Kulula ukuwela amacala futhi kuthi kuboshwe ocansini oluhlukile, bathi "Amadoda adlulisiwe" "," Bonke abathandayo banginami bashadile, "futhi ngempela" bonke abantu "... okuningi embhalweni. Izincazelo ezinjalo, yimpela, zithobekile, kepha injabulo ayilethi injabulo empilweni nangobudlelwano obufiselekayo.
Ngemuva kwalokho udinga ukubheka: "Ngenzani lokhu (noma cha) ukuhlala ngedwa?"
Umfundi wethu wahlanganyela ubuthongo bakhe ngalesi sihloko:
"Ngiya emotweni yami, m)! Futhi kusuka kulo lonke umkhawulo ngingena e-jeep enkulu ngemuva kwesondo indoda. Sobabili siyaqonda ukuthi bangena ngengozi enkulu. "
Isibonelo esihle kakhulu sendlela ongaqondakali kwethu esisitshela ukuthi yiliphi iphutha. Empilweni, kaningi asikwazi ukubona ukuthi yiziphi izenzo, amagama aphula imingcele yomunye umuntu, ohlala ezovikela kuphela.
Ukulala kusikisela amaphupho ethu, ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuqaphela futhi uqaphele kakhulu ekuxhumaneni nabesilisa. Mhlawumbe indlela yayo yokuxhumana ibonwa njengokushaya, ukuhlasela. Indoda esephusheni iyazi ukuthi yikuphi ukuxhumana okungokwengozi.
Cabanga ngomzuzu ngokwakho, ubungaphendula kanjani uma ukuzola kwakho kukwephule ngokukhohlisa? Akunakwenzeka ukuthi lo muntu azothakazelisa, akulinge. Ngokunokwenzeka, uzoba ngentukuthelo.
Uma konke kwenzeka empilweni yamaphupho ethu ngendlela efanayo nasekuphusheni, khona-ke awekho amathuba amaningi wobudlelwano besikhathi eside.
Kodwa-ke, ephusheni, uyalawula - okungukuthi, isondo lokuqondisa lempilo yakhe ezandleni zakhe. Isikhathi sokufunda ukwehlisa ijubane.
Mhlawumbe empilweni yansuku zonke kufanelekile ukuthi ufunde ukuphumula futhi usethe kabusha ijubane. Kulokhu, izivivinyo ze-yoga nokuzindla zilungile.
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UMaria Zemmskova, udokotela wezengqondo, udokotela wokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kwesikhungo sokukhulisa sokukhula kukaMarika Khazina