Incwadi emfushane nenekhono elandelayo yafika kulesihloko.
"Ake ungitshele, kusho ukuthini uma ngiphupha njalo, njengoba insizwa yami inginamba izinyembezi ubudlelwane: amaqabunga, inyamalale noma angikwazi ukukuthola? Eqinisweni, sindawonye iminyaka eminingana. "
Vumela iphupho lalokhu alizange libhale lokhu, kwabonakala kimi ukuthi okuqukethwe kokulala kwamangala futhi kudangala. Kubukeka njengobuhlobo obuzinzile futhi obumeme empilweni, ephusheni - buthaka, buthaka, futhi umlingani awaneli.
Njengoba iphupho lisinikeza lolo lwazi oluvame ukungazi futhi lugcinwe ngokujulile ngokungazi lutho, khona-ke kubonwe kungashayela.
Ukwesaba igebe, uzizwe ulahliwe - omunye wabahlangenwe nakho okuzibuza kakhulu empilweni. Isipiliyoni esitholwe kulokhu kunzima kakhulu ukukhathazeka, ngakhoke imizwa ehambisana nokulahlwa - ukudabuka, ukwesaba, ihlazo, intukuthelo, - iya kokungazi. Ukuze sibhekane nalobu buhlungu, sisebenzisa amamodeli wokuziphatha aqinisekisa ukuphepha kwase-US. Sisebenzisa izindlela ezahlukahlukene eziyinkimbinkimbi ukuze sizibuyisele ubuhlungu kabusha: Sifuna ngokweqile umlingani, khetha abalingani abaphephile abangakwazi ukusishiya, ngokwesibonelo, sincike kithi nokunakekela kwethu. Kwesinye isikhathi kunobudlelwano obude kakhulu nomlingani ngaphandle kwezibopho ezihlanganyelwe ukulawula nokuvikela kulobu buhlungu.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, noma ngabe ngemuva kobuhlungu obunolwazi, kungenzeka ukudala ubuhlobo obuthembekile, i-alamu kanye nokulindelwe okungacacile, ukuthi izinhlungu zizobuya, azihambi ndawo.
Uma izinhlungu zingakhumbuli, kodwa izifiso zoJehova kuphela ezizogoba ziye ekubukeni, khona-ke okuhlangenwe nakho okubuhlungu kuyophishekela ukulala.
Futhi ngokusobala, lokhu kunjalo ngokuphupha kwethu, okwakubonakala kwakha ubuhlobo obuthembekile, kepha ngasikhathi sinye kwethula ukwesaba kwelanga kanye nentuthumo kulobu budlelwano.
Lesi isibonakaliso esingaba kuhle ukubhekana neqiniso lokuthi kusukela kulokho okwedlule okubuhlungu akusekho vele, kusaphazamiseka futhi kulandelwe. Noma, mhlawumbe ubudlelwano nomlingani walo wamanje bugcina i-facade enhle, kodwa empeleni ubamba izimpawu zokungatholakali, ukwahlukaniswa, ibanga. Lezi zibonakaliso ezingenangqondo kusenzima ukuveza amagama, kepha ukulala kukhombisa ukuqagela kwakhe nokuvundumela kwakhe ukuvela ngokungananazi.
Kunoma ikuphi, iphupho elinjalo liyisibonakaliso esingaveli ukuze unake ubuhlobo bakho.
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UMaria Zemmskova, udokotela wezengqondo, udokotela wokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kwesikhungo sokukhulisa sokukhula kukaMarika Khazina