Izolo kuphela izolo ushaye ingane ezandleni zakho, futhi namuhla ngokumamatheka okujabulisayo ukugijimela ukusebenza kwazo zonke izikhathi zenza izikhathi zesikhathi esedlule futhi zibe nesikhathi sokususa ihhovisi lakho lomdabu - futhi kuyabonakala. Awudingi ukwakha i-heroine futhi bakhohlise abangane, sengathi awukhathele ingane nakancane futhi ulungele ukuba naye eduze kwayo ngo-24/7. Izazi zezengqondo zichaza ukuthi kungani zineminyaka engu-Aff of Anonyaka ingane sezivele zithathwe yiNanny - sikhuluma ngezimpawu ezi-5 ukuthi awusakwazi ukubhekana nezinga elingokomzimba nangokwengqondo:
Usuku lwangaphambili
Kunzima ukuzixosha enkambisweni, kepha kancane kancane nangokuhleleka "ukuncela", njengexhaphozi. Ekuqaleni awukwazi ukucabanga ukubona isikhathi sokubuka uchungechunge, bese uthola ukuthi ungahlala kanjani phambi kwesikrini ngehora lesihlanu lilandelana futhi udle ama-popcorn, uphuze unhlangothi. Ingane kufanele ibe kuwe ukuba ube yisisusa sentuthuko - khombisa ukuthi yini umama angaba yiyo.
UNGAYInganikele wonke amandla okukhulisa ingane
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Ukuncika kukaMuga
"Sinqume", "Mina Lena. Ngishadile, futhi nginezingane ezintathu, "" Cha, angikwenqabeli, angifuni kimi, "yonke le mishwana ithi ungaphansi kwethonya lomyeni wakho futhi ukhohlwe ngesidingo sokuzikhomba . Ngaphambi kokuhlela ukukhulelwa, bekufanele unakekele inkululeko yethu - ukushiya imali ngephrojekthi yesikhathi esizayo, ukuvumelana ngomsebenzi okude noma wethula isiko lemihlangano nabangane ngoLwesihlanu. Kepha noma ngabe awuzange ukwenze ngaphambili, akukephuzi kakhulu ukuqala.
Ukunganaki nokungabaza ukwenza okuthile
Njengoba esongele ekhumbeni elimnandi lokudla okumnandi kanye nenhlala-kahle yezezimali, ukuwuphula futhi ahambe ngameva ezinkanyezini azifuni nhlobo. Lokho kungenye nje iminyaka engu-5-10, ingabe ingane izotshela abangane ngawe? Umama uphupha ngayo ngokuba ngumqambi, kepha imidwebo yayo ihlala ephepheni kuphela? Noma, esikhundleni sokufunda amaphupho ase-Italian namaphupho ahamba e-Italy, wabuka ividiyo kuphela ku-Yutube? Hlala phansi bese ucabanga ukuthi impilo yakho iqhekeka kanjani ngeminwe yakho ngenkathi udlula ngokwezifiso lesi sinqumo.
Ukucishwa kwengane
Uma unemfundo yokuhamba ngezinyawo kanye nesipiliyoni nezingane, khona-ke ungazikhethela amakilasi afanele engane noma yimuphi unyaka. Kepha uma lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kungenjalo, kuzosebenza kahle kakhulu ukukunikeza amakilasi anochwepheshe noma ukuqasha isidingo esifanele se-nanny - Umqeqeshi wangaphandle, uthisha noma umqeqeshi. Nquma ngohlu lwezintshisekelo bese ubheka umsizi wamapharamitha acacisiwe.
Ama-nannies awasoze aqine
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Ukungathandi ukwenza okuthile
Uhlobo lokugcina noludabukisayo luyimicabango emibi ngamuphi umqondo impilo yakho. Imvamisa bavela ngokumelene nesizinda sokuntuleka kokuxhumana nokulahlekelwa okwedlule nomyeni wakhe. Vala amehlo kubo bese uzama ukuzikholisa ukuthi konke kuhamba kahle - kuyingozi. Bhalisela ukwamukela i-Psychiatrist, bese ushiya ingane kuze kube manje nge-nanny. Ukwelashwa okufika ngesikhathi kuzokubuyisela empilweni nokwenza umbala ngendwangu emnyama nomhlophe ngemibala ekhanyayo.
Kungani uqashe i-nanny? Yabelana ngesipiliyoni sakho nabanye omama kumazwana.