhumenti. Ngokwemvelo, ungakhumbula amaphuzu avelele, kepha kulula kakhulu ukuthi "ukhubeke". Ngisho nephutha elincane kakhulu encazelweni yemisebenzi yabo noma ukungalungile nonyaka lingahlala emphefumulweni womqashi wokungabaza. Ngaphambi kokuthi uyenzele inhlolokhono, funda ukuqhubeka futhi, ungavila, zama ukungayikhanda amaqiniso, kepha "weqa" ngokwakho futhi ufunde ukukhuluma ngawe ngaphandle kwamehlo akho.
Awazi ukuthi uyaphi
Imvamisa, abafakizicelo abadinga umsebenzi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, bamane nje bangachithi isikhathi sokufunda noma yiluphi ulwazi mayelana nendawo lapho benikeza khona isifinyezo. I-Eychar iyayibona ngokushesha. Akulona iqiniso lokuthi kwinhlolokhono uzothinta kulesi sihloko, kepha nokho kuyadingeka ukulungiselela umbuzo ngesitayela: "Yini ongayisho ngokubambisana nathi?" Ungazivumeli umangale.
Awukwazi ngisho nokuqagela ngakho.
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Ungemuhle kakhulu
Enye yezikhathi ezibucayi kakhulu lapho abafakizicelo abavami ukudonsela ukunaka, futhi babe yize. Uma usesesha owesibili, bese kuthi umsebenzi wesithathu, ngokuqinisekile uzokubuza ngezizathu zokushintsha okungazelelwe kwendawo. Nakhu kulula kakhulu ukugibela ukugxekwa, ikakhulukazi uma imibandela endaweni yokugcina yomsebenzi ishiye okuningi ukuze ifuneke. Kunoma ikuphi, akudingeki wenze kanjalo. Ukhombisa ukukhanya okungalungile ngokwakho kuphela, kugxeka iqembu langaphambilini futhi ngokujwayelekile inkampani. Kungcono ukugxila ezikhathini ezingakunikezeli kahle. Lokhu kuzokwenza kuphela inhlonipho ye-Reclater.
Ugcwele njalo
Vele, akuwona wonke umuntu angenza kahle, kepha nokho leli khono liwukuziqamba. Imvamisa kakhulu ezikhundleni ezidinga amakhono amahle okuxhumana, wenqabe kahle labo abangakwazi okungenani ngemisho eminingana echaza izimfanelo zabo zobungcweti ezilungele lesi sikhundla esifanele lesi sikhundla. Njengoba besho, ukuthuthuka okungcono kakhulu kulungiselelwe ukuthuthuka, kusho ukuthi kufanele ulungiselele uhlelo kusengaphambili lapho uzozifaka khona ngesikhathi senhlolokhono, ngokwemvelo, ukushukumisa amaphuzu ohlelweni we-EICRA.
Muhle kakhulu
Imvamisa, abantu banethemba elikhulu ngazo zonke izingqinamba zokuqashwa, zimamatheka kamnandi, gwema izihloko ezingathandeki. Ngemibuzo ephathelene nezimfanelo ezingezinhle, lapho umuntu engakulungele ukubekezelela nakuwo wonke umoya, umfakisicelo futhi akaphuthumi ukuphendula, ehumusha ingxoxo ngendlela yokungathathi hlangothi noma eyakhayo. Ngakho-ke ngeke kuhambe, ngakho-ke zama ukudlula amakhona abukhali engxoxweni, kubalulekile kuphela ukusebenzisa ukunemba okuphezulu. Umqashi kufanele abone ukuthi uzihlole ngokweqiniso njengochwepheshe.
Awuqedi izindaba ezixoxwayo
Njengomthetho, ngemuva kokuthi utshele imithwalo yemfanelo yakho yesikhathi esizayo, leso sikhathi sifika lapho kufanele uthathe phansi. Kepha imvamisa umfakisicelo usevele uthule noma engenamibuzo. Ngokuqashwa kuyamangaza, ngoba umuntu osemthethweni angaba nemibuzo ngesikhathi sengxoxo. Kubalulekile ukuba kubalulekile ukukhombisa intshisekelo esimweni esizayo futhi ubuze umqashi okungenani ngoSuku Lwabo ehhovisi labo. Ngikholwe, kuzoba kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe.
Ukubukeka kwakho akuhlanganisi nesikhundla esizayo.
Kubukeka sengathi umzuzu osobala ukukhetha ikhabethe ngaphansi kwesitayela kanye nemigomo yenkampani, kodwa cha, abantu abavame ukungayinaki imithetho elula. Vele, umqashi angaba namahloni amaningi, futhi awukwazi ngisho nokuqagela ngakho, ngokwesibonelo, i-tattoo yakho emangazayo endaweni evelele kungenzeka ibe yisithiyo enkampanini enkulu kanye nesikhundla esifanele, yize namuhla uhlaka lokubukeka lukhona iguqulwe kakhulu. Hlala ugxila enkampanini ethile bese uzama ukukhetha isithombe esizolingana ngangokunokwenzeka.