Kubukeka sengathi ngabe abantu ababili bayathandana, yini abangayivimbela ndawonye? Ngamafuphi, akukho lutho. Kepha kwesinye isikhathi kuvela ukuthi umthwalo kufanele ungathathi hhayi kuphela kumfazi noma umyeni wakhe kuphela, kodwa futhi nezingane zabo emishadweni yokuqala. Kulezi zinsuku, lesi simo singabizwa ngokuthi sasabale. Futhi, ngokweqiniso, akethuse muntu, kodwa ngombono ongokoqobo wokubuka ubulukhuni obunzima lapha, lapho-ke lapho. Futhi ubunzima balezi zimpilo buzonakalisa kuphela owesilisa nowesifazane, bona kuphela, baboniswa ekubonakaleni kwabo, bavusa ukubona okungalungile, banikeza izakhiwo, bazivimba ngecala lecala. Ukususa ukwakha ubudlelwano babo nabamele ubulili obuhlukile futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, ukungavumelani - ngasikhathi esithile kuyayeka ukuzizwa kunesidingo nabathandekayo.
Njengomuntu Gwema amaphutha ajwayelekile ebudlelwaneni nowesifazane osenawo ingane:
munye. Awusiye. 1 ebudlelwaneni nowesifazane enomntwana osemshadweni wokuqala. Kowesifazane, "Inombolo yokuqala" imvamisa "ivame ukuba yizingane zazo, injalo isimo sakhe - izovikeleka ngentshiseko amalungelo ezingane zawo, akunandaba - kusukela okokuqala bangokomshado noma ngokuhlanganyela nawe (yize kunjalo Course, kukhona okuhlukile kulo mthetho).
2. Uthando lwengane kufanele luzuze! Ungacabangi ukuthi ingane yomkakho izokuhlonipha i-priori. Uthando olungenamibandela, ukwethembana nenhlonipho kubhekana nabazali babo uqobo, ubufakazi buyadingeka kumuntu omusha! Njengoba uyindoda - wena namakhadi ezandleni zakho: Khombisa ongakwenza futhi udinga ukwethemba.
3. Uma umthanda umuntu wesifazane, zama ukuthola ulimi olujwayelekile nezingane zakhe - Kuyadingeka nje. Banaka kakhulu lokho abakuthandayo, isifiso esiqotho ezinkingeni zabo nasekuhlanganyeleni okuncane ezimpilweni zabo.
ezine. Izingane zinomona! Izingane zingubanikazi abancane: abafuni ukuhlanganyela uthando lwabo uthando nanoma ngubani. Leli qiniso kufanele litholwe njenge-axiom elingadingi ubufakazi.
ezinhlanu. Ungalokothi ubeke owesifazane wakho owuthandayo ngaphambi kokukhetha : "Noma mina, noma ingane yakho." Lokhu kunoma yikuphi, ngeke kuholele kunoma yini enhle.
Uma uthanda ngokweqiniso ngowesifazane, izingane zakhe zizoba abangane bakho, futhi wena, uma uzama, uzoba ngumuntu osondelene naye. Izingane zihlelwe kangaka: Ubuqotho bazizwa ngemuva kwamamayela, bakulungele ukwamukela noma yimuphi umuntu omusha uma nje ulungele umama wabo ngenhloso yokuhlekisa kakhulu kanye nezenzo zabantu bangempela. Izingane, ngokungafani nabantu abadala, zibona inhliziyo.
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Ongakwenza Owesifazane Lapho kuvela indoda entsha empilweni yakhe nasekuphileni kwengane yakhe:
1. Khumbula lokho Umyeni wakho udinga ukuthanda nokuhlonipha . Kwesinye isikhathi thatha uhlangothi lwakhe, noma ngabe kubonakala kuwe ukuthi uhlala ulungile.
2. Ungaphindi ngokujwayelekile okuvamile : "Le yingane yami - uqobo izosebenzelana naye!" Ubuhlobo obunjalo buvusa umuntu ukuba bakuphendule kanye: "Ingane yakho, bahlanzeke!"
3. Vumela umyeni wakhe ukuba ahlanganyele ekukhulisweni kwengane yakho . Njengomthetho, amadoda ahlala ebona isimo kancane ngaphansi kwe-angle ehlukile, ngakho-ke, bayakwazi ukuxazulula izinkinga nangezinye izindlela.
ezine. Khuthaza ingane ngenhlonipho yokwelapha okukhethiwe kwakho Okungenani ngoba yindoda endala.
ezinhlanu. Ungaphoqeleli ingane ukuthi ishayele umyeni wakho omusha "ubaba" . Ingane iyakwazi ukubona nokuthi kufanele yini nokuthi ngubani.
Empilweni, sivame ukwenza amaphutha, ngephutha elinjalo elinjalo umshado owedlule uba. Kepha izingane ezizalwe "emshadweni" ongaphumeleli "yizingane zakho, ngakho-ke, zingena ebudlelwaneni obusha, qiniseka ukuthi useduze ukuthi lo muntu ongamsekela izingane zakho - lokhu mhlawumbe yiseluleko esibaluleke kakhulu. Zama ukuba kwenye isepolitiki. Cabanga ngezinyathelo zakho, ungazibopheleli kulezo zenzo ezisoziso, Thanda izingane nomyeni wakhe. Njalo lalela izingane zakho, ungayi kunoma ngubani mayelana, ngoba uqhuba le-orchestra encane ebizwa ngokuthi "umndeni".