Izilaleli zethu eziphambili ngabesifazane, ngezikhathi ezithile bathumela iphupho ezindleleni zokuzala izingane. Vele, ngithanda ukuthola iphupho elinjalo nendoda ephuphayo, kepha kuze kube manje kuphela abesifazane abasebenza kulesi sihloko ekhasini lesigaba.
Ngendlela, lesi yisibonelo