Kubukeka sengathi indima yokulala, akukho okuhlukaniswe ngokukhethekile. Futhi ngasikhathi sinye, umyalezo ojulile wamaphupho azise. Ekuqaleni kokudalwa kwale kholamu, sengivele ngishilo ukuthi kwakulula ukuxoshwa ebuthongweni bese uthi: "UBrad waphupha." Eqinisweni, amaphupho ethu awanangqondo nakancane, i-logic kanye nobudlelwano neqiniso elijwayelekile kumane kulahlekelwe. Kepha ngasikhathi sinye, ukulala kuwuphawu olugxila lusidlulisela imininingwane edingekayo.
Nasi isibonelo sephupho elinjalo elithumele iphupho muva nje.
"Namuhla eCafe ekuseni ngangifuna ukuhamba nomngane. Futhi ngephupho, sesikhona. Khetha itafula, i-oda ikhofi kanye ne-dessert. Konke okuhle - njengoba kwenzeka njalo kule ndawo. Lapho-ke ukuxabana kuqala. I-Cafe Kunamaqabunga, noma aqala ukulungiswa. Ukubhujiswa ngegama elilodwa. Sikhohliwe ngathi. Ngihlazekile, osekulindele ikhofi. Ngiphendulwe ngenhlonipho, bathi, Yebo, linda. Ngemuva kwalokho bayeka nje ukunaka. Futhi ngithukuthele futhi ngiqhubeke nokulinda ...
Ngemuva kokuvuka ngipendiwe: Ngisalindele okuthile empilweni yami, ngibonisa ukuthi angibukeli ukuncishiswa okungizungezile. Esikhundleni sokwenza, hhayi nje ukulinda. "
Ukulala kukhombisa amaphupho ethu ukuthi empilweni usesibomeni nje: kulindeleke, kuzozwa, yena othola amasu, yize konke kukhulu kakhulu - futhi umhlaba wawo udilizwa kakhulu.
Kuyafaneleka ukusho ukuthi ukulinda, ukufiphala kungenye yezindlela ezintathu zokusabela okuzenzakalelayo esimweni esicindezelayo nesisongelayo. Ifomula 3 ° F, okuthiwa "ukulwa, indiza, uqhwa" (okusho ukuthi "ukuhlaselwa, ukubaleka noma okubandayo"). Ngakho-ke umzimba wethu uziphatha esimweni sengozi, ulalele okungokwemvelo kokugcina. Futhi lesi yindlela enhle yokuzivikela, kepha hhayi njalo, kudingeka silalele ulwazi lwethu lwendabuko ngokusinda. Akuzona zonke izimo empilweni ezidinga ukwenziwa kwalokhu kuziphatha, njengoba izingxabano akuyona ingozi eqondile. I-3 F-formula iyindlela yokuziphatha esimweni sengozi yangempela, yathuthukiswa kwinqubo yokuziphendukela kwemvelo. Kepha imfuneko yayo, ihlazo alisisongeli ngempela. Ukulala kukhombisa i-heroine yethu njengoba engagcini nje ngokusinda kuphela, kodwa futhi ahlasele abanye, avuse izingxabano, futhi lokhu kuyasimboza umhlaba ngaye. Ngokunokwenzeka, lokhu kukhombisa inqubo yako ephelelwe yisikhathi, okuyinto ngenkuthalo imaski ngenkuthalo, izidingo, izikhalazo kanye namahlazo.
Ukwelapha okhona kwakhiwa eqinisweni lokuthi asinikezwa inqubo yokubuyiselwa kwayo nokuguga siphenduka ukuguqulwa. Lokhu kudansa okudingeka sifunde ngaso sonke isikhathi sokuphila, minyaka yonke sizwa konke ngokucacile ukuthi ngisho nale nqubo yempilo izophela.
Kuze kube yilapho amaphupho ethu athukuthele kulokhu ngesidingo esithukuthele, kodwa eqinisweni, uma eshukumisela lo mthetho, uzothola ukuthi kunenqubo yokuba yinhlekile kunangaphambili ekofi.
Futhi amaphupho akho?
Izibonelo zamaphupho akho athumela ngeposi: [email protected]. Ngendlela, amaphupho kulula kakhulu ukuwaveza uma encwadini eya kumhleli uzobhala izimo zokuphila okwandulelayo, kepha okubaluleke kakhulu - imizwa nemizwa ngesikhathi sokuvuka kuleli phupho.
UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin