Ngemuva kwezigameko ezibuhlungu, singaphila, kungathi akukho lutho olwenzekile. Sibuyiselwa ngemuva kokuhlukana okukhulu, ukwahlukana, ngemuva kwemicimbi ebuhlungu. Ngefomu - njengoba kwenzekile lutho. Kepha isipiliyoni sethu asihambi ndawo. Ubufakazi balokhu - amaphupho ethu.
Nasi isibonelo sabafundi bethu abajwayelekile:
"Esigcawini somuzi, lapho ngangihlala khona kusukela eminyakeni eyi-15 kuye kwengama-20, eduze kwendlu yesiko, lapho ngagijimela khona ku-disco, ngibe nomfana ovunekile noma oxhumene nengozi kimi. Bengidinga ukuya e-disco. Futhi angikwazanga ukudlula kulo mfowethu. Ngangesaba.
Umcabango wokuqala ephusheni ukuthi lo ubaba wami ulele emgwaqweni udakiwe, njengoba wake wabuyela ekhaya. Kwakunamahloni kakhulu futhi kubi, futhi bekungenakwenzeka ukwedlula. "
Leli phupho ladlalwa phambi kwe-DIVA yethu ephupha umlando wakhe welanga wamahloni nokuthotshiswa ebusheni, lapho ebona uYise olidakayo nowayengabekezeleleki.
Okomntwana nengane esemncane, bheka umzali wayo nesiguli, edakiwe, engakwazi ukuphila empilweni ejwayelekile - ukushaya okunzima kakhulu. Isithombe sikaYise ngathi sithembeke, ukuphepha, ukusekelwa kulomhlaba. Izingane zabadakwayo zikhula ngokukhathazeka okukhulu ukuthi umhlaba uyingozi, ongathembekile, ongalindeleki. Baba mfushane, bashubile, bazama ukulawula abathandekayo babo ukuthi bangakhathazeki ngalesosizo namahloni lapho kwadingeka bakhule khona.
Ngasendleleni, ngamahloni. Abantwana bakwa-Alcoholis bakhula benomuzwa ongenangqondo wamahloni necala lokuthi yimbangela yokugwinya nokudakwa kwabazali babo. Lo muzwa ugcwele impilo yabo futhi ukhula ekhoneni elifihlekile lomphefumlo. Imvamisa ukubhekana nalokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kwalawa, lapho kuvuthiwe izidalwa izingane zidala amafomu ayisimangali nabanye: gcina ibanga ngokweqile, gwema ubudlelwano obusondelene. Noma, kunalokho, esula ngokuphelele izifiso zabo futhi kudinga ukuvala. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukugwema ihlazo elibhubhisayo nokuthotshiswa.
Empeleni, iphupho lamaphupho ethu. Umfanekiso womfana webhere ongeyingozi kuye ungumfanekiso kababa ophuzile, wabona phakathi kwesikwele, okungukuthi, kuhlobene. Kuyingozi kuye, kusongela ukwethuka kanye nehlazo elibi.
Okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe kweminyaka edlule akuzange kumnyamalale noma kuphi, aqhubeka ngamaphupho ukungqongqoza amaphupho ethu. Ngokusobala, manje usuvuthiwe ngokwanele futhi wabopha ukuhlangana nale mizwa futhi wasinda kubo, akazami ukukhohlwa, ukususa noma ukulimala okungaphansi noma okuwukususa noma ukulimala okungaphansi noma okuwukususa noma ukulimala okungaphansi noma okuwukususa noma ukulimala okungaphansi noma okuwukuqeda amandla.
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UMaria Zemmskova, udokotela wezengqondo, udokotela wokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kwesikhungo sokukhulisa sokukhula kukaMarika Khazina