- Lena, uyakholelwa othandweni ekuqaleni kokubona?
ULena Lenin: "Ukuhlakanipha kwamaNdiya kuthi ukukhangwa yizidumbu kubangela isifiso, ukuheha imiphefumulo kuvusa ubungani, ukuheha ingqondo kuvusa inhlonipho, futhi ukuxhumana kwengqondo kuvusa inhlonipho, futhi ukuxhumana kwalawa madiphozithi amathathu kudala uthando. UVladimir Mayakovsky wabona uthando ngenye indlela: "Uthando - lokho kusho ukuthi kujule egcekeni ukuze ugijime ebusuku bemoto, izembe elicwebezelayo, ukukala izinkuni, amandla okudlala kwakho ...". Wonke umuntu uyakuqonda uthando ngendlela yakhe, futhi labo ababengenalo ithuba lokukuthola, belinde lesi sikhathi esimnandi ngokucwila kwenhliziyo nangokwesaba izinhlungu ezizayo. Kepha njengoba amadoda ahlakaniphile awafinyelelanga esiphethweni esingalingani, luyini uthando, abanye bamukela uthando olunothando lothando lwangempela ngokubheka kwangempela. I-magic euphoria yalo muzwa nayo ayilindelekile njengengozi emigwaqweni. Umphumela wezimanga uvimbela ukulawula isimo kuzona zombili izimo. Ingqondo yethu, ukungabi nesikhathi sokulungisa ukuzivikela okuvikelayo, kusenza sidideke, izisulu ezingenakuzivikela futhi ezihehayo "zengozi". Ezinye izimo zothando zithatha uthando ekuqaleni kwesipho sesibhakabhaka. Eqinisweni, lokhu kuzwakala kulalela ngokusobala imithetho yokungakholelwa ukuthi uNkulunkulu ukhona, i-biochemistry kanye ne-psychology. Ngokusho kwe-psychoanalysts, ngokwesibonelo, ukuheha okunemibandela esimweni sothando ekuqaleni kususelwa ezinkumbulweni ezingazi lutho lapho amavoti amasha, iphunga, imizwa, imizwa edilikile. Futhi uthando ekuqaleni kokubona luyisikhumbuzo esithile somhlangano wokuqala ngokuphila. Ngokusho kochwepheshe bezenhlalo, uthando oluhlangene ekuqaleni kokubheka njalo kwenzeka kubantu bezinga elilodwa lenhlalo. Ngamunye wethu wengxenyana yesibili eskena sokuqala okuzayo futhi unquma ukuthi ungowokuphela kweqembu lezenhlalo kanye "nentengo yemakethe yomkhwenyana kanye nomakoti," ngokwakhe uqhathanisa lowo ofaka isicelo naye. Ngakho-ke kuvela ukuthi lowo esithandana naye ekuqaleni kokubona, ngokuzithoba uhlangabezana nokulindela kwethu emphakathini. Izazi zezinto eziphilayo zichaza umuzwa we-euphoria, ezedlula othandweni, ukukhiqizwa kwe-endorphin, i-hormone, esebenza njenge-amphetamine futhi kubangele injabulo yocansi. Kungaphansi kwesenzo saleli hormone ekuqaleni kwabathandi bezinkanuko kuhlale kugcwele omunye nomunye, abakwazi ukukhuluma futhi benze uthando inombolo irekhodi kanye. Lesi simo senjabulo engapheli, isifiso nokuphaphama kusekelwa ama-hormone, ama-amphetamines wemvelaphi yemvelo, ngaphansi kwesenzo lapho umzimba ubala izinto ngendlela eyengeziwe - amathe, i-lubricant kanye nephunga elikhethekile elijabulisayo. Ngakho-ke, ilangabi lothando akulutho nje ngengxoxo yamakhemikhali ngenxa yokushintshana kwama-pheromones. Inani lokuphuzwa ngendlela yothando ekuqaleni kokubuka kukhuluImininingwane evela embonweni nangokuzwa kokuzwa okulawula amaphesenti amane kuphela amaseli obuchopho, kepha iphunga lihlaziywa yi-subconscious, elawula amaphesenti ayisishiyagalolunye nesithupha! Le ndlela kuvela ukuthi iphunga elijabulisayo le-pheromon liyisici esinqumayo ekukhetheni umlingani ongaba khona. Lapho owesilisa ejwayelene nowesifazane, ebuchosheni bakhe, ngaphandle kwabanye, isibonakaliso ngendlela yokuhogela, ukuguqula, kuholela ekushintsheni kwezinqubo ze-biochemical emzimbeni wendoda. Kwenyusa inani le-testosterone, elicindezela owesilisa abe yi-features. Kowesifazane, lapho, lapho esethole isibonakaliso esifanele esimnandi, inani le-estrogen liyakhuphuka, futhi ngokushesha liba nomusa futhi lithambekele emgodini womnikazi waleli phunga. Isitho esiphambene, esesimweni sokuhlukaniswa kwabantu, sibona kuphela iphunga lezocansi, elithi, njengeminwe noma amasosha omzimba womuntu, linye. Abantu ngokuzithoba bafuna ababambisene nabo ngokungafani ne-immunotype yabo, ebavumela ukuba babe nenzalo enempilo. Iphunga liyakwazi ukudala izinkumbulo, i-antipathy, injabulo, ukuguqulwa kwemizwa ngisho nokuzithoba okubhaliselwe khona lapho kunesifo. Imimoya eyeqile nama-deodorants babulala iphunga lemvelo lomuntu futhi likuvikele. Kepha uthando ekuqaleni kokubona ngeke luhlale kuze kube phakade. Ososayensi bathi esimweni esinjalo sabantu abaningi ngokweqile ama-hormone acunula isimo se-INANAMEE, avuse ubuchopho kanye nokuphela kwezinzwa. Lesi simo sinqunyelwe ngesikhathi futhi sihlala kusukela ezinyangeni eziyi-18 kuya ku-3. Ibanga noma ukwahlukanisa isikhathi eside kunganweba lo muzwa. Kepha nokhongqondo ngeke kuhlale isikhathi eside esimweni esijabulisayo. Ngemuva kwesikhathi esithile, ubuchopho buvumelana, futhi izinga lokufihlakele labelwe labo futhi lidlala indima ye-doping incishisiwe. Umkhuba nesibhakabhaka sesikhombisa akuhambelani. "
- Yini eluleka labo abakholelwa othandweni ekuqaleni kokubona?
ULena Lenin: "Uma ungazange udumaze othandweni" lwaphezulu "ekuqaleni ubona futhi ufuna ukuhlangana naye, khona-ke uthola umthetho wezihlanu" O ". Owokuqala "O" - Vula amehlo akho uthuke futhi ubheke ngokucophelela lawo madoda abhekene nawo nsuku zonke. Okwesibili "O" - ukunikela izakhiwo nokudangala, ngoba akukho lutho olukhangayo olungafani nowesifazane oluyishwa olunezinkinga zezinkinga. Okwesithathu "O" - Kumahhala ekuqashweni nasekuqineni kobuchopho, ngoba lowo omatasa njalo engaboni lutho futhi adlula okuhle. Okwesine "O" - Qaphela ukufakwa kanye nezethulo ze-stereotypical. Futhi owesihlanu "O" - Oh, funda, ekugcineni, ukunikela ngaphambi kokuthola! Futhi-ke uthando lwakho oluphilayo oluphila ngokubona kwakho okufisayo luyophenduka umqondo wokuqala, ojulile, ophakade wokubambisana, inhlonipho, ubungani nothando. "