Namuhla, esikhundleni sokungena okujwayelekile, ngaphambi kwesibonelo ngasinye, ngizokutshela "ukulethelwa", kepha i-anecdote efanelekile.
Indodakazi kaFreud ilandisa uyise:
"Baba, ngabona iphupho kusihlwa, kube sengathi welule ubhanana." Sengivele ngandise izandla zami ukuyombamba, kepha ngaleso sikhathi uMalume u-Gustav uqhamuka futhi welula ubhanana wami kimi. UBanana Malume Gustav wayevuthiwe futhi muhle, futhi wakho wonke wayevilaphaze futhi esenzile mnyama. Ngakho-ke ngathatha i-banana malume gustav nangemva kwalokho ngavuka ngokushesha.
UFreud, ukububula:
- Indodakazi, amaphupho awasho lutho - amaphupho nje ...
Futhi manje iphupho lamaphupho ethu. Ubone kaninginingi ukuthi sifuna kanjani ukubukelwa okufihliwe emaphusheni amaqhawe ethu. Futhi isibonelo sanamuhla, savala leli thuba, ngoba iphupho ngokwalo lazinikela ephusheni ngaphezu kwezimpendulo ezicacile: "Ngithuthela esakhiweni esifana nendawo yomsebenzi wami. Futhi lapho sikhona kanye nomyeni wami baya eClairvoyant yendawo. Uthi kithina ukuthi ungaxazulula imibuzo ye-topical for umbhangqwana wethu. Sidinga ama-erotic empilweni. Leli gama engilikhumbula kahle. Isiphetho: Ubulili - Ukuxazulula izinkinga. "
Hhayi-ke, yini engingangeza lapha? Kungenzeka yini ukuthi iphupho libone lo wesifazane, ngakho-ke, mhlawumbe, umthwalo wemfanelo we-eroticiticism, umdlalo, ukukhathazeka nokuyenga ngobudlelwano nomyeni wakhe kufanele bazabelwe kuye. Esikhundleni sokulindela ukwakheka komlingani, isidingo sokubonakaliswa okungenzeka ukuthi mhlawumbe angaqapheli, ephusheni, naye uncoma ukuthi uthathe isikhundla esisebenzayo kulolu daba.
By the way, ubunzima empilweni yezocansi, ukufakwa kothando kanye nokuntuleka ngokuphelele kokuphila kwezocansi kumabharili omshado kuyinkinga evamile kakhulu. Futhi iphuzu alikho ocansini kanjalo. Ukuqhubeka noma ngabe sidinga ukuya ocansini? Hhayi kaningi, empeleni. Ucansi lukhulu kakhulu kunesifundo nje senjabulo noma ukukhulelwa izingane. Impilo yocansi iyi-prism ecashile lapho abalingani bekhombisa khona isimo sabo sengqondo ukuba sibhekane, kepha ukuba khona komunye nomunye bakhombisa iqiniso labo ngabo: Ukuzijabulisa okubonisa ngokwabo, ukuzijabulisa, nokubonisana nalapho Akuyithandi umlingani. Esigabeni senoveli enesivunguvungu, lo mbhangqwana usebenzisa kalula ubulili ukukhombisa "okungcono kakhulu" ngokwabo futhi uhambise kwenye injabulo. Umdlalo onjalo "emphakathini" ngemuva kwesikhashana ukudinwa, ngakho-ke ubulili, njengeplatifomu yokuhlangana komunye, ngesidingo sokujabulisa umlingani, ulahlekelwa yisikhalo. Isinyathelo esilandelayo mayelana nalokhu ukukhokhela ukuncika kuwe, izifiso zakho, imizwa, izintshisekelo kanye nezivivinyo zingaphezu komphumela olindelekile - ukwaneliseka kozakwethu. Sikhuluma ngocansi, kepha empeleni - kungenzeka ukuba uzijwayeze kuyo yonke imikhakha yempilo. Lapho-ke ubulili buzoba olunye isenzo sothando yena nokudalulwa kwangempela ngaye kuye kwelinye.
Manje ake sibuyele eSnoviditsa. Uke wamtshela ukuthi empilweni futhi ebudlelwaneni wayengeyena i-eroticism eyanele: ubuzwe, i-curaza, isibonakaliso samahhala sokuseduze nokusondelana kakhulu. Yebo, sethemba ukuthi uyazizwa!
Ngiyazibuza ukuthi uphupha ini? Izibonelo zamaphupho akho athumela ngeposi: [email protected]. Ngendlela, amaphupho kulula kakhulu ukuwaveza uma encwadini eya kumhleli uzobhala izimo zokuphila okwandulelayo, kepha okubaluleke kakhulu - imizwa nemizwa ngesikhathi sokuvuka kuleli phupho.
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