Kuhle kakhulu. Uma wena nama-halves akho uneminye imibono efanayo nge-ECLADE yomndeni nangekhaya. Ngakho-ke, lapho uhlangabezana nokunaka, ukunaka iqiniso lokuthi ingxenye yesipiliyoni esedlule ikhuluma ngezinto azithandayo. Naka ukuthi wakhuliswa muphi umndeni wakho okhethiwe (oyikhethile). Imodeli yempilo yakhe yesikhathi esizayo abantu bavame ukwakha esithombeni nokufana kwabazali babo, ngakho-ke qaphela - usukulungele ukusatshalaliswa okunjalo? Enye into eseqine ukuthi indoda yenza ngokushesha kangakanani izinqumo. Uma wena ngokwesibonelo, hlala ndawonye iminyaka eyodwa noma emibili futhi akakumemi ukuthi ubhalisile ngokusemthethweni ubudlelwano - lesi yisizathu sokucabanga.
Elinye lamaphuzu abaluleke kakhulu ebudlelwaneni phakathi kwezimali zesikhathi esizayo ukwethenjwa. Kuvumela ukuthi abantu ababili badingide izihloko ezinkulu ezihlobene nekusasa labo lokusebenzisana. Kudingeka kudingidwe ini ngaphambi kokungena emshadweni?
U-Olga Romaniv
Xhasa ngemali
Kubalulekile ukukhuluma ngokuthi ungasabalalisa kanjani imali, unqume ekusetshenzisweni kwemali esemqoka futhi kusho ukuhlehliswa. Okuxakile ngokwanele, iningi labo bonke abantu emshadweni licasulayo hhayi uhlobo lomlingani, kodwa okubhaliwe noma umphefumulo. Into elungile kakhulu ukuxoxa ngohlangothi lwezezimali ngaphambi kokuqala ukuxabana ngenxa yemali.
Indawo yokuhlala nokulala
Imalimboleko, ukuthenga izindlu kuyisihloko esibaluleke kakhulu, ngoba kuyizindlu ezabiwe kahle, njengomthetho, isizathu esiyinhloko sokuthola emshadweni kwabantu ababili abangathandanga isikhathi eside. Kungcono ukuxoxa ngezinkinga kusengaphambili hhayi nje kuphela ukutholwa kwezindawo ezithengiswayo, kodwa futhi namalungelo kuyo ezimweni ezibucayi.
Izingane
Kwenzeka ukuthi indoda ekuqaleni kobudlelwano ifuna kancane ukuhlehlisa umbuzo wokuzala abantwana. Owesifazane, engena emshadweni, njengomthetho, ngokushesha ucabanga ngokuqhubeka kohlobo. Ukuze ungabi ngukungaboni ngaso linye, ukucasulwa, xoxa ngalo mbuzo kusengaphambili futhi ushade kuphela lapho nobabili nizolunga ukulinda noma nifuna ukubeletha ingane ngokushesha okukhulu. Akubalulekile kangako ukukhuluma ngokuthi ngubani ozoba nengane kuqala.
Ukuphathwa Kwezomnotho
Obani abazobandakanyeka ekwakheni, ukuthenga imikhiqizo, kuhlanze, bageze izitsha, banakekele izingane, benze izifundo nabo futhi uzithathe kusuka enkulisa? Konke kudinga ukudingidwa ngaphambi komshado. Futhi woza kuDenominator ejwayelekile owayezokwenelisa zombili. Ngemuva kwalokho izinkinga ebudlelwaneni zizoba zincanyana kakhulu.
Ukuphumula
Abantu emshadweni abagwetshwanga ukuchitha isikhathi sabo esikhulu ndawonye. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukucacisa izikhathi ezinjalo ngaphambi kokuxhumana nabangane, izinto zokuzilibazisa, ukuzilibazisa. Isigamu sakho akudingeki ukuthi sithole ukungakhululeki uma sihleli ekhaya sodwa, futhi uhlala endaweni ethile e-nightclub ngalesi sikhathi. Ngakho-ke, vuma ogwini mayelana nokuthi umbhangqwana wakho uzosebenzisa kanjani ngempelasonto, kusihlwa, amaholide - kuzokonga isikhathi sokuhlanjalazwa okulandelayo kanye nezikhalazo.