Indaba, eyaqala kangaka ePrague, lapho iSvetlana Foduodulova noSergey Khomitsky bashada khona, bagcina ngeqiniso lokuthi umyeni wakhe wazama ukupenda ingane nge-Down syndrome phambi kukanina. Ngasikhathi sinye, le ndoda yayazi ukuthi ngenxa yengcindezi, kungenzeka ukuthi ukushaywa unhlangothi. Ukuthunjwa kwevidiyo sekuvele kunethiwekhi futhi kwenze umsindo omningi. Ngithole imininingwane yezingoma uqobo, umnikazi weColoratura Soprano ephezulu kakhulu eRussia.
- USvetlana, abalandeli bakho bashaqeka lapho bethola ukuthi kwenzekani emndenini wakho. Kuyini ukungqubuzana phakathi kwakho nomyeni wami?
- Umlingiswa wakhe waqala wazibonakalisa phakathi nokubamba iqhaza kwami kuphrojekthi "Izwi" - waphenduka uTirana. Ngabonwa emgwaqweni, babuza ama-autographs, kwaqala ukumcasula kakhulu, waqala ukuhlekisa nje. Kwayibulala yonke imizwa, le ndaba inganekwane, eyake yaba khona. Futhi ngabona umuntu ohluke ngokuphelele. Angizange ngimbone. Ngesizathu esithile, ukubuya eCzech Republic, lapho asebenza khona, eRussia, waqala ukuphuza utshwala. Hhayi okuningi, kepha kwakukhona isigamu se-aftund sewayini ukuze sibonakale sibe nolaka. Waqala ukungifuna ukuba ngithathe umsebenzi futhi waqala ukubhekana nawo kuphela. Lapho ngiqala ukungiphakamisa isandla sakhe, ngafaka isehlukaniso. Kepha ngokoqobo ngenyanga kwavela ukuthi ngikhulelwe, saphinde sakhuphuka. Bengicabanga ukuthi kuzokushintsha ingane, sizoba nomndeni wangempela. Ngeshwa, izinganekwane azisebenzi.
- Hhayi-ke, kwenzeka kanjani ukuthi umyeni wakho acishe antshontshe indodakazi yakho emehlweni akho?
- Le ndaba yenzeka ezinsukwini ezimbili ngaphambi kwenkantolo, lapho ngokwesimiso kwadingeka inqume futhi inqume indawo yokuhlala yengane. Umlingani wafuna ingane ukuba ihlala naye eCzech Republic, lapho ihlala khona unomphela. Ekupheleni kuka-Ephreli, bandizela emhlanganweni ngesehlukaniso bafaka umphikisi ngalokho abafuna ukukuthatha ingane. Okwaphela ngaphandle kokuzwakala emihlanganweni yabo. Isibonelo, ukuthi ezintweni zami bathola izidakamizwa. Ikhanda alifanele! Yebo, ngokwemvelo, inkantolo ayizange icabangele. Futhi umyeni wathi ngivimba ukukhuluma nengane. Yize ekubangeni ngicelile ukubona ipasipoti yakhe, lapho kwabonakala khona ukuthi bekungeyona ezweni kuphela - nobani okufanele banikeze ukunikela khona?
Lapho uSvetlana Foduodulova eshada, waphupha ngomndeni oqinile futhi ojabulayo. Kepha izinganekwane azisebenzi. Esithombeni esinendoda eyayingumyeni wakhe
- Noma kunjalo, usamnika ukuba ahlangane nendodakazi yami, futhi ekugcineni wacishe wantshontsha ...
"Angikaze ngicabange nokuthi uyakwazi." Washintsha amaqhinga, waqala ukungibhalela essems, ukuthi wangikhumbula kanjani eSona, njengoba efuna ukumbona. Ngacabanga: Uma efuna ngempela, kungani kungenjalo! Ngenxa yalokho, sahlela umhlangano eCafe Wezingane. Futhi ngokweqiniso, bheka ngilahlekelwe ubuqagele. Ngaze ngacela umngane ukuthi aze nami. Kepha bengingacabangi ukuthi kuzosebenza. USergey wabhalela leli risidi, eliqinisekisa ukuthi: alibukeki futhi alilimazi ingane. Ihora lokuqala alidlale naye ngempela. Futhi-ke yonke le micimbi yaqala ukwenzeka. Emakamelweni kuyacaca ukuthi wahlela ukuthunjwa.
