Ukwembula isifaniso sokulala kulokhu, ngizokutshela okuncane ngowesifazane omthumile. Kulesi sigaba, nomyeni wakhe, ukhuluma ngesehlukaniso. Kwedlule inqubo ebalulekile, ejulile yokuzazi nocwaningo ukuze azovuma ekugcineni ukuthi ubuhlobo nomyeni wakhe buyinto ethile yokuyekethisa. Ukubalekela kuwe, kusuka ekukhanzweni, kusukela ekukhazimuleni kwempilo. Isivumelwano sabo buthule iminyaka embalwa edlule bekuzokwakha ubukhona obuthule ngokuzayo ndawonye futhi ngaphandle kokushaqeka ukudala ubukhona bokuthula: ukwakha impilo enobuhle, ukuhlela impilo enobudlova, ukuze bakwazi ukuzola futhi kuwo wonke amazinga a impilo ehloniphekile ndawonye. Yileso sikhathi nje lesi sivumelwano saveza ukwenqatshwa iqiniso lomuntu siqu: Ukusuka engcupheni, ekutholeni amaphrojekthi amasha anelisa ngempela futhi amukelekile emsebenzini, ehamba, ngokuxhumana. Manje amaphupho ethu ayazi ukuthi akusifaneli ukuthi athuthele ezifisweni zangempela, aze anciphise. Inkontileka yabo ethule yasungulwa ekwenqatshelwe ingxenye yezifiso zayo kanye nama-drenards, kodwa manje yathola futhi yakulungele ukuzenza ngokwengeziwe, kufaka phakathi izivunguvungu zayo, izinkanuko, ukusesha, ukusesha.
Imvamisa emishadweni yomshado isheke elingathi sína le nyunyana. Lapho, embhangqwana, othile uthatha umsebenzi wokuhlakulela mathupha, owesibili, njengomthetho, uthatha isikhundla esiqinile sokulondolozwa kokulondolozwa kwezenziwe, kwakha ukuphikisana nezinguquko ezisolwa ukuthi zizonakalisa umshado wazo.
Ngokuvamile, ukusesha komuntu siqu komunye wabashadikazi kuvame ukubonwa abanye njengosongo ekuhlangenwe nakho okuhlangene okwedlule. Futhi lokhu kwesaba nezinsongo kukhanya kunokuba umbhangqwana onamandla afihle izifiso zabo zeqiniso, izinhloso, izifiso kanye nezifiso. Ukusuka lapho kanye nokucabanga ukuthi ukukhula komuntu siqu kothile kuzobhubhisa noma ngubani, ngoba kakhulu ukuthi abashaye abashadikazi baqale ukusho okuthile abasafuni ukubukela isikhathi eside nangokuqinile. By the way, akusiso njalo ukusongelwa kokuhlukanisa nokuqhuma. Ukushiya umuntu kuyinto enamandla futhi evame ukwenziwa. Ngaphansi kokwesaba ukwahlukanisa, abaningi basagcina ubudlelwane babo bokuyekethisa, ukuqhubeka nokuhamba edlule lezo nezindawo eziphula ibhalansi entekenteke.
Kodwa-ke, ukuqwashisa nothando ngokufuna kwabo injabulo nencazelo yomuntu siqu kuyinselele, lesi yisifundo lapho ngamunye wezingane angayeka ukubambelela omunye futhi aqale ukuzibamba, azinakekele futhi ahlangane ngokuyinhloko izidingo zawo zentuthuko, ulwazi nokucwaninga.. Ngemuva kwalokho omunye umlingani ubengeyena isitha senqubo yonke, kodwa ngesibukeli kanye nomlingani. Noma akenzi, kepha lokhu ukukhetha kwakhe.
Mayelana naleli phupho lamaphupho ethu:
"Isitimela sikabani (esinye) saqhamuka nojantshi. Akunakuqhubeka nokuya, njengoba umhlaba ukhubazekile ngaphansi kwawo (ngikhumbula okuthile okufana nesisekelo esivela ezitini noma emabhuloki ngaphansi kojantshi, futhi bahlanza, bahlala futhi badilizwa) bese behla. Ngibheka ohlangothini futhi ngivele usho ukuthi isitimela asikwazi ukuqhubeka futhi, sizobambeka unomphela. Ngasikhathi sinye, isitimela sami sisendaweni ethile eduzane, futhi konke kulungile ngojantshi
Phambilini, ngangivame ukuphupha ukuthi sengiphuze isitimela, ngigijime, ngiphuthume, ezinye izinto ziqoqe, ngiyakhohlwa, futhi anginaso isikhathi ... nami ngenzeke ngendiza. Manje angikaze ngisebenze isikhathi eside. "
Ukulala kusobala. Akukho cala, kunesitatimende seqiniso sokuthi isitimela saso sisemzilweni, kuyilapho isitimela sakhe sinamathele ngenkathi sinamathela. Futhi akadingi ukumsindisa futhi akubuyisele, akuwona umthwalo wakhe. Umsebenzi wakhe ukuze ube nesikhathi futhi uhlale phansi esitimeleni sakho uhambe ngendlela yabo, akekho omunye umuntu owenzayo.
Uma abantu bebeshadile, ebudlelwaneni, noma bebodwa, babelazi ukuthi bangazibamba kanjani, balandele umbono wabo nemisebenzi yabo, njengoba inani lama-drams nokuhlupheka okungenalutho lalizoncishiswa. Kodwa-ke, le yindlela eyenziwa yiwo wonke umuntu ngejubane layo. Sifisela inhlanhla ephusheni lethu.
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UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin