Ochwepheshe bezengqondo baqoshwa ngokuphuthumayo ngokuqeqeshwa ku-EnneGram - 2019 Psychoanalysis Trend. Igagasi lothando ohlelweni lwezinkomba zethule iBlarusian Blogger Anna Protasova, ikhasi lakhe ku-Instagram selivele libhalisile ababhalisile abangu-2.6. "Ibhulogi yanikeza ababhalisile, kepha bangazethemba wena, thanda futhi bangaqapheli. Ngesaba ukudalula izindleko zami - futhi ngahamba nge-haip. Ngangesaba ngokwami uqobo (kuzo zonke izinzwa). " Le ntombazane ivuma ukuthi i-enneagram yashintsha impilo yakhe ngamadigri angama-180. Ufuna futhi? Ilungele ukutshela izisekelo zokuthayipha kulokhu kusetshenziswa.
Thatha iqiniso
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Kungani kudingeka wazi uhlobo lwakho
Uma unomuzwa wokuthi uwela ngokweqile - uvame ukugqoka imaski ngenxa yokungavikeleki noma, kunalokho, qhubeka ungabheki nxazonke - zonke le nkulumo ngezinkinga zangaphakathi ezixazulula i-psychoanalysis. I-Enneagraph izosiza ekuboneni ukuthi yimiphi imigomo eyiqiniso oyicasulayo empilweni, futhi uqaphele ukwesaba kwakho okungafihla ngokujulile ekuqondeni kwakho. Uzofunda ukuthi unganquma kanjani isidingo esifanayo sokubukeka kwabantu - ukushukuma kwabo, ukubukeka kobuso kanye nemishwana ejwayelekile. Kuyathakazelisa iqiniso?
Unganquma kanjani
Sekukonke, ezinhlotsheni ze-enneagram 9 - Unganquma ukuhlolwa okuthuthukile kwi-Intanethi noma ubheke itafula lethu elihlanganisiwe:
Amayunithi - Okulungile ngokuphelele abafuna ukuthuthukisa umhlaba nganoma iyiphi indlela engenzeka. Unomthwalo wemfanelo, uhloniphekile futhi abucayi - avame ukucasulwa inketho yabantu kanye nokuntuleka kwesifiso sokwenza umsebenzi nge-100%. Zitholakala ngenkulumo ehamba kancane - ukucabanga ngokoqobo futhi kunesisindo ngawo wonke amagama, ungaphikisani namazwi akho, kepha ngaphakathi cishe akukaze kuvumelane nombono womunye umuntu.
Okubili - Ohlelweni lwe-enamems babizwa ngokuthi "abasizi", ngoba amawele athambekele ekuvezeni izifiso nezidingo zabanye abantu ngaphambi kwezabo. Kubalulekile ukubona ukuqina kwabo - isidingo salabo abaseduze kwabo nokunakekelwa, sithola okufanayo ekuphenduleni. Banenkumbulo enhle - khumbula noma yini encane ngawe, zama ukudala izimo ezintofontofo kuwe. Ngabo bathokomele futhi bengqondo, uze ubonise isidingo sakho kubo.
UTroika - I-Wordaholics yeqiniso. Imvamisa basebenza kuze kube wukukhathala, ungazazi izinyathelo futhi agwitha umphumela. Banamakhono wesethulo - bafaka imaski ehlukile, kuya ngemvelo. Kubalulekile ukuba babone ukuthi abantu bayanconywa futhi bafakwa esibonelweni - kaTrok, lo muzwa ulingana nothando. Susa abantu ezenzweni, futhi ngisho namaphrojekthi ayinkimbinkimbi kakhulu enziwa ngaphandle kogqozi.
Okune - Ungafuni ukufana nawo wonke umuntu, zama ukugqama esixukwini futhi ukhethekile emehlweni abanye. Njalo ziqhathanise nabanye, bavame ukuba nomona futhi bathambekele ekudaleni izinkinga ezincane kakhulu. Ingokomzwelo futhi ebona izidingo zemizwa ejulile - lesi yisizathu sokudlula kwabo.
Ubuwazi wena? Uma ufuna sitshele ezinye izinhlobo ezi-5 - Bhala kumazwana.
Thola indlela kunoma yimuphi umuntu
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Ungayisebenzisa kanjani umhlobiso
Ukwazi izinhlobo zabantu nezidingo zabo, ungathola indlela ngokoqobo kunoma yimuphi umuntu. Leli khono libalulekile ezingxoxweni zokusebenzela, ukuxhumana nabobulili obuhlukile nokukhulisa izingane. Njengoba uchaze uhlobo, ngeke ungenise ama-pranks ayisishiyagalombili noma ucele kathathu ukuphonsa konke futhi uphumule - uqonde izidingo eziyisisekelo zomuntu futhi uzuze ukuqonda okuphelele. Ukukhuphuka kwengane, ungaba umngane wakhe omkhulu futhi ungaphuli umuntu ngobuncane obumnene ngaphansi kwengcindezi yawo. Ngeke usakhathazeka ngezenzo zabantu ngaphandle kokucabanga nezenzo zakho, kepha baqonde isisusa sabo. Konke lokhu kuzokwenza ube ngumuntu ohlakaniphe ngokwengeziwe futhi ovumelanayo.