Yize abantu bavame ukugxila ezicini eziningi ezinhle zobudlelwano obunempilo, kubalulekile futhi ukulwa nokubi, ikakhulukazi lapho ukuziphatha okubi kuguqulwa ubuthi kanye nokuphathwa kabi. Udlame ebudlelwaneni lungathatha izindlela ezahlukahlukene. Ngaphezu kodlame lomzimba, kukhona nodlame olungokomzwelo nolonangqondo, okunzima ngokwengeziwe ukubona. Abesifazane, ngokuya ngezibalo, zivame ukukhombisa. Kuhle ukuqaphela ukuthi sinobuqili futhi sivame ukusizakala ngosizo lokukhohlisa. Sihlanganise uhlu lwezimpawu eziyisisekelo zobudlelwano obungenampilo:
"Uyangikhokhela isikhathi esincane"
Umuzwa wokuvuselelwa kwabantu abavela kubantu abaseduze kwakho ifulege elibomvu. Mhlawumbe zikwenza uzizwe uncike ngokuphelele kubo noma usole ngenxa yokuthi uchitha isikhathi nabanye. Akunandaba ukuthi bakwenza kanjani, umlingani wakho akufanele akwenze uzizwe uzizwe uhlukaniswe nomndeni, abangane kanye nabanye abantu abaseduze.
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"Woza, uye ezintombini zakho, zingcono"
Noma umhawu ungokwemvelo futhi awunakugwemeka ezimweni ezithile, futhi kungathi abuhlungu ngokuya ngokuthi wena noma umlingani wakho ubhekana kanjani nemizwa. Umhawu uyingozi ikakhulukazi lapho isetshenziswa njengezaba zezenzo zokuphathelene, ezinolaka noma ezilawulayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umhawu owedlulele ungakhomba ukuntuleka kokuzethemba, okunobuthi kunoma iyiphi inhlonipho.
"Uphinde waphanga konke"
Uma kukhulunywa ngezinsolo, wonke umuntu ulahlekelwa. Masinyane ususa umuzwa wecala lapho ukushayisana kwenkinga kungakuvumeli wena nomlingani wakho balalele omunye nomunye futhi baxazulule inkinga ndawonye. Noma ngabe bakusola, okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo kwangaphambilini noma omunye umuntu, ukungakwazi ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo ngezenzo zabo - uphawu olubi.
"Sidinga ukukhuluma ngokungathi sína"
Izingxabano ezedlulele ngentshiseko akufanele zidideke. Noma ngabe izimpikiswano zibonakala zingelutho, kuvame ukuxabana okuncane kungakhombisa inkinga ejulile. Uma uhlala ukhulisa izwi lakho komunye nomunye, ungaba nezinkinga ezingalungiswa kwezokuxhumana.
"Yebo, lapho usuvele ukhula"
Okuhehayo komunye nomunye njengamaphrojekthi, hhayi abantu kuyinhlekelele. Akukuhle maqondana nani nobabili nizama ukuguqula umlingani kwinguqulo yakho yomuntu ophelele. Yize ngayinye inezindawo ezingathuthukiswa, imizamo yokushintsha izici eziphambili zomunye nomunye - uphawu lokuthi awuhambelani.
Abesifazane abahlekisayo abajabulisi kunoma ngubani
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Uma wena noma othile ovela kuwe ebudlelwaneni obuhlaselayo ngokomzwelo, ngokomzwelo noma ngokwengqondo, ungesabi ukucela usizo. Izinsizakusebenza zamahhala nezimfihlo ezinjenge-hotline ngodlame lwasekhaya noma ezikhungweni zenhlekelele zingakunikeza usizo nokusekelwa okudingekayo ukubuyisela ukulawula impilo yakho.