Ukuqala kwempilo yezocansi akunakuhlelwa, kunezici eziningi ezithanda noma eziphazamisa lolu hlelo. Ngokusho kwezibalo, cishe ama-10% amadoda aseRussia aqala impilo yobulili ngemuva kweminyaka engama-25- 29, okukhona emaqinisweni anamuhla anesimo esingakulungele. Uma uqala ubudlelwane futhi ngasikhathi esithile uyaqonda ukuthi umlingani wakho usenguthi "umfana", okubaluleke kakhulu - hhayi ukwesabisa kakhulu, kusukela kuma-90% amacala umuntu abhekene nengcindezi yangempela kulo mcimbi, okusho ukuthi uzothatha isinyathelo ngobunono. Kanjani? Ake sikuthole.
Isinyathelo asijeziswa ngaso sonke isikhathi
Uma kusalala, usuvele uhalalisele - wakwazi ukuthuthukisa bonke ababambisene bakho njengamanje indoda engenalwazi. Ngokunokwenzeka, indoda uma ingadideki, nakanjani ngeke igcizelele koyedwa okungenani ebusuku bakho bokuqala. Kepha kungenzeka ukuthi umuntu ufuna ukuzama, kulokhu, azame ukuyisekela, kepha uma nje wena awuphikisana nokuhlolwa kwezocansi.
Izwi elifundisayo lenqaba
Abesifazane abaningi bathanda kakhulu ukuqondisa amadoda, futhi hhayi njalo ukuthi icala liphathelene nobulili. Endabeni yethu, i-oda nethoni yokufundisa kungenzeka kube yisiqalo sokuphela - futhi kuthwebula umlobi ongaqinisekile futhi ongaqinisekile angavala ngokwengeziwe, futhi ngaphandle kokuthola injabulo eyanele ngesikhathi sakhe sokuqala. Vele, ngamaphuzu athile kuzodingeka ukuthi umtshele okuthile, kepha zama ukukwenza ukuze indoda ingazizwa iphakeme kakhulu - phansi obuqinile obunobunzima kubeka ingcindezi yowesifazane, ikakhulukazi ombuzweni omncane onjengobuzo obuncane obunjengobuzongelu.
Ungakuvumeli ukuthi uhlangane namahlaya angenangozi
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Ungagxili ebuntombi bakhe
Akukho lutho olubi kakhulu kunasesikhathini esiyikhulu sokuthola isikhumbuzo sokungabizi kwakho, futhi okwamanje lapho kunesidingo sokuthola injabulo ephezulu, futhi le nqubo ingeyazocansi, le nqubo inikezwa ngobunzima obukhulu. Ngikholwe, indoda nokunye, lapho esesimweni sakhe sobulili, isikhumbuzo esingeziwe, futhi noma okwamanje esesimweni esengozini, futhi singavusa ezinye izinkinga ngokwakhiwa, futhi umgomo wethu ukuqinisekisa ukuthi okokuqala Ngesikhathi sezintombi zobudala zikhululekile kakhulu.
Ungaphakamisi
Ukuvuma ukuya ocansini nendoda ngaphandle kokuhlangenwe nakho, kufanelekile ukuthi ihlole amakhono akhe futhi aqonde ukuthi ubusuku bakho buzothola okungajwayelekile futhi bukhubazekile, njengoba kusekude ngokuphelele. Okubi kakhulu ukuthi owesifazane angenza ukugibela umlingani. Uma indoda iyimpela imigwaqo kanye nawe, ngokwesimo, ungafuni ukulimaza imizwa yakhe ngokungathi sína, ungavumeli noma yiziphi amahlaya abungozi maqondana nesipiliyoni namathuba omzimba wendoda.