"Izingane ze-Olimpiki", "zingane zomkhosi", "Izingane Zomqhudelwano". Ukufika kwesisindo ezweni lethu labantu bakwamanye amazwe bekulokhu kube nomphumela owodwa ongenakugwemeka - ukudlala ngothando, inoveli, ukuzalwa kwezingane, mayelana nokuningi okusoze kwazi. Futhi noma amantombazane e-USSR yangaphambili, ngakho konke ukukhuliswa kwawo futhi ephikisana nokwesaba ukwesaba kukahulumeni, akukwazanga ukumelana nalawo mandla, yini ongayilindela kusukela ngosuku namuhla?
Ngeke sikufihle okusobala, inoveli enowesinye isizwe ingamantombazane amaningi uma kungenjalo iphupho, khona-ke i-fass ethokozisayo yegazi, kungenzeka ukuthi bambalwa abantu abafuna ukwenqaba. Owesilisa ovela komunye umkhawulo womhlaba omuhle, ezimweni eziningi, ngoba nje uhlukile futhi uvele adonsela ukunaka kuye. Ukhuluma ngendlela ehlukile, engokomzwelo ehlukile, iziphatha ngendlela ehlukile, kuyilapho kungokwemvelo impela, kuvulekele ukuxhumana futhi kuyena kuye. Sifaka kule ntsha, i-Universal Arousal kanye nomuzwa weholide - futhi kucace ukuthi kungani kuze kube kude kakhulu namantombazane ezemidlalo eseba abalandeli bebhola.
Ishisa isithakazelo emadodeni akwamanye amazwe kanye nokungafinyeleleki kwayo okuhlobene - kumantombazane amaningi yithuba lokuqala langempela lokujwayelana nomuntu wakwelinye izwe, kodwa wangempela kakhulu. Futhi akulula ukujwayelana, okungukuthi, ngenhloso yothando, ukunqoba, ukunqoba, ukuchitha isikhathi ndawonye, bese-ke - yini inkinga yokuhlekisa? Akunandaba ukuthi kuzwakala kanjani, kepha amantombazane amaningi abheka nje ukujwayelayo nomuntu wakwelinye izwe njengethikithi eliya esikhathini esizayo esihle futhi ngeke aphuthelwe yithuba lawo! Intshisakalo enjalo icasulwa abafokazi ngokwabo abavame ukungakhathaleli nakancane nakanjani izehlakalo noma nje kumnandi ukuchitha kusihlwa.
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"Uthando olunjalo lwebhola" lungafika kude kangakanani? Futhi kanjani ukuthandana nomuntu wakwelinye izwe ngaphandle kwemiphumela?
Okokuqala, kusobala, kufanelekile ukulahla zonke izinhlelo ze-matrimonial nezinhlelo zokuthola "ukunqotshwa" kwe-Ukhager yangaphandle ekhanda. Akudingekile ukuzibeka kusengaphambili esikhundleni esincike kumfokazi, kuthathwa ngokomoya kuso. Akukho okunye ngaphandle kwamathemba angagcwaliseki nokudumazeka, ngeke kulethe.
Akudingekile ukuvumela ukunakwa komfokazi, kufaka phakathi ukunakwa okungenampilo, isitayela esingaphansi kwezingubo noma sokuziphatha. Lokhu ngokwesimiso akuyona indlela engcono kakhulu yokudonsela ukunaka, futhi kulo mongo kungabonakala kungabi naphutha ngokungalingani.
Akufanele ukweqisa amamaki wokunakwa okuhunyushwe ngowesinye isizwe. Kufanele kuqondwe ukuthi konke ukuvuma kothando nokwethembana kwaphakade akuyona into engaphezu kwamazwi, indlela esetshenziswa kakhulu yokubonisa ukuzwela kwayo. Kuyadingeka ukubhekisela ekubonisweni kwemizwa okunjalo, ngokulandelana, ngaphandle kokuhambisa enhliziyweni.
Ukwenza isikhathi enkampanini yabezinye izizwe, ungakhohlwa lokho kwamanye amazwe kunezinye izindinganiso zokuziphatha. Futhi uma izwe lethu lijwayelekile libhekwa uma indoda ikhokhela umfazi emgqomeni noma ezokuthutha, noma ngabe yena uqobo wammema, kwathi nakwamanye amazwe amaningi amukelwa kuwo wonke umuntu ukuba azikhokhele. Iseluleko esijwayelekile esinganikezwa lapha, okunjalo: Zilungiselele ukubala kuzo zonke izimo futhi ungathathwa ngemicabango yethu. Vumela iholide lihlale liyiholide, kepha ungakhohlwa ukuthi ngemuva kweholide ngalinye kunezinsuku zesonto.