Iminyaka engu-2-4: Ungaphazamisi ukudlala kwengane
Lapho eneminyaka engu-2-4 ubudala, izingane zivela izimfihlo zemvelo. Imvamisa kubonakaliswa ngesikhathi somdlalo. Ezinganeni, umdlalo uhlobo lwensimu, lapho kuvela khona umhlaba wawo. Ngakho-ke, ingane ayifuni ukungena ngaphakathi komunye umuntu, ngisho nabazali bayo. Uma ngesikhathi somdlalo uza enganeni ngokombono womdala futhi ubuze: "Hhayi-ke, wenzani lapho?" - Ingane iyakuvala ngokushesha. Lapho uzobonisa kaningi ukuletha umhlaba wakhe ngemibuzo yakho, kuthule kuzodlala futhi kuzovela "amabhulona" kakhudlwana. Ngakho-ke, into elungile kakhulu ukukhombisa ubumnandi bese ubukela ingane nje ishicilelwe.
Iminyaka engu-4-6: Icebo elingaphezulu - ukukhathazeka okungaphansi
Ngalesi sikhathi, ingane iyakuqonda ukuthi kunezenzo ezithile ezingeke zavunywa ngabazali bazo. Ngeke azwakale, athi kuye azoxosha noma agcwale. Ngenxa yalokhu, ingane yadalwa yi-niche yezengqondo, lapho iqala khona ukuba khona, ongazisebenzisi abazali bakhe. Impendulo enkulu, okuvame kakhulu kunokushoda nokuthula kwezinye izinto. Ekugcineni, ingane ijwayela ukufihla okuthile, futhi impilo yakhe iyavela. Okufanele ngikwenze? Ukubona ukuthi ingane ikutshelani, kufanele: Mlalele ngokucophelela, mnikeze isikhathi futhi ubonise ubuhlakani obukhulu nokukhathazeka okungaphansi.
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Iminyaka engu-7-14 ubudala: Ungesabi ukuxhumana nochwepheshe
Ngalesi sikhathi, kunokususwa kancane kubazali, ngakho-ke inani lezimfihlo likhula ngokuqinile. Imvamisa bahlobana nobudlelwano phakathi kwabantu nothando lokuqala. Kungumnyaka, ngokuya ngezibalo, uhlelo olunzima kakhulu lwengqondo: ingane enobudlelwano othembekile nabazali, ingafihla izinto ezinkulu, iqala ngokuhlanganyela emiphakathini ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi esiyaziyo , ukudalula impilo yengozi yezingane. Ngakho-ke, uma ingane iziphatha kabi, kuyadingeka, kubonise ubuhlakani, futhi kwesinye isikhathi amakhono umpheme umphenyi, ukufika eqinisweni. Ungesabi ukuheha izazi zengqondo zezingane.
Iminyaka engu-14-18: Ngokuya ngevenu ukuze ube segagasi elilodwa
Ingane vele izwakala njengendoda endala. Ukubona kuphela kanye nawe, uzokwazi ukusungula ukuxhumana naye. Njengoba osemusha, kufanele ube segagasi elifanayo, ngoba ebusheni, inani lezimfihlo zifinyelela uphawu lwaso oluphezulu. Zonke ezifihlayo: imicabango, imizwa, okuhlangenwe nakho. Inhloso yengane ukuvala imaskhi futhi akekho noyedwa okhombisa noma yini. Ukuze bazi okungenani ingxenye yalemfihlakalo yempilo, abazali kudingeka baqonde ukuthi ingane ikhule futhi ungavumelana naye. Kulesi sikhathi, kuyadingeka ukunikeza ithuba lokuphendula okuthile, okungukuthi, ukumnika umkhawulo emkhakheni othile, ngokwesibonelo, inqubo yokufunda, umsebenzi wesikhashana. Ngakho-ke kuzoqala ukukhulisa ukuzethemba emandleni abo, futhi ngeke azwe abantu abadala kuphela, kodwa futhi nokuqonda ukuthi ubonakale ngabantu abaseduze.