Iphupho elithandekayo langitshela umngani osondelene naye.
"Ngiphupha ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokundiza ohambweni lwebhizinisi. Futhi ngokwesaba kakhulu, njengendiza, i-liner enkulu, uthatha phakathi kwezakhiwo eziphakeme zokuhlala. Ngilinde ukufika, futhi ngibone umngani wami omude. Ephusheni, inkambo yemicabango imi ngale ndlela elandelayo: "Ngokubambisana asisebenzi. Ngakho-ke kungani sindiza ngendiza eyodwa? "Ngemuva kokukhumbula ephusheni, ukuthi maduze nje yena, njengami, uyaphuma."
Ngokuphikisana ne-stereotype ekhuphukayo yokuthi umshado ulusuku olujabulisayo futhi olujabulisayo empilweni yalo mbhangqwana, empeleni awekho kuphela. Umshado, ukukhulelwa, ukuzalwa kwengane - vumela izehlakalo ezilindelwe isikhathi eside, kodwa futhi nobunzima ngasikhathi sinye.
Igama elithi "ubunzima" kwesinye sezinguqulo lisho "ukuguqulwa". Lokho kuguqulwa kweqiniso, ukuguqulwa kwesimo esisha. Ngakho-ke ukudalwa komndeni, ukuzalwa kwezingane kungabonakala kalula ngezikhathi zobunzima. Ngaphezu kokungezwani okujabulisayo nokulindelwe kwento entsha ne-grandiose, futhi ukukhathazeka, nokwesaba, njengaphambi kwakho konke okungaziwa.
Noma ukwesaba nokukhathazeka okudilizwa amathemba, futhi okulindelwe okugqamile kulungisiwe, okuthathwe esikhathini esedlule somuntu noma umndeni owedlule. Isibonelo, kwehlukanisa, ukuvukela umbuso, ukuncika noma ukwahlukana.
Ngokusobala, amaphupho ethu ephusheni abhekene ne-supbar nokudideka. Mhlawumbe ngesimo esisha, izindima nezibopho, azithathayo. Ngokuphathelene nalokho okumlindile esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, esezokuza. By the way, indiza ifanekisela kakhulu. Akunakwenzeka ukuphuma ngesikhathi. Lapho enyuka, akukho stroke okubuyisayo.
Mhlawumbe ngalokhu futhi iphupho lizoba umgwaqo womgwaqo. Kuyathusa futhi kuyaphazamisa. Noma, ngiyavuma ukuthi imithetho yezenhlalo namafreyimu azungeze ithi ukuthi ayikho indawo ye-alamu kulezi zinguquko. Ngakho-ke, uphila ngephupho kuphela.
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UMaria Zemmskova, udokotela wezengqondo, udokotela wokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kwesikhungo sokukhulisa sokukhula kukaMarika Khazina