Ngakho-ke i-psyche yethu ihlelwe ukuthi ubuhlungu obungokomzwelo bungabekezeleleki kakhulu, ukuze sikwazi ukubhekana nalo. Ingxenye enkulu yayo ihlala ekuqondeni kwethu, kancane kancane iyaqhekeka futhi iye buthaka. Kodwa-ke, ekuhlangenwe nakho kwethu, okungelona usizi olusaqothulwa phezu kwentukuthelo, ukuzizwa unecala, intukuthelo, ukwenyanya, amahloni, ukudabuka.
Amaphupho ethu asisiza ukuba sibhekane nalala mava, kwesinye isikhathi sikhumbula namaphupho ahambisana nalokhu. Uma sake sasinda eFiasco okuthile: Sasilahla, sabahlekisa, saphonsa konke okwenziwayo - ukuphelelwa yithemba, ukuhlanzeka, intukuthelo kanye nesifiso sokuziphindisela - kuzoqhubeka kucutshungulwa yi-subconscious yethu. Futhi yilokho okuvela.
Ukulala kwabafundi abathile:
"Ngiphuphe ngothando lwami lokuqala, umuntu engingakwazi ukudala ubudlelwano. Wangilahla, kepha isikhathi eside kakade siphuma ekhanda lami, njengento ethile ekahle.
Ngakho-ke, ephusheni, abuyingozi kangako. Kepha namanje angikwazi ukudonsela ukunaka kwakhe, kwenze kube nendaba nami. Sikuhlobo oluthile lwabangane, kepha unamahloni nami ukuxhumana, aziphathe ngesizotha, angaqinisekile. Ngizizwa ngiqiniseka ngokwengeziwe, ngizizwa ngikhange, yize engasho lokho. Kunengxoxo encane phakathi kwethu, sixoxe ukuthi sikulungele ukuxhumana, mnikeze ithuba, uyafaka. Yize ngiqonda ukuthi ngidinga nje umkhaza, angiyidingi. "
Ukulala kusobala, i-Dreamy yethu ifuna indawo yesithandwa sakhe sangaphambili, yize manje sekude. Ephusheni, uyakuqonda lokho akukwenzanga lokhu ngenxa yobudlelwano naye, kodwa ngenxa yokunqoba, ukuze "anikeze ukulethwa" ngohlelo lwezengqondo - ukukwenza, kwenze lufune ukwenqatshwa, yena onolwazi.
Ukulala kukhombisa inqubo ehamba ngaphakathi kwayo, izigaba zokuvalelisa kanye nalowo othandekayo wayo. Kulezi zigaba, intukuthelo ivuliwe, ngoba kulabo abasishiyile, bashiye noma banqabile, sithukuthele ngandlela thile, noma ngabe baboshelwe kakhulu kulo muntu.
Kukufanelekela ukubheka i-heroine yethu, njengoba amaphupho enza umsebenzi omuhle kakhulu - akhulula umphefumulo ovela kolwandle oluthosiwe kanye nentukuthelo, okuphansi kokunye, okuhlangenwe nakho okuthe xaxa.
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UMaria Zemmskova, udokotela wezengqondo, udokotela wokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kwesikhungo sokukhulisa sokukhula kukaMarika Khazina