- U-Olga Nikolaevna, uzofika ziphi izinkinga kuwe?
- Lesi sigaba sabesilisa sizobiza ngokuthi "isizukulwane seminyaka eyinkulungwane", njengoba benqoba ujantshi weNkulungwane, ukuba semncane. Futhi manje ngabantu abaneminyaka engama-20 kuye kwangama-35 ubudala.
Ngokuvamile, konke ukushayisana kwezindawo zabo kungancishiswa kube yizikhathi ezintathu, owokuqala ubudlelwano nabesifazane, okwesibili isithombe saso uqobo lwaso njengamadoda kanye nokwakheka kwezimpawu zabo empilweni, kanye nokwesithathu - izimpawu ezimangazayo ye-neurosis eqinile kakhulu. Umphumela - bashiye ubuso odongeni futhi abathuthi noma kuphi.
- Okuningi?
- Ngikhethe amaphuzu asemqoka kakhulu. Kulahlekelwe yincazelo yempilo, ukulahlekelwa yisifiso, ukulahlekelwa yintando, kanye nama-phobias nemicabango ebonakalayo. Nansi isethi ejwayelekile abahlala kuyo namuhla.
Kepha le akuyona inkinga enkulu. Imiphumela etholwe ocwaningweni ithi namuhla iyisizukulwane samadoda, ithinta ngokoqobo ukuphazamiseka kwe-narcissistic.
Hit! Ukuphazamiseka kwe-narcissical ukuthi ama-psychoanalysts amaningi akhuluma, phakathi kwentsha yamanje, kathathu ngaphezu kwesizukulwane sabantu asebekhulile. Izibalo zikhombisa ukuthi abafundi abahlolisisiwe ngonyaka ka-2009 bayaziwa nge-50% ngokuqhathaniswa nabafundi abangu-1982. Zonke ezinye izinkinga zengqondo engikubhale ngenhla ziwumqondo wesizukulwane sezimfanelo ezandayo esikhathini sanamuhla se-narcissism salowo muntu.
- Umuntu omuhle, uyazithanda - kubi?
- Kubukeka sengathi lokhu kuwukuxilongwa okungenangozi. IMilternialys ixakekile ngenkazimulo, futhi lokhu kuholela eqinisweni lokuthi abafuni ukusebenza nakancane, okungeyona icala. Iningi lazo libona buhlungu izigaba zabo, zilungele ngisho nokuba ngumsizi womuntu owaziwayo, kuphela ukuze aqashelwe. Akungabazeki ukuthi bayakwazi ukuzibonela, baqiniseka ngokuphelele ekuweni kwabo. Imvamisa kakhulu izinkomba zabo, impumelelo yabo, futhi lokhu kungenxa yokuthi, ukuba yizingane, bathola inani elikhulu lokuphakanyiswa, ulwazi lokufunda nokubhala, imiklomelo. Abazali nesikole abadalanga izimo zezimo, ukunqoba ubunzima obudingekayo njengenjini eshukumisayo yendoda. Iminyaka eyi-Millenialys ingamavila kakhulu futhi ingenasisekelo, ngoba ukugqugquzelwa kwempumelelo kusezingeni eliphansi kakhulu.
Lokhu ngokwengxenye kuvela eqinisweni lokuthi abaningi selokhu babonga ubuntwana kubazali manje sekuyikho konke. Yini ukulwela?
Millonnialys ahlanjululwe bona kuphela nasezizukulwaneni zawo, akwedlulelwa, futhi lokhu kusho ukuthi babuthaka ngamasiko abo nesizukulwane esidala sezwe labo. Kepha bafana kakhulu phakathi kwabo, bahlala emazweni ahlukene. Ngaphezu kwezinto ezifakwe kuhlu, kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi abamele izizukulwane zeNyakazi ziyenzeka ngenkuthalo ukuba nekhono futhi zikugweme kalula futhi ngaphandle kokucabanga. Abayi-ERUDITE, banesifiso esikhuliswe kakhulu ngezinhlelo eziqediwe, imiyalo, izincomo. Millennialys awuthandi ukwenza izinqumo, kepha ngokuvamile banezimfanelo eziningi nezimihle.
- Ngemuva kwalokhu okungenhla, nabo banezimfanelo ezinhle?
- Iminyaka eyizinkulungwane zibizwa ngokuthi yisizukulwane sokuqala esingesisesekela ubungane obusebenzayo nabazali babo, empeleni abangafuni ukuhlukana nalo. Ngokuvamile ngoba kuncike kubaba nomanyoni. Azinacala, zinaka kakhulu, amamayela, zimamatheka, azinazinkinga, zibonakaliswa ngesifiso esiphakeme sokududuza impilo nokuphepha.
- Kuphela umbuzo owodwa kuphela. Ingabe intokazi yanamuhla ifanelana umuntu onezimfanelo ezinjalo ukudala umndeni?
- Impilo yensizwa yanamuhla igeleza esifisweni sokuthola injabulo. Bangama-playboys angempela, njengemidlalo ehlukahlukene futhi bancamela ukudlala. Ngobukhosi, kepha, njengoba ebuntwaneni, imidlalo uma umuntu kufanele azihlele, ekhiqiza wonke imboni yezamabhizinisi edlala nabo.
Ucansi lubuye lube yimidlalo yabo ehlukahlukene, kuyinto enhle Prank ngaphandle kwemiphumela, yimuphi umuthi wanamuhla owunakekele. Bamemezela ngokweqiniso ukuthi bafuna ukuba nomndeni, izingane, kepha abazange bathathe isinyathelo esisodwa esiya kuleli phupho. Isiqubulo seMillenialov: "Kungani namhlanje ungenzani usuku lwakusasa!"
- Uma belwela injabulo, basebenza kanjani ngalesosikhathi? Yini ekhetha ukuyenza?
- Noma yimuphi umsebenzi kufanele udlule futhi uwahambise. Bayazithanda ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi: "Ngihlala eJamaica, ngiya ehembe elibomvu. Ukuphumula nokukhanya kwelanga - umsebenzi wami! " Amadoda anamuhla ahamba kakhulu, ayazisesha, azisa ngenjabulo umhlaba ngosizo lwezinkundla ezahlukahlukene zokuxhumana nomphakathi izixhumanisi zazo zomzimba nezingokomoya. Konke lokhu kudingeka kugcinwe ukuxhumana nabo ngokwabo nokuthola impendulo evela endaweni esondele, ikakhulukazi ukubhajwa lapho bezidinga khona ngenxa ye-narcissiblenety yabo kanye nezinkinga zokuzindla.
Ngakho-ke, le nsizwa ihamba ngokukhanya ngakolunye uhlangothi ukuyifuna, ngakolunye - kuye.
Futhi umbono wakhe ngokwakhe uthathelwa indawo amasheya e-PR we-TR kimi nezimpendulo ezibhaliwe kwi-Intanethi.
Iningi lazo linentshisekelo kunoma yiluphi ulwazi oludumile, oludumile, oludumile, ngoba ekujuleni komphefumlo kubonakala sengathi aluqondakali futhi lube yinto encane nangokunjalo njengengane encane engenazo izifundo uqobo.
Izinsizwa zithanda zonke izinhlobo zezinto ezipholile "," Nyashki "," Nyashnynyh "ngumhlaba wezinto ezinenani elingavunyelwe elithengwe emazweni akude futhi ahleleke ngokukhethekile ngaphansi kwalezi zifiso zenjabulo yazo engenziwa ngocansi.
Ngokuvamile, badala ukuzwela okuqotho futhi kubukeka sengathi abakaze babe nobubi, ubunzima, izinkinga. Kulokhu okuhle, babheka kakhulu phansi.
- Ingabe le yinkinga emphakathini wanamuhla, ingabe ikhona indlela yangempela ngaphandle kwesimo samanje noma isiphetho esifile?
- Lungisa izinkinga zesizukulwane esivele emqondweni wembulunga yonke uma kungenjalo ukusho ukuthi akunakwenzeka. Ngisho nangodokotela bezengqondo abaye balayishwa emphinjeni abanezingane ezinjalo abanikezwa abazali okungenani ngandlela thile bashintsha isimo ngeqiniso lokuthi abafuni ukufunda, ukusebenza, kepha bafuna nje ukushaya izinkundla zokuxhumana nabantu. Ngokuvamile, akuvamile ukuthi kufinyelele imiphumela emihle, ngoba iMillenia imelana nezinguquko futhi isebenzele yona. Lezi zingane aziziboni izinkinga zazo, zilungile kanjalo, futhi into enhle kakhulu engenziwa ukubashiye zodwa.
Indlela yangempela ephuma kulo mnqamulajuqu ukunakekela isiko lokukhulisa izingane, lapho abantu abadala bekungafanele babe ne-hyper ukuzama ukunika izingane zabo ukuba zinikeze izingane zabo. Uthando oluncane lubi, kepha luningi kakhulu alukho okuhle. Othandweni lwabazali, izinto kufanele zibe khona, okuhloswe ngazo ukuhlakulela ukuzimela, ukuzimela nokuzimela kwengane encane. Akufanele abhekwe njengokuqhubeka komzali, okwathi umzali owazi ngaphezu kwale ngane ngokwakhe. Lokhu kwehlisa ingane yomuzwa womuntu wayo ohlukile ngakunye. Futhi kulokhu, kuzoba wusizo kakhulu ngesikhathi sokuhlukanisa izingane ngempilo ezimele. Lapho bebhekana nezinkinga zokuphila kwabo, ngeke babe nokunye ukukhetha, ukuthi bangazibandakanya kanjani ekulweni nokusinda kwabo. Lezi zindlela eziphoqelekile, kepha le yindlela yangempela ngaphandle kwesimo.