Ungaphikisana nathi ngokungapheli, kepha sinesikhundla esisodwa: Isixazululo sokushintsha noma akusikho wonke umuntu othatha isikhathi empilweni naphakade. Utshwala noma umlingisi okhazilina noma umlingiswa wakhe "wakhe" akathinti isinqumo somuntu othanda umlingani wawo ngobuqotho uyintombazane noma umfazi. Ngakho-ke sifuna ukukuchazela imishwana ejwayelekile amantombazane nabafana bavumela ukuvukela umbuso ukuvula amehlo abo futhi balungiselele isimo esingenzeka ngakunye. Okukhiphayo - ngena ngesiNgisi.
"Wafika umsila nxazonke, kepha wabheka emehlweni '
Abesifazane bathanda ukubona ezintanjeni ezingaba khona zamazinyo 'ezifuna ukuzuza abalingani bazo. Kuhle uma ukwazisa indoda yakho futhi uyaziqhenya ngalokho akubukeka kukuhle, kuthola futhi kudinga isidingo kwamanye amantombazane. Ngikholwe, yena uqobo uyakuqonda konke ngokwakhe, kodwa ngeke aguquke kuphela ngoba intombazane othandweni ivela eceleni kwakhe. Lapho uphakeme ngokwakho ukuzethemba kwakho kanye nesipiliyoni sempilo esengeziwe, kulapho ufaka khona okunengqondo maqondana nokwezwakala. Angamthanda ngempela ngaphandle, kepha uyakuqonda ukuthi awukwazi ukuba mubi kakhulu uma unakekela umzimba wakho futhi uvame ukuya e-beautician, futhi unento ecebile yangaphakathi futhi unokuthile ongakukhuluma ngakho. Ngakho-ke kunalokho uzokhuluma nawe mayelana nokuthi ungaba ngcono kanjani kunokulandela izimpunguvu zomuntu osebenza naye nentombi.
Ngemuva kwakho konke, uyazi ukuthi awukwazi ukuya ndawo - akunjalo?
"Bonke badinga imali kuye, ngakho-ke bakhuphuka"
Uma ubona indoda yakho njenge-wallet ngemali, sekuyisikhathi sokucabanga ngesimo sakho sengqondo kuye. Yini owesabayo yokulahlekelwa - uthando noma ingcebo? Kucace bha ukuthi ngeminyaka yabesilisa, bazofeza ama-akhawunti abo asebhange, okungenzeka ukuthi amantombazane anesibopho senhlalo ephansi. Kodwa ingabe umlingani wakho akaqondi ukuthi bamphatha kanjani uma enobuchopho ukuze bathole imali enkulu? Ngokushintsha, wazi kahle ukuthi yini ngempela, futhi ejaha ubumnandi obusheshayo, angafuni ukudala ubunzima ekutholeni umlingani omusha ngokuthola umkakhe, okudingeka imali kuphela. Ngemuva kwakho konke, uyazi ukuthi awukwazi ukuya ndawo - akunjalo?
"Kuyiqiniso, nansi impilo yomndeni, kanye nokuzijabulisa"
Kumagazini wabesifazane nasekutifeni, kuvame ukufanela ukuthi ngisho nangemva kokuzalwa kwengane, kufanele ulondoloze imisebenzi yezocansi nomlingani bese uzama ukulahlekelwa ngokushesha, ukube nje wayengakufanele. Engxoxweni, izinkanyezi eziningi zichaza izimbangela zesehlukaniso iqiniso lokuthi unkosikazi ubambone ngezindaba zasekhaya lapho befuna ukuphumula. Kepha akukhona yini kulempilo yomndeni? Akekho umuntu wesifazane, uma elungile ekhanda lakhe, ngeke aphethe umuntu lapho ezama ukumsiza uma kungenzeka futhi abhekane nezingane esikhundleni sokudla ama-TV. Sonke sikhathele, kepha ubuthakathaka kuphela ogijimela ohlangothini lobudlelwano obulula, futhi abantu abajwayelekile banesibopho sesinqumo sokwenza izingane futhi basekele umlingani.
"Angilungile ngocansi"
Ingabe amadoda amaningi aya ekuqeqesheni ngoCunnililings? Emiphakathini eminingi, izingcingo zomlomo ezivela emadodeni zithathwa njengehlazo. Kepha abesifazane yinto yokuqala okufanele bayifunde ukuze batadishe ubuciko bocansi ngomlomo ukuze banelise umlingani. Sikhuluma kakhulu ngokubi kithi, kepha asinaka ukushiyeka komlingani. Esikhundleni sokuzithuka, xoxa naye, uma unakho konke, futhi yini ongathanda ukuyilungisa. Futhi kwenzeka ukuvukela umbuso ekutholeni imizwa emisha kanye nalokho kuyaqhaqhazela, ohlangabezana nakho, ukukhotha embhedeni onesithandwa esisha. Kepha ukujabula, maye, kuyadlula, futhi konke kuza. Uma ungasebenzi ngengxenye yobulili yobudlelwano, ngisho nesibalo esikhulu kunazo zonke kanye nokufutheka okukhulu kuzofanela kube nesithukuthezi.
Sikhuluma kakhulu ngokubi kithi, kepha ungakunaki ukushiyeka komlingani
"Cishe wamgcina"
Futhi endaweni yokugcina kuzoba yisizathu esikuthandayo - uzungu lwemfihlo. Ubuwula balawa magama busobala, kepha umfazi othandweni angakholelwa noma yini uma icima ubuchopho lapho kuziwa ebudlelwaneni bakhe. Misa ukukholelwa kumasiko atshela inhlanhla futhi eyimfihlo eboniswa ezinhlelweni zokuzijabulisa ze-TV, ngoba noma yimuphi usosayensi uzokutshela ukuthi izenzo ezinjalo azinasizathu. Bhekana nodokotela wezengqondo, kepha ungavumeli ama-charlatans akwenze imali kuwe.
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