- Uyichaze kanjani?
"Kwenye indawo phakathi kobusuku besikhombisa kule cafe amadoda amabili adumile ezingutsheni ezimnyama, eyodwa ngesibazi. Seli, uyakuyalela kuphela ikofi futhi waqala ukubuka ibhola. Indoda nayo ayizange i-oda ukudla ngokwakhe, yangicela ukuthi ngikwenze, ngoba, njengoba ngicabanga ukuthi, ngangazi ukuthi ngizodinga ukubaleka. Bonke babehlelelwe, bebelungiselela lokhu beba. Ngesikhathi esithile, imoto emnyama enezitezi ezimnyama ngaphandle kwezinombolo zafika ekhefini. Futhi kwaqimisa uSergey wangitshela ukuthi uzothatha uSony manje. Kepha ingane akunakukhipha izimo ezijwayelekile futhi ishayela ibe uhlobo oluthile lwefulethi elisuswayo eKhimki! Manje ama-neurologists anqume umuthi, futhi asekhaya. Akunakwenzeka - sinengane engajwayelekile. Kepha ngaleso sikhathi laba bantu bangibamba kakhulu futhi bangihudulela ekugcineni kwehholo, bagcina izandla zakhe. Wabalekela ezandleni zakhe ezandleni zakhe. Umngani wami washeshe waphuthuma, futhi ngamemeza: "Siza, ngizama ukweba ingane. Le yingane yami! " Futhi abantu ababesekhefini bagxumela phezulu, bavimba indlela yakhe eya emotweni. Cishe abantu abangama-50 bathi: "Ngeke uhambe noma kuphi." Ngibonga kakhulu laba bantu ngeqiniso lokuthi baphenduke babengenandaba. Babize amaphoyisa afike masinyane.
USvetlana Feodulova onendodakazi yamaphupho.
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- Waziphatha kanjani ngaleso sikhathi?
- Ulwa, walwa namadoda futhi wazama ukubhekana nesixuku nengane ezingalweni zakhe. Futhi ngibheka lobu bugebengu. Kulungile, bangihlasela, kepha isimo sengqondo sibheke enganeni! Iqiniso ngukuthi indodakazi inenjabulo elula kakhulu. Ama-neurologists athi usengozini - wayengaba nesifo sohlangothi, uma kungazelelwe kwahluleka ummbila, ngokwesibonelo. Futhi wayazi ngakho. Futhi ngamthembela, ngoba bengicabanga ukuthi ngeke akwazi ukulimaza ingane, akakwazanga ukubamba alimaze, akwethuse. Waya kuyo.
- Futhi yini ekugcineni ixazulule inkantolo ngemuva kwayo yonke le ndaba?
- Umyeni akazange avele enkantolo, ummeli wakhe wabaleka enkantolo, ingane izohlala nami. Manje uSergey uzama ukuzithethelela ukuthi kwakuwukukhala okuphoqelekile ngomphefumulo awenza ngezintshisakalo zengane, futhi futhi - wenzani emhlabathini womhawu. Ngicabanga ukuthi, noma ngabe wazama kanjani ukungikholisa, akukho lutho oluzocacisa lezo zenzo - ukulimaza ingane eneminyaka emithathu. Manje uzama ukuthola ukuyekethisa kimi. Kuthwebula izithombe ezithile ekhaya futhi uthi le yimoto yesithandwa sami.
- Futhi manje kuyasiza ngokwezezimali?
- Unqunyelwe ngokulingana kabili, ngoba ingane enokukhubazeka. Kepha kimi manje i-Alimony ayibalulekile. Ngokuvamile, akazange ahlule imali kusuka ngoJanuwari. Kuphela amasonto amabili kuphela ngaphambi kwecala ngokuzumayo aze akhokhe ama-ruble ayizinkulungwane ezingama-20. Thina, lapho sithenga indlu, samkaza umhlaba. Manje zonke izinto ze-SONCHIKI kule ndlu evaliwe. Futhi sihlala naye efulethini elikhulu nabazali eMoscow, esidlekeni sami esisodwa. Ingane inesikhala esiningi: amakamelo amabili, amakhaseji amakhulu, lapho athanda ukuhamba ngesihlalo esinamasondo. Manje sengimdonsa, yize bekunzima. Kepha ngijwayele ...