Phambilini, eRussia, komama besikhathi esizayo abanqunyiwe ukuba baqale ingane yokuqala ngemuva kweminyaka engamashumi amabili nanhlanu, badonsa igama elihlaselayo elithi "isicefe". Namuhla kubonakala sengathi kuyathandeka. Kwakunokuthambekela emhlabeni: Abesifazane abaningi ngokwengeziwe bakhulelwa ngokuzayo, bafuna ukwenza umsebenzi wokuqala, wenzeka kulo msebenzi. Phakathi kosaziwayo bezibonelo zikaTom, Halley Berry, Jennifer Lopez, Madonna, Meraya Carey, Olga Drozdova, Marianna Mogilevskaya. U-Olga Shelest naye wayehlala ethi uzozala amashumi amathathu nanhlanu, futhi wayenephutha unyaka nje. Kwavela ukuthi isikhundla esinjalo sinezinzuzo eziningi: Isipiliyoni sempilo siqongelelwe, imizwa engifuna ukuyihlanganyela, izifiso zethu zisetshenzisiwe futhi kunethuba lokuthola ukunakwa okwengeziwe kwengane. Ngokuvamile, ubheka i-Olga ezolile futhi ejabule, sajabula kakhulu ngomndeni wakhe.
Njengoba omama abasebasha bekhuluma, ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane, umhlaba wabo uyashintsha, uqala ukujikeleza umuntu omncane. Yiqiniso lokhu?
U-Olga Shelest: "Cha, lena akuyona indaba yami. UMuz usivumela ukuba siqhubeke sithokoze empilweni, kodwa yimi kuphela, kanye naye. Ngivame ukuba nomuzwa wokuthi akayena unyaka wokuqala nathi: kulula kakhulu futhi ngokwemvelo wangena emndenini wethu. Angazi, ngoba yimiphi imikhono esathunywe ngayo yingane enhle kangaka, olala ngomoya ophansi, ayinambisi, yidla konke okunikezwayo, futhi kumamatheka ngaso sonke isikhathi. Lapho ngikhulelwe, izintombi zami zatshelwa, "zijabulele izinsuku zokugcina, ngaphambi kweminyaka okungenani eyishumi nesishiyagalombili yokukhathazeka okuqinile." Kepha angikwazi ukusho ukuthi konke kwaphenduka ekhanda, hhayi nhlobo. Mhlawumbe, uma ubeletha iminyaka engamashumi amabili, ngandlela thile usabela, futhi impilo ibuyele lo muntu omncane. Kepha kimi, umndeni wami, indlu ibilokhu ize kuqala, ngakho-ke isambulo esithile sokuthi kudingekile ukuthi siphilele thina kuphela. Elinye ilungu lomndeni, esijabule kakhulu futhi esingasikhulizi ngokuphelele. We, njengakuqala, qhubeka usebenze ngenkuthalo, ungakhohlwa ukuphumula, uya ukuvakasha. Futhi ngasikhathi sinye asizange siphendukele ogogo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, asihleleli ukuqala i-nanny. Ngicabanga ukuthi ngizosiphatha kuze kube unyaka, bese sizobona. Ngifuna ukuqonda zonke izintelezi zokuba ngumzali futhi ngibone ukuthuthuka kokuqala kwengane. Ukuhleka kokuqala, amazinyo okuqala, izinyathelo zokuqala. "
Wena no-alexey yiminyaka eyishumi nesithupha. Manje kwavula into entsha endodeni yakho ethandekayo?
