Muva nje, uhlala uzwa amazwi othando futhi waqiniseka ukuthi usagcwalisa ubuhlobo bakho. Kodwa-ke, ngokungazelelwe ukuthandana nawe, le ndoda yaqala ukuziphatha ngendlela ehlukile, futhi manje awusekho ukuqiniseka ngemizwa yakhe. Ungakuqonda kanjani lokho akuphikisile, kungenzeka yini ukulungisa isimo nokuthi yini okufanele uyenze kuleli cala? Isazi sezengqondo, umculi u-Alina Diskis unikeza izeluleko kulabo abaye bahlangabezana nenkinga enjalo.
Alina Delisse
Izimpawu zokuthi umuntu akathandi:
1. Insimbi yokuqala ethusayo Ngubani okufanele akwazise ngakho, angaba umphumela wokuba umphumela kanye nesifiso sokukude nawe. Wavele waqala ukubona ukuthi indoda yakho yabukhali kwezokuxhumana, yayivame ukunyamalala, ayithokozi lapho ufika ekhaya, futhi awenzi izinhlelo zakho nemibono yakho. Kubukeka sengathi ukukwenza ukuzethemba - isiphetho sibonisa: kusho ukuthi ngithole isimo sethemba kwenye indawo.
2. Insimbi yesibili ethusayo Umsindo okwamanje lapho indoda iqala ukukhohlwa ngamaholide ahlanganayo, imicimbi ebalulekile kuwe kuwe umbhangqwana. Ngokuphazima kweso amabanga avela ezihlotsheni zakho, acabanga ukuthi ukuya ekhaya ngokushesha kangakanani. Kubukeka sengathi kunciphisa isikhathi esichitha nawe.
3. insimbi yesithathu Kuzwakele ngaleso sikhathi lapho umyeni eyeka kungazelelwe ukukunikeza izimbali, echaza lokhu kuntuleka kwemali noma isikhathi. Eqinisweni, izimbali azihlali ziyisixhaxha sokuluka, kwesinye isikhathi sekwanele ukunikeza i-rose eyodwa. Lapho nje ukuqonda ubuhlobo bakho kuqhubeke ukuthi owesifazane udinga ukuthwala, kufanelekile ukuqala ukuthatha izinyathelo zokusindisa lesi simo.
ezine.Insimbi yesine Kuzwakala kukhondla ngokwengeziwe: Umuntu uyayeka ukukutshela ngothando lwakhe futhi uyeka ukukhipha le mizwa nemizwa. Akasakuzami ukukuthola kunoma yiliphi icala elikahle, aliphathi izandla, akasekho mnene, ukuqonda.
ezinhlanu.Insimbi yesihlanu Kuzwakala kufana nakwaNabat: Indoda iye yabanda nawe, yayeka ukwenza uthando. Amahlazo aqala, akhala, owesifazane uqala ukusola ukuvukela umbuso, okungenzeka kungakabikho, kepha kukhona ezinye izinkinga emsebenzini, ebhizinisini.
Ungasilungisa kanjani isimo?
1. Ngokubudlelwano kufanele kungabikho okusolwa, amanga - Umndeni onjalo kungcono ungakha, ngoba izingane zakho zizokubuka konke lokhu. Uma ubona sengathi le ndoda iqale ukukupholisa, kufanelekile ukuqonda okwenzeka cishe ngabo bonke ngababili, ukuthatha lesi simo bese uzama, akukephuzi kakhulu ukuba ulungile. Hlala phansi etafuleni lokuxoxisana bese uzama ukubiza umyeni ngengxoxo engxoxweni eyingozi.
2. Ungazama ukwenza sengathi awuboni ushintsho, kepha ngokuphuthumayo hamba ngokuthuthuka kwabo nokuzilibazisa . Bhalisela ejimini, iya kudokotela wezengqondo. Mhlawumbe udinga nje "ukuphumula" okuncane komunye nomunye.
3. Buyela ebudlelwaneni obekwenzile iminyaka eminingi - Ukuhlaselwa kweRomance . Lapho kumema umyeni wakho ekhonsathi yomculi wakhe amthandayo, ku-movie noma ekhefini. Khombisa inganekwane encane, futhi lokhu kuqinisekisiwe ukuthi kukhokha ikhulu.
Okufanele ukwenze ngokwezigaba!
Awukwazi ukuhlela amahlazo futhi ukhanye ngokweqile isimo ngokunganeliseki kwakho. Uma ushintsha ngaphakathi, uzoshintsha kuwe. Thatha leli binzana ngezikhali.