Ngiyayithanda ivolumu nokujula kwesingathekiso sephupho! Yini engachazwa emishweni emi-3-4 ingahunyushwa yaba ama-frets ahlukile bese ukhetha eyodwa ezophendula. Ngizonikeza ngezansi iphupho labafundi bethu. Kusuka esibonelweni sayo sephupho, kuba cacile ukuthi malini ngakho iminyaka, futhi iphupho lisho lutho kakhulu, ngakho-ke ngikwethula kuwe ku-Engosi.
Ngakho-ke: "Ngiphupha ukuthi kufanele ngiqhubeke nokusebenza, ngibuyele emcimbini wesi-4 isikhungo sami, kanti isikhathi sizoqala maduze, futhi egcekeni ngoDisemba 2. Bengiyinkulumo eyodwa kusukela ngoSepthemba, ngaphambi kwezivivinyo, futhi ngiyaqonda nokuthi nginomsila ongu-2 "engingakwazi ukudlula ngenxa yokungqubuzana nothisha. Futhi ngephupho, ngiyamangala, ngoba ngiyasebenza, ngingaphinde ngikubeke kanjani esimisweni ngemuva kweminyaka engama-30, ngakuqeda kanjani? ".
Iphupho ngokwalo alikwazi ukuphendula umbuzo walokho ukulala kwakhe. Kwasabela kakhulu futhi kwagcinwa. Futhi ukuze uxoxe umyalezo, udinga ukubona ukuthi ngabe konke kwenzeka yini kule ngxenye.
Owesifazane ovuthiwe ubona ephusheni ukuthi kudingeka abuyele esikhathini sobusha bakhe, lapho kwakukhona izingxabano nobunzima obungathandeki, futhi zibadlulisela ebudaleni, manje, bethola impilo ngemuva. Yini engamtshela yona? Futhi kungani manje?
Ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi futhi inobunzima obufanayo ebudlelwaneni ngisho nalapho sekuphelile kabili. Kepha kusukela kuma-pores engqwabeni yakhe, kungokwengxabano, ngokuqondene nokuhlolwa, okumele kudluliselwe futhi kuhlale kabusha "imisila".
Mhlawumbe iphupho limtshela ukuthi emphefumulweni usaqhubeka nokudla ngaphambi kokuxhumana okuqinile njengomfundi osemusha.
Mhlawumbe ukulala kukhombisa ukugcwala kwayo, okuwukuhamba kweminyaka kungaphenduka isipiliyoni, ukuguquguquka noma ingcindezi. Ngokunokwenzeka, ngokwezokuxhumana nokuxhumana, okwamanje asazofunda futhi athathe izivivinyo zawo, anqobe izifundo zokuphila.
Amagama ambalwa mayelana nezingxabano. Vula i-Intanethi bese ukhuphuka ngeziphakamiso zokuxazululwa kwezingxabano, izifiso zokuphila ngokuzolile nangokuvumelaniswa. Ngasikhathi sinye, ukungqubuzana kuyinto edingekayo yokukhula, ukwakheka komuntu. Ngaphandle kwengxabano, ayikho inhlangano. Ngeke umthole umndeni ongamazi ukuthi ukuphi. Ingxabano yinto ejwayelekile yemvelo yomuntu. Ngeke sicabange okufanayo, sifuna okufanayo futhi okufanayo, zizwe futhi siphile ngobunye. Ngokuxabana, sikhipha ukuqonda kwethu ukuthi singobani, esikufunayo nalapho sihamba khona, okungukuthi, sihlukanisa, sivelele esingelo esijwayelekile. Ukuba uhlangothi olungqubuzana kwesinye isikhathi kuwusizo kakhulu onqenqemeni lwesitoko ngobuntu bethu kunokuba bushelelezi futhi bakujikijele. Ukulungiswa okuqondayo kwengxabano, futhi ungazibaleki kukho, kunikeza izincazelo ezintsha zokuphila. Ungakhuluma ngokungenakuphikwa ngengxabano, ngoba kutholakala ngaphakathi kokuxhumana kwabantu ekhaya, emsebenzini, esikoleni, nezingane - yonke indawo. Isinyathelo esifanele kunazo zonke singafunda ukuthi singayiphatha kanjani le ngxenye yokuxhumana kwabantu, ukuze siguquguquke, sikwazi ukuzixazulula ngokwabo ngenzuzo.
Futhi amaphupho akho? Izibonelo zamaphupho akho athumela ngeposi: [email protected]. Ngendlela, amaphupho kulula kakhulu ukuwaveza uma encwadini eya kumhleli uzobhala izimo zokuphila okwandulelayo, kepha okubaluleke kakhulu - imizwa nemizwa ngesikhathi sokuvuka kuleli phupho.
UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin