Abesifazane benza konke ukuze bahlale bekhangayo kubobulili obuhlukile. Odokotela bezengqondo bakholelwa ukuthi abanye ukungapheleli kwabesifazane, ukubukeka nangomlingiswa, bayakwazi ukuthakazelisa umuntu. Sikucebisa kakhulu ukuthi ujwayelane nohlu, ezinye izinto zingakumangaza.
Amakhilogremu angeziwe - hhayi umusho
Kuyiqiniso, inkinga yesisindo ngokweqile idinga ukuxazululwa ngokuzimela kwesimo somuntu, kepha abanye besifazane abahlushwa ukukhuluphala okuqinile - bamane bangajabuli ngamafolda esiswini noma ezinhlangothini. Sikhuluma ngaleli cala. Amadoda amaningi ayahlanya ngesimo sobuhle kusuka kwisembozo sejenali, kepha cishe akunakwenzeka ukuthola owesifazane onjalo empilweni iningi lalawa madoda, futhi angadingi. Ngokusho kwezibalo, ama-60% amadoda alungele ukubekezelela amakhilogremu angaphezulu kwengxenye yawo yesibili, uma nje ubanjwa nguye uqobo, ngoba siyazi ukuthi isikhumba se-cellulite nesikhumba esincanyana singaba njengowesifazane omkhulu nesikhumba esincanyana.
Misa ukugxeka
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Amabele amancane
Ama-Stereotypes mayelana namabele amahle kakhulu esocansi asuka ngokushesha amakhanda abesilisa. Ngokusho kokuvota, amadoda akhetha isifuba sefomu elihle, futhi ubukhulu bude nento esemqoka. Uma ufuna ukudala ukunconywa engxenyeni yesibili, funa ukuzivocavoca kwendawo ye-neckline ukuqinisa izicubu zakho zesifuba futhi unikeze ifomu lokuyenga ngaphezulu.
Ukungapheleli okuncane
Ingabe unezindebe ezicashile? Ekhaleni elivelele? Yijike ku-chip yakho. Amadoda angumfanekiso ononodoli ononodoli onesikrini esincane, izindebe ze-chubby namazinyo okufakelwa okuyisigamu esinamandla futhi ngakho-ke kancane kancane "kancane". Ungasusi ubuntu bakho.
Ungafihli isifiso sakho sokudla
Abesifazane abaningi badidanisa ukudla phakathi kwendoda yabo. Futhi ngeze. Ngokuqonda komuntu, owesifazana odla izifiso ngesakhiwo esikhangayo kunentombazane enesihluku esihlafuna isaladi elilodwa, ngoba isifiso esihle sokudla sikhuluma ngempilo enhle, nangomuntu yinto ebalulekile - enomlingani obalulekile Ungajoyina ubuhlobo ngokuphepha futhi uphinde wakhe umndeni.
Indoda kungenzeka ingaboni lokho ongakubekezeleli wena
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-Qhumayo
Kuyiqiniso, owesifazane onamahlisayo akamthandi muntu, kepha lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele uvumelane nendoda yakho kukho konke. Ukulalela kwakho kuyakukhuthaza isifiso sakhe. Indoda ibalulekile ukubona indlela osabela ngayo emicimbini ethile, futhi kwezinye izimo afuna ukuthola ukuthi angakwazi yini 'ukuluma', kulokhu, unikezwe i-seeli, unikezwa.