Ngisanda kutshela iphupho, elilunywe nesaziso, ngicela ungafundi. Kodwa-ke, ukuhumusha kwakhe, engizonikela ngakho, ukumangala okunenjongo.
"Umyeni wami wangitshela ukuthi kufanele sibulale ingane yethu encane. Waletha izimpikiswano, kepha angibakhumbuli. Ingane yanquma ukunikeza ubuthi. Ukuqiniseka ukuthi ingane izofa ngaphandle kokuhlushwa, sabulala ingane yomunye umuntu, safaka ibhokisi elilula futhi langcwatshwa.
Bengicabanga ukuthi ngizoba nesikhathi sokususa umyeni wakhe noma ngifihle ingane, kodwa kungazelelwe ngabona ezandleni zakhe ibhokisi lomngcwabo omncane futhi omuhle kakhulu futhi wabona ukuthi wayesevele wambulala. "
Kunezinhlobo ezintathu zokutolika ezinganikezwa iphupho ongalikhetha kulo.
Esokuqala sisobala kakhulu. Sikhuluma ngokungqubuzana kwezingxoxo zangempela, izingxoxo ngempilo nokufa kwengane. Mhlawumbe sikhuluma ngokukhipha isisu. Mayelana nokuba noma ukungakhulelwa. Mhlawumbe uma bekungekho okuhlangenwe nakho okunjalo empilweni yokuhlangenwe nakho okunjalo, khona-ke ephusheni abona ukungqubuzana komndeni owantshisayo lapho kufinyelela khona. Mhlawumbe lolu ulwazi lwayo olunembile lwempilo yakhe / hhayi impilo, lapho abazali bakhe okuxoxiswe khona. Noma ingabe ukungqubuzana komunye umuntu emndenini lapho kutholakala khona okunembile.
Uhlobo lwesibili Kuhlobene neqiniso lokuthi abazali bangaphakathi bafuna ukuxhumanisa ingane yakhe. Imfundiso yakhe, ngokuziphatha ihlukumeze impilo yayo, ingxenye ephumelelayo. Le ngxabano yaziwa ngabaningi abaye baphambukile ngokukhuliswa okuqinile kanye nohlelo oluyinkimbinkimbi lwenqatshelwe, izijeziso lapho babeyizingane, intsha, izinsizwa.
Uhlobo lwesithathu Ngokubona kwami, okumangazayo kakhulu. UKarl Jung ukhulume ukuthi enqubweni yokukhulisa izingxenye zethu ezithambile, ezifuywayo zomphefumulo kufanele zife, noma kunalokho, ukuze zizuze. Ukuthambisa kwethu, ukukhululeka, umlutha, impilo ekukhohlisweni kwezingane kufanele anikeze indawo yokuthatha isinqumo, umthwalo wemfanelo, amandla okwenza isenzo nokubekezelela imiphumela yalezi zenzo.
Mhlawumbe naphezu kokwethuka kokuqukethwe, iphupho lamaphupho ukuthi izingcezu ezithambile zomphefumlo wakhe ziyafa, zinikeza izitho ezivuthiwe nezindala. Konke lokhu kwenzeka ngenxa yezinkinga ezibalulekile futhi uzibuze ngokwazo endleleni yokuphila. Shiya iphupho ngokuzikhethela, okuthi yimiphi yezinguqulo kungenzeka kakhulu.
Futhi amaphupho akho?
Izibonelo zamaphupho akho Thumela ngeposi: [email protected]. Indlela, amaphupho kulula kakhulu ukuwaveza uma encwadini eya kumhleli obaluleke kakhulu uzobhalela izimo zokuphila ezandulelayo, kepha okubaluleke - imizwa ngesikhathi sokuvuka Kuleli phupho.
UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin