Senza ukukhetha njalo ngomzuzwana, futhi yonke impilo yethu elandelayo incike esinqumweni ngasinye. Imisindo eyethusayo, kwesokudla?
Ngeke ngikhulume ngeqiniso lokuthi thina ngokwethu sikhetha imvelo, umsebenzi, umdlalo wokuzilibazisa, ezemidlalo, amakilasi azosiza ekugcinweni ngokwawo ngendlela, sisebenzisa imikhiqizo ... Konke lokhu kwaziwa kahle, yize kungahlali njalo .
Ngifuna ukukhuluma ngokukhethwa kwanyanga zonke. Mayelana nemicabango yethu, mayelana nezinhloso nezinhloso.
Ngolunye usuku ngatshela omunye umsebenzi wami, lokho ngemuva kwe-n-oe, inani lesikhathi liyayeka. Umpheki wami phakathi nengxoxo waphawula enye into ebaluleke kakhulu ngaleso sikhathi. Wayefisa ukuthola "umqondo" wakhe, engizowashisa nokuthi ngizobe ngilungile. Bengicabanga ukuthi izinyanga eziyisithupha ngangingenaso isikhathi namandla ("Hhawu, ukuthi yizaba zebhanali" - ngiyazi! Kepha kuyenzeka, futhi kwenzeka) ekwakhekeni nasekukhuthazeni okuthile. Ngazinza kahle emhlabeni obizwa nge- "ukuqina" futhi, naphezu kwabo bonke ubunzima, ngokwesikhathi esithile wayesaba ukuhlukana ne-niche enemibandela, lapho ekwazi khona kahle. Namuhla ngabona ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuthi "vusa" futhi ubuyise amandla okuphupha nokwenza, ukungesabi ukwenza engikufunayo.
UVladislav Makarchuk
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Futhi lesi sinqumo bekungewona umphumela wokukhethwa okuzenzakalelayo, kwavela ngenxa yokukhethwa kwanyanga zonke. Imicabango yethu ihamba njalo. Ngokucacile thina umzuzwana ngamunye enza ukukhetha ukuvumela lokhu noma lokho. Futhi kubalulekile ukuzwa wena ngesikhathi.
Eqinisweni, akulona ngokuyisisekelo ukuthi kuzoba "utshani bokugcina" ... futhi ngempela lokhu kukhanya noma lowo mzuzu "? Ngasizathu simbe, abantu abaningi ababuboni ubudlelwano phakathi kwezimo ezenzeka empilweni, futhi ungazinikeli lo mbiko lokuthi "kuze kube manje" asikaze sisiveze umbono ongazelelwe, kepha uchungechunge lwamaqiniso ahlobene . Mhlawumbe, kucatshangelwa le nguqulo yokuthuthukiswa kwemicimbi, izinguquko empilweni zibonakala zingesabi futhi zinengqondo ngokwengeziwe. Uma senze okuthile, akubazingezi thina nge-grommet noma ngesiwula. Ngokunokwenzeka, kwikhambi elithile, sehlulekile umphumela wokukhethwa kwamasonto onke. Umzuzu owodwa nje omuhle - iphazili ligoqwa, futhi konke kuba sendaweni yalo.
Kepha angifuni ukulinda "umzuzwana omuhle." Ilinde - Ishaye imizwa futhi igqekeze ukuzila ukudla. Ngihlela ukuhlala okungenani usuku, ukuholwa yizifiso nezidingo zami: ukwenza lokho okuzoba wusizo kimi, hhayi engisebenza nabo, ngibone labo engifuna ukufunde nabo, hhayi nalabo engifuna ukufunde nabo, hhayi nalabo engifuna ukufunde nabo, hhayi nalabo engifuna ukufundela kubo Ngiyakuthanda, hhayi lokho okudingayo. Kungazelelwe kuvela ukuthi ekugcineni ngiqonda ukuthi kuyini - ukwenza isonto ukukhetha kwesibili kubekela wena! Woza nami, eh?