Leli phupho lingithumele ilungu elilodwa leqembu, izinyanga eziyi-8 ezisebenze ngokuqinile. Abahlanganyeli kuleli qembu balungiselelwe ukuba baqonde ukuthi bayabavimbela ukuthi baphumelele ezindaweni ezahlukahlukene zokuphila, kanye nokuziphatha okuhle, okusebenzayo. Ekugcineni, leli qembu lalisebenza ngendlela ephumelela kakhudlwana kulowo nalowo obambe iqhaza emikhakheni yempilo.
Esikhathini esithile esidlule, leli qembu laqeda ubukhona bayo. Futhi muva nje ufike incwadi enjalo:
"Ngichithe ukuqeqeshwa komdanso esigqeshini eqenjini nabasanda kufika. I-Studio uqobo isendaweni ethile yezemidlalo, lapho abasubathi abayedwa bebodwa futhi lapho uhhafu - munye uhlobo lwezemidlalo, banama-apobatics lapho, y Gymnances, bebonke, imidanso yethu ababekezeleli, kepha basinika indawo leyo. Isoka lami lafika ekusebenziseni kwami okokuqala empilweni yami. Waqala ukubandakanyeka, iqembu lisha, singena kule midlalo edlula ehholo, bese siqala ukuphazamisa, sithi awukwazi ukwenza ukuqeqeshwa, njll. , futhi babuye babuye, baqale ukuqeqesha eduze kwethu. Ngiyabuza ukuthi bazosivimba yini isikhathi eside, bathi benza abakufunayo. Ngemuva kwalokho into ebaluleke kakhulu iza kimi engibiza nge-veronica. Yize igama lami lihlukile, futhi ngizibiza ngami. Umsubathi uthi awuthandi ukudansa kwethu, nokuthi asikho isizathu. Ekugcineni bahamba. "
Ekuhunyushweni kwephupho, ukuphawula kwamaphupho kuzosisiza ukuthi i-Veronica ingumbukiso wayo, empeleni empeleni kuholela kulokhu kuqeqeshwa. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - leli igama lamaphupho ethu.
Ngakho-ke, iphupho litshela ukuthi iphupho lethu litholakala ehholo elinganele, lapho izama ukuchitha khona ukuqeqeshwa ngemidanso yemfashini. Ngokokuqala ngqa, umfana wakhe uza esikhathini sokuqeqeshwa, kodwa othile onegunya kakhulu ukuthi isikhala sibe ngubani, siwushayela njengamagama weVeronica, "adidekile".
Isimo 'salezikhathi' nangephutha egameni, njengoba kubonakala, akusho ukuthini ngokuqondile ephusheni, i-heroine ilwela okuthile okuvela kunyoko. Isithombe somsubathi azama ukuyishayela, ingabe ukumelana kwakhe uqobo akwaqondisa ukulwa nonina. Kufanele kuqondwe ukuthi umzabalazo wenzeka ngomqondo wangempela. Esikhundleni salokho, iphupho lethu lilwa nelungelo elithile, izinkolelo zikanina owayemunca, futhi manje zimvimba.
Impahla yeSoviet Times ithi icala akuyona into ebaluleke kakhulu, kepha kulokho okuqongelelwe eminyakeni edlule.
Iphuzu lokulala okubabayo iqiniso lokuthi i-heroine yethu ekugcineni itholakala nesoka lakhe, kepha isikhundla somama kuyo iqinile. Kunzima kuye ukuxhumana nomngane wakhe, kungakhathalekile iqiniso afunda kuMama.
Nasi isikhathi sokwenza ukubuyela emuva bese usho ukuthi i-Psychology Yomndeni iveza ukuthi kuqhubeka okuqhubekayo phakathi kukamama nendodakazi. Amadodakazi, afuna eyodwa noma cha, uvame ukuba nefa okukusasa, imikhuba, ecabanga. Njengomthetho, abakuboni lokhu futhi baqondiswe ngokungaboni yimibono kamama ngabo, umndeni wabo, ukuzalwa kwengane, bathola imiyalo yabazali, ngenkathi bephinda imiyalo yabazali ngokunemba okukhethekile, ngenkathi benza amaphutha . Ngoba kukhona okulungile okwakungomama ngasikhathi sinye, kungenzeka kube yinchilo ephelele yendodakazi yakhe ngesikhathi sakhe. Kwenzeka ukuthi umama, ngenxa yezimo zesikhathi eside, akhiphe izisu eziningi, bese amadodakazi abo ngezizathu eziqondakalayo azinazo izizathu eziqondakalayo azifuni ukuba zingane, zingesaba ukuthi kuzofanele zithole Izingane zabo esiphelweni esifanayo, kodwa bona - ukuhlupheka ngalokhu. Nezibonelo ezinjalo. Ngenzekile ukuzwa ukuthi abesifazane benqaba kanjani uthando lwabo futhi bashada, bavumelana ngokuyekethisa nokubalwa, nangemva kwamashumi eminyaka, bayenqabela amadodakazi abo ukuba bathandane futhi badale imindeni ngokulandelana kwezinhliziyo zabo.
I-Psychology Yomndeni iphakamisa ukuthi okujwayelekile kobudlelwano babazali - izingane iqiniso lokuthi umama unikezelwe indodakazi yakhe ebudaleni, imnika isibusiso sakhe noma ngabe yindodakazi engakanani ihlala ngokwezinkolelo zomama. Ngamanye amagama, umama usiza indodakazi yakhe ukuthi ithole isikhundla esivuthiwe nesimele nesiphetho sayo.
Manje emuva kwi-heroine yethu. Kubukeka sengathi uvuthiwe ngokwanele ukuba athembele kuye ngaphezu kwezinkolelo zikanina. Ukulala kusho ukuthi emphefumulweni wakhe ukulungela ubuhle bokuqina nokuzimela.
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UMaria Zemmskova, udokotela wezengqondo, udokotela wokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kwesikhungo sokukhulisa sokukhula kukaMarika Khazina