Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi igama elithi "igumbi lokulala" livela egameni elithi "ukulala", ukulala kukude nesifundo kuphela, elifanele kule ndawo. Ake sibize i-Bednoom Playerly - "Igumbi lokulala". Ngempela, igumbi lokulala lingenye yamakamelo obulilie kunazo zonke endlini. Kulapha lapho singalahlekelwa "imaski" futhi ekugcineni, thina thina uqobo, sijabulela imichilo yothandekayo wakho. Kepha nokho igumbi lokulala liyindawo lapho kungekhona khona konke okuvunyelwe. Ezinye izinto ezenziwa ngabesifazane embhedeni akuzona nje ezingathandeki, kepha azivunyelwe. Yini lezi zinto, futhi kungani zingabhubhisa ubuhlobo bakho?
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Ngitshele "cha" ubudlelwane egumbini lokulala
Igumbi lokulala liyindawo yokusondela okusondelene kwabathandi ababili, futhi ukungacacisi ubudlelwano. Kudluliswa i- "Flight Diskey" egumbini lokulala, uyazibeka engcupheni yokuyiguqula kusuka ku- "sexy" ungene "ngomlomo". Ngokusho kwezibalo, ngababili abavame ukufunga egumbini lokulala, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, bayeke ukubona leli gumbi njengendawo ukuze lisondelene. Lokhu kuthinta kabi impilo yocansi yalombhangqwana kanye nokuthuthukiswa kobudlelwano bebonke.
Vumela igumbi lokulala libe uhlobo "lwesiqhingi sobumnene" kuwe, lapho kungekho khona indawo yokufunga nokuthuka. Indawo lapho uthando, uthando kanye nobumnandi bukhoma. Lokhu kuzokusiza uqinise ubudlelwano nothandekayo wakho, ubenze bavumelane ngokwengeziwe.
Musa ukwenza inqubo "ye-brake"
Abesifazane nabesilisa babona inqubo esondelene kakhulu ngezindlela ezihlukile. Futhi uma ingqondo yeduna ngesikhathi sezocansi, imvamisa "icisha", khona-ke insikazi, kunalokho, iyasebenza, ifuna ukuqashelwa othandweni lwaphakade. Kodwa-ke, izifiso ezingokomoya ezinjalo zivame ukudala ukusabela okuphambene nalokhu: Umuntu obona ukusondela okusondelene njengenqubo yokunqoba owesifazane, uzizwa edidekile.
Yebo, "ukudlula" izingxoxo ngothando kuthathwa ngamadoda ngokufana nokuthi "braking" wenqubo. Ngakho-ke, ngesikhathi sokusondelana okukhulu, zama ukugxila kukho, futhi izingxoxo mayelana nemizwa zithuthela endaweni efanelekile yalokhu.
Igumbi lokulala - Indawo yokusondela okusondelene kwabathandi ababili, futhi ungacacisi ubudlelwano
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Ungakubekezeleli lokho okukungemnandi
Ucansi - Into ehlukene, kanye nalezo zinto ezifana nomlingani oyedwa angemukeleki kolunye. Kepha ngasizathu simbe, abesifazane banamuhla bavame ukuthandwa ukukhuthazelela izikhathi ezingemnandi zokusondela okusondelene, futhi kwesinye isikhathi ngisho nokuvalwa kwamehlo abo emizweni ebuhlungu. Ukuze ucansi ukuletha injabulo kubo bobabili abalingani, okokuqala, kuyadingeka ukusungula ubudlelwano bokuthembana nendoda. Kumele alalele izifiso zakho, zibahloniphe, zikuphathe njenge-crystal vase. Kuleli cala kuphela ubudlelwano obuzokhula bunobumbano ngangokunokwenzeka.
Ukufeza ubudlelwane obunjalo bendoda, ngesikhathi sokusondela kokuqala okusondele kubalulekile ukuze kusondele. Akufanele kwenzeke ngaphambi kwesikhathi, kepha futhi nokubambezela isikhashana. Uma ukwazile ukuguqula ubulili bokuqala bendoda esitsheni esifiselekayo nesilindelwe isikhathi eside, lapho-ke kuzokuxhumana nawe njengendlovukazi.
Musa ukushesha ngokweqile
Ungabi ngokweqile ngokweqisayo, ubheka ukuthi indoda kuphela okufanele 'izame' embhedeni, futhi ngasikhathi sinye uzoyithatha i-caress. Indima 'ye-Women-Logs ", elele embhedeni ngaphandle kokunyakaza, ingenye yezindima ezingezinhle kakhulu zowesifazane. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ucansi luwukuthi, okokuqala, ukushintshaniswa kwamandla, nokwanelisa hhayi okubuyisayo, ngeke kwenzeke ukuvumelanisa ukuvumelana.
Ngasikhathi sinye, ecansini akudingekile ukuba ube ne-altruis ngokuphelele, ukucela umuntu wakho "ngazo zonke izindlela" futhi uzama ukummangaza ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ukuziphatha okunjalo akuyona isimilo sowesifazane ofuna ukunqoba.
Ngesikhathi sokusondela okusondelene, landela iGolden Middle. Ukuthatha amakhosi endodeni nokumnika ukubuyisa, ungazizwa ubunye obukhethekile obuzokusiza ukuba usondele.
Ungabeki injabulo kamunye
Uma embhedeni nomuntu wakho othandekayo awufinyeleli "apo waboe", ungayeki ukuhamba kule ndlela. Iqiniso ngukuthi abesifazane abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ama-orgasms awekho ngabo, futhi alale e-Interia. Eqinisweni, ukufezekiswa kwesiphetho kuyindaba yokuzijwayeza kanye nokuqeqeshwa okungapheli. Njengoba sesifunde umuntu kangcono, uzoqala ukumethemba, uvuleke ngokuphelele futhi ufunde ngaphandle kokucindezela ukuze uxoxe ngokuphila kwakho okusondelene: okuthandayo lokho - cha, kepha yini ongathanda ukuzama.
Abesifazane abangalingisi ama-orgasms, amadoda akwazisa kakhulu. Ngemuva kwakho konke, kubalulekile kubo hhayi ukuthola kuphela, kodwa futhi nokunikeza injabulo.
Ukwenza "Imithetho Yokuziphatha" egumbini lokulala, uzokwazi ukuvumelanisa ubudlelwano nomuntu wakho othandekayo ngangokunokwenzeka, funda ukumethemba futhi ulethe injabulo yangempela komunye nomunye.