U-Olga: "Konke ukuqagela kwami kuphela kwaqinisekiswa ukuthi u-Alexey wayengaba ubaba omuhle. Uchitha isikhathi esiningi nendodakazi yakhe. Futhi idlala, futhi ihlabelele, futhi izinkondlo zifunda, futhi zikhombisa nezinye iziqeshana. Ngithi: "Nkulunkulu wami! Kusukela ebuntwaneni ufundisa ingane kwi-iPad. " Yebo, kunjalo, kuyathakazelisa kuye: Ngaphambi kwamehlo ezithombe ezithile ezixolisayo, ubaba uhlala okuthile. (Ehleka.) Kepha nokho u-Alexey wenziwe kahle. Abangani bami bavunywa ngokuphelele. Ngaya ohambweni lwebhizinisi lwaya ePrague izinsuku ezimbili, futhi u-Alexey wahlala nomnyuziyamu. Ngambuza amahlandla amabili: "Ngokuqinisekile awufuni ukuthi umama wami afike futhi asizakale?" Uphendule wathi: "Le ndodakazi yami, angikaze ngikwazi ukubhekana naye, . Ngibuze wonke umuntu: "Ngubani uMyuzi osele?" Futhi ezwa ukuthi nobaba, kwavezwa injabulo enkulu. Ngiyakwazi ukuxhasa ngemfelokazi ngokuphelele ngomoya ophansi ngomoya ophansi, wazi konke. Yize kwakukhona izingxoxo okokuqala ukuthi, bathi, ngeke ngishintshe i-diaper. Kepha akukho lutho, olusetshenzisiwe. "
Ubelokhu usho ukuthi isitembu ephasiphothi asibalulekile impela kuwe, noma kunjalo manje ukushada kwabhaliswa. Ngenxa yendodakazi yami?
U-Olga: "Cha. Ngenxa yephepha elilodwa le-bureaucratic, edinga ngokuphuthumayo ukukhipha izindlu nomhlaba. Asenzi noma iyiphi ihlelo kusuka kulo mcimbi, imishado ngeke ibe kusengaphambili maduze. Ake silinde kuze kube yilapho indodakazi ihamba ngezinyawo ukusakaza ama-rose petals phambi kukamama nobaba emshadweni wabo. .
"Isikhala sokuphumula sesikhashana esiseduze kakhulu empilweni yomuntu sisuka kwamashumi amathathu kuya kwamashumi amane. Lapho esemncane nomzimba, kanye nomphefumulo, kepha ngasikhathi sinye unesipiliyoni esihle sempilo. " Photo: Vladimir Chistyakov.
Ngabe usagqoka i-rustle yesibongo?
U-Olga: "Yebo."
Ngabe ucabangani kwabesifazane ababelethelayo ngemuva kwamashumi amathathu nanhlanu, ezweni lethu kusesimweni esikhethekile?
U-Olga: "Mhlawumbe yebo! Abantu bashesha ukuhlala futhi benza inani elikhulu lamaphutha. Kufaka phakathi ukukhuliswa kwezingane ezizalwa kusenesikhathi kakhulu. Iningi lomama abasebasha livela ukuba libe ngokobuzwazi bengqondo abakulungele lokhu. Izingane zidluliselwa ezandleni zogogo noNanny noma kufanele zishiye umsebenzi zikhulise ingane. Futhi-ke amantombazane ayachoboza ukuthi anaso isikhathi sokwakha umsebenzi, futhi asole izingane. Sinqume isikhathi eside ngokwami ukuthi sifuna ukusizwa ngokugcwele le mpilo, ukusebenza, ukuhamba, ukuzijabulisa. Futhi lapho konke lokhu sekuvele kwanele: Kukhona itafula, nendlu, kanye nesipiliyoni sempilo - futhi ubelethe izingane. Kepha umphakathi ucabanga ngawe. Umbono uvelele ukuthi uma ngemuva kweminyaka engamashumi amathathu, umuntu akazange athole inzalo, kukhona okungahambi kahle ngaye. Ngeshwa, ama-stereotypes kakhulu angonakalisa impilo, kepha ngizama ukubhekana nabo. "
Kwenye yezinhlelo "GIRL" owuvikele ngonya abesifazane - ama-fries wezingane. Umbono washintsha ngokuzalwa kwengane?
