Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi iningi lezinkinga emndenini lapho ingane ivela khona, zivuka ngesisekelo sezingxabano zasendlini. Ukwabelana ngemisebenzi akulula kangako, ikakhulukazi uma kusebenza umzali oyedwa kuphela. Kancane kancane, umlingani ogasele ezindabeni ezifuywayo futhi enakekela ingane, aqale "ukuphuma" futhi asuse ukukhathala nentukuthelo engxenyeni yakhe yesibili. Ukushayisana esimweni esinjalo akunakugwenywa. Ungakuvimbela kanjani ukuhlukaniswa emndenini futhi ususe ukungezwani? Sizozama ukuphendula le mibuzo.
Ungabheki eminye imindeni
Imvamisa isilingo sokukopisha imodeli yokuziphatha kwemindeni ejwayelekile inkulu kakhulu kangangokuba lo mbhangqwana uqala ukungawunaki ubuciko bempilo yakhe, ulandela abanye ngokungaboni. Kufanelekile ukusho ukuthi ukuziphatha okunjalo kuzosheshe kuholele emahlazweni esihle, ngoba umndeni ngamunye uhlukile ngendlela yawo. Uma ku-pair yakho, ngokwesibonelo, indoda isebenza usuku lonke, futhi abangane banendoda e-freelisase, noma ngabe kufanelekile ukuthi uhlelo nokusatshalaliswa kwemithwalo yemfanelo ngeke kuhambisane ngokuphelele. Dinga kusuka kumuntu wansuku zonke uhamba ngezinyawo nengane ngemuva kosuku olunzima lokusebenza, ngoba "abangane benza" hhayi umbono omuhle kakhulu. Ngisho nendoda ebekezelayo kakhulu izoqala ukucasuka kungekudala. Ukukala isimo somndeni wakho sangempela.
Nquma ukuthi ngubani onesikhathi esengeziwe sokunakekela ingane
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Ayikho imisebenzi ekhethekile yowesilisa noma yowesifazane.
Ama-stereotypes anjalo ahleli ngokuqinile ekhanda labantu abasha abasanda kudala umndeni wabo wokuqala futhi bazame ukuphila njengoba kubonakala kulungile. Maduze nje "opinki" walabo bantu abanjalo baphukile ngokoqobo: Lo wesilisa angageza izitsha, futhi lona wesifazane uyakwazi ukuba ngumshayeli oyinhloko emndenini futhi enze konke okuxhunyiwe nemoto yakho. Vele, kunzima kakhulu ukuqeda umphakathi emphakathini, kepha lokhu akusho ukuthi akufanele uzame. Okufanayo kusebenza ekukhulisweni kwezingane - uBaba angabandakanyeka ezindabeni ze- "Umama" uma kuziwa ekunakekelweni kwengane. Akukho lutho olubi lokuthatha ingane nami ngempelasonto lonke usuku lonke ukuya edolobheni, ubaba uyakwazi ukubhekana ngokuphelele nengane engasadingi ukuncelisa ibele.
Yenza uhlelo lwakho
Lapho wena ngaphambi kwamehlo akho kukhona uhlelo losuku noma isonto, kulula kakhulu ukulandela wonke amaphuzu. Ukuze emndenini, lezi zingxabano azizange zivele eqinisweni lokuthi othile ovela kubalingani wadidana nezinsuku futhi manje enganeni akekho ongaya egadini, exoxisana ngaphambi kwesikhathi esisha sokusebenza , ikakhulukazi uma nobabili nisebenza futhi uhlelo lwakho alukuvumeli ukuthi ushiye izindawo abasebenzi uma kwenzeka kunezimo ezingalindelekile. Njalo ekuseni ungabheka ngememo, ake sithi, isiqandisi bese sihlela usuku lwakho ngaphandle kokuthola izingcingo ezithukuthele ezivela engxenyeni yesibili.