U-Olga: "Ngisanamathela esimweni sokuthi lona wesifazane unelungelo lokukhetha indlela yokusebenzisa kwawo. Abanye nje babona ukuqokwa kwabo ekubandleni kwababa ngumama, abanye ebhizinisini, abanye - ngobuhlakani. Akunasidingo sokugxeka nokubhoboza ukungathandi ukuba nezingane. Makube ngcono lokho kuzoba yisinqumo esiqaphele ukuthi singangeni emikhondweni yomphakathi kunokutshalwa kwengane engaphendulwanga ezokhula ngesixuku esinjalo sezakhiwo, ezizophanga ngokuphila komuntu. "
Ngabe isimo sakho sengqondo sashintsha saba ukukhetha amaphrojekthi wethelevishini maqondana nokuzalwa kwendodakazi?
U-Olga: "Cha, ngisenza konke ukuhanjiswa kwami. Kepha kuyahlekisa ukuthi izinhlelo zezingane zaqala ukuvela. Isibonelo, lo mdlalo "uyangiqonda" usedumile kakhulu: Izikole ezweni lonke zakha amaqembu awo e-TV. Kuyahlekisa ukuthi ngathola ithuba lokuba uhlelo oluholayo, mina uqobo ngangibukela esikoleni. Futhi manje wadedelwa wangibiza. Kumnandi. Ekhathuni "i-squirrel yangempela" ngizwa i-pug ehlekisayo ebizwa ngokuthi yi-bunny, naku- "Ice time" - Mammotich. Ngakho-ke eshalofini lami kuvele sekuvele amadiski ambalwa anamakhathuni engizokhombisa indunduma lapho ekhula kancane. "
Uhlelo lwakho olusha lwethelevishini "lungiqonda" ukufundise ukuthi uthole ulimi olujwayelekile nezingane?
U-Olga: "Ungifundise ukuqonda kangcono okwenzekayo kuleli zwe lezingane - ukuthi zizibuza ukuthi yimiphi imidlalo abayidlalayo, yiziphi izincwadi ezifundwayo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, izingane zesimanje zihluke kakhulu kithi ngaleso sikhathi! Sikhuluma nentombazane eneminyaka eyishumi nane futhi uyaqonda ukuthi ucabanga kakade njengomuntu omdala. Lokhu sekuvele kuyintombazane ekhipha izithombe zayo kwisudi yokugeza ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi. Izingane zine-inthanethi, zihamba kakhulu, ziphoqelelwa ukuthuthukisa imininingwane eminingi kakhulu. Sebevele bangenandaba nalawo mafilimu esiwabukele. Muva nje, ngaba nendodakazi eneminyaka eyisikhombisa yabangane bami. Ngimbeke "okubi kakhulu" - inganekwane enhle kakhulu nge-Jim Carey endimeni eholayo. Ngibuye ngahlala phansi ngiyobuka, ngoba ifilimu iyathakazelisa kabi, kodwa ngemuva kwemizuzu eyishumi kamuva le ntombazane ihlupha ngokungananazi. Ngiyabuza: "Ungcono" ukufaka ama-transformers? "Kuphendula:" Yebo. " Bonke laba 'abavakashela inganekwane "abanandaba nokudla, isithukuthezi! Lesi sizukulwane sehluke ngokuphelele, sinolunye umbono, iphunga, umsindo. Ngilandile uhlelo olulodwa ku-iPhone - Kunomculo opholile onjalo, ama-bubble ahlekisayo aqhuma, futhi ungazivezi nje ama-mus kusuka esikrinini. Ngicela udokotela: "Ingabe kuyingozi enganeni?" Futhi uyaphendula: "Izingane zesimanje zihlukile komunye nomunye. Lapho umama wakho ekugcina ezandleni zakhe, kwakuyindlela yokugeza emnyama ye-monoph kuyo, kanye ne-t-shike elinemibala ekhanyayo kuwe. Sasinemibala eyishumi kaGuashi, futhi banamaphikseli ayizinkulungwane ezingamashumi amabili nanhlanu ku-iPad. Laba bahluke ngokuphelele abantu. " Kwesinye sezikole zaseMelika, sanquma ukukhansela ukudlula - akunasidingo. Futhi sesivele sibhalwe phansi esandleni, nasezinganeni futhi sidle uhlale njalo kumakhompyutha. Umphakathi waqala ukuthukuthelela: bathi, Kanjani, amarejista athuthukisa isithuthuthu esincane! Futhi eqinisweni, izingane zesimanje sezivele zicabanga ezinye izindawo zobuchopho. Ngakho-ke umhlangano nesizukulwane esisha ugqugquzela, angifuni ukubala ngemuva. "
"Ngisanamathela esimweni sokuthi lona wesifazane unelungelo lokukhetha indlela yokusebenza kwawo. Abanye nje babona ukuqokwa kwabo ekubandleni kwababa ngumama, abanye ebhizinisini, okwesithathu - ngobuhlakani. " Photo: Vladimir Chistyakov.
Kuyavela, ekushayweni kobaba kanye nezingane ze-presti yezingane ezifanele, njengoba amaqiniso anamuhla aqonda kangcono?
U-Olga: Yebo, sibafundisa embhoshongweni wethu wensimbi. Kepha njengoba nje isipiliyoni sempilo, amasiko namasiko kudluliselwa. Indoda ibeka umnyuziyamu izingoma zesimanje ze-elekthronikhi, futhi ziyithanda kakhulu. Futhi ngihlabelela "nemikhumbi emhlophe" yakhe "nengoma ngenkululeko" - lezi yizingoma zobuntwana bami, ngakhulela phezu kwazo futhi, ngifisa ukuba nethemba, indoda enhle, leyo ndaba yami izoba yingxenye yendaba yakhe. Isipiliyoni sami siyingxenye yesipiliyoni sakhe. Lokhu ukuxhumana kwezizukulwane. "
Ingabe ungowokuqina noma ukuthuthumela ukukhulisa?
U-Olga: "Ngothando. Kubukeka kimi uma ingane izoyizwa, uzokuphendula okufanayo. Futhi ngokushesha kuzothola ukuthi kungenzekani, futhi yini engakwazi, ngoba ngizoqonda: Umama ufuna okungcono kakhulu kuye. Kepha lokhu kuseyiziphetho zami zokucabanga. Ngubani owaziyo ukuthi yimuphi umlingiswa ozoba yintombazane yethu? Kepha bengingeke ngifune ukugcwala. Ukusuka ohlangothini kubukeka kunengekayo: ngifuna ihhashi - kukhona ihhashi kuwe, ngifuna imoto - emotweni. Namuhla yinto eyodwa, kusasa kuhlukile. Kufanele kube nokulinganisela okufanele. "
Ulalela izeluleko zikabani ngokwesiko?
U-Olga: "Nomabani. Futhi angiziniki mina. Kubukeka kimi ukuthi yonke into ingumuntu ngamunye: lezo zimiso zemfundo "umsebenzi" ngengane eyodwa azisebenzi kwenye. Ngisho nangesikhathi sokukhulelwa, lapho wonke umuntu ehleli ezihlahleni futhi eshaya ngentshiseko isipiliyoni somunye umuntu, angizange ngikwenze lokho. Futhi bonke abangane bakhe, izintombi, umama wathi ngiyakwazisa kakhulu ukunakekelwa kwazo, kodwa uma ngidinga izeluleko ezithile, ngizozibuza. "
U-Olga, futhi yini eyeqile, wahlala empilweni yakho?
U-Olga: "Oh Yeah! Wonke umuntu uphupha ehlobo, futhi mina - cishe ebusika, lapho siya ezintabeni! Ngenxa yokukhulelwa nokuzalwa komnyuziyamu, kwadingeka weqe ezimbili (!) Isikhathi sokuhamba! Kepha kulo nyaka ngizofika. Umyeni usuvele ukholelwa lapho uMuziya eneminyaka emithathu ubudala. Zonke izinsuku zibonisa amavidiyo amasha: "Bheka, lokhu kuneminyaka emithathu kuphela ubudala, futhi usuvele egibele ibhodi leqhwa. Bheka, le ndoda ibili nohhafu kuphela, futhi imele ebhodini. " Ngakho-ke, ngibona sengathi, imnyuziyamu kuzoba ingane yokuqala ezowela ebhodini leqhwa ngonyaka izinyanga ezimbili. "
"Angazi ukuthi yini okufanele sithunywe yingane enhle kangaka, olala ngomoya ophansi, ayinambitha, idla konke abakunikeza, futhi kumamatheka ngaso sonke isikhathi." Photo: Instagram.com (@olgashelest).
Ungathanda lokhu?
U-Olga: "Ngithanda ukuba azi izilimi zakwamanye amazwe, wathuthukiswa ngokomzimba. Uma sibona uhlobo oluthile lwethalente, sizothatha isinyathelo kule ndlela. Kubukeka kimi sengathi ebuntwaneni akukufanele ukuwulayisha ingane ngokukhethekile, kufanele simnikeze ithuba lokukhula buthule. "
Kungani upele ngokuxhumana kwezizukulwane, ubona kanjani iminyaka yakho?
U-Olga: "Kuhle! Ngikholwa ukuthi lesi yisikhathi esisezingeni eliphakeme kunazo zonke empilweni yomuntu - kusuka kwamashumi amathathu kuya kwamashumi amane. Lapho esemncane futhi emncane nomzimba, nomphefumulo, kepha ngasikhathi sinye unesipiliyoni sempilo esikhulu. Ngokwazi ukuzimela yenza izinqumo futhi azisakwesabi ukwenza amaphutha, ngoba izinto eziningi zabonakala futhi uyazi ukuthi ungaphuma kanjani kunoma yisiphi isimo. Ngijabule kakhulu! Emva kwamashumi amane, njengoba besho, impilo iqala nje. Ngakho-ke ngilindele! "
Futhi ngokuya ngezingubo okuthile sekushintshile? Vumela ugqoke iziketi ezimfushane?
U-Olga: "Cha, yilokho engingakwazi ukukuqonda lokhu nakancane. Noma kunjalo, kufanele uqaphele ukuthi uneminyaka emingaki, noma ngabe imilenze yakho yayinzima kangakanani. Ebhishi - Ngiyacela. Kepha ezindaweni zonke, ngombono wami, kubukeka kabi. Angisiye isihogo nhlobo, kodwa lapho ngibona uJulia Roberts engiwuthandayo endleleni ebomvu esibhakabhakeni esingaphezulu maphakathi nethanga, ngiyenza ngibe nzima kuye. Futhi ngemuva kwayo yonke imilenze yakhe ipholile, kepha ubuso buvele bungowesifazane omdala. Lokhu kudideka kuyangidida. Noma abanye besifazane asebethanda ukugqoka ama-t-shirt nge-mickey mouse noma okubhaliwe okuhleliwe. Yebo, uma shehle ukwehlisa isisindo, kepha zonke izinsuku zishiya indlu, zidlala osemusha nomuntu osekhulile, kukhulu kakhulu ngisho nangomqondo wami wokuhlekisa. "
Mhlawumbe lokhu kuyinkinga yobudala obuphakathi?
U-Olga: "Mhlawumbe yebo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, umphakathi ukholelwa ukuthi sekuvele kudingekile ukufeza okuthile kule mpilo. Yakha indlu, tshala isihlahla, ukhulise indodana. Futhi uma okuthile okuvela ezintweni zohlelo akufezeki, umuntu uqala ukwethuka, futhi ngisho nasebuntwaneni, uzama ukudonsa ihora le-X. Amanye amathemba azange afezeke, akazange afezeke, futhi osemusha uyahamba - yingakho ukudangala. Futhi ngethemba lokubamba le nqola yokugcina yentsha ephumayo, abantu banamathele kubo bonke. Phonsa abafazi, amaphutha amancane wesikebhe noma ukushiya ukuze uhlale kuGoa. "
"Ongakuthandanga nguwesifazane onjani ukugqoka!" Photo: Instagram.com (@olgashelest).
Ukuba mncane - imfashini. Sifuna ukubona abantu abasha esibukweni, futhi abaningi bakulungele lokhu ngalokhu kuze kube yilapho belala ngaphansi kommese kadokotela ohlinzayo.
U-Olga: "Lo mkhuba uvele eMelika: iminonjana eminingi yokusebenza kwepulasitiki ebusweni bakho, kukhuphuka isimo senhlalo. Uhlekani? Hike odokotela ohlinzayo epulasitiki - injabulo ebizayo, akuyena wonke umuntu ongakwazi ukuyikhokhela. Futhi uma ungabona ukuthi umuntu wenza ubuso bokubeletha, waphonsa ibunzi lakhe ngama-botoks futhi wandisa izindebe zakhe, "naye unemali. Vele, angenangqondo. Ngicindezela yonke intombi yami endala uRita Mitrofanov: "Hamba, wenze okuthile ebenginesibonelo esiphilayo phambi kwamehlo ami. Ngemuva kwakho konke, kungekudala ngizoba nakho konke. " Kwesinye isikhathi uyabona ukuthi lowo muntu wawusebenzisa uhlobo oluthile lwenqubo, waqala ukubukeka engcono, omncane, kodwa ungakhululeki uyabuza: Wenzeni? Ngaphezu kwalokho, akuwona wonke umuntu ovuma ukuthi bavakashele udokotela wezimonyo, ikakhulukazi uyakuzwa ukuphendula: "Ngiphumule nje endaweni yokuphumula!" Kubonakala ngathi, eminyakeni eyishumi kuzothathwa njenge-Movien yomuntu ongavakashela udokotela ohlinzayo. Ngendlela, uRita uyisibonelo sokuphila, ukuthi ungabukeka kanjani umncane eminyakeni engamashumi amane nane. Kunguye nje emphefumulweni wedwala nokuhlatshwa kwe-roll, futhi lomela lokomela impilo enamhliziyo yami ukungithokozela. "
Wena, ngendlela, umfazi omuhle kakhulu futhi ungazibeka njengobuhle obuhle. Kepha zizwe ukubukeka kwakho ngokuzolile.
U-Olga: "Ngokulandelana, yebo. Kepha ngihlala ngikwamukela ukuncoma ngamahloni ekhelini lakho. "Amehlo amakhulu nezinwele zikanokusho" Nganginika imvelo, akukho lutho lwami. Kumnandi kakhulu lapho bencoma ingqondo yami enkulu noma umuzwa omuhle kakhulu wokuhlekisa. Kimi, ukubukeka kungokwesibili. Futhi-ke, ngubani okufanele akhombise okuhle? "
Kahle, ukunakwa kwesidumbu kuhle, mhlawumbe?
U-Olga: "Yebo, okokuqala, nginomyeni, ukunakwa kwakhe kwanele kimi. Okwesibili, ngizungezwe amadoda ekuseni kuze kube sebusuku. Vele, basabalalisa izincomo, kepha ngiyazibona bezolile, uma kungenjalo abafana bebonke "ngeke bahambe."
Kodwa noma kunjalo, ugqoke ngenjabulo ezingubeni zakusihlwa ukuze udubule?
U-Olga: "Lona ngumsebenzi wami. Futhi-ke, lokho kungowesifazane akuthandi ukugqoka! Ngikhumbula ngandlela thile saphakamisa isihloko "kumantombazane" owesifazane okufanele ahambele ekhaya. Konke okukodwa kutshelwe: "Azikho ama-bathrobes kanye nama-hair curlers! Kuyadingeka ukuvuka umyeni omncane ngaphambili futhi ngokushesha kwenze ama-Marafs akubone kuyo yonke inkazimulo yawo. " Kepha nginombono wami kulokhu. Ngifika ekhaya phakathi kwamabili, vuka imizuzu emihlanu ngaphambili - kimi ukuthunywa okungakhokhelwa. Ekhaya ngigqoka ukuthi yini elula: Kwesinye isikhathi ngifaka ingubo yokugeza, ngesinye isikhathi i-jean, ihembe. Kepha umyeni wami ubona okuhle engikushiya emsebenzini - nge-makeup, isitayela kanye nengubo enhle. Futhi ubuyisa okufanayo, nge-parade ephelele, esidlweni sakusihlwa somndeni. Hhayi-ke, futhi uma kunjalo, khona-ke ngikwazi ukuya ngempelasonto yami evumile yokufuna ukusebenzisana kwamandla okuthandayo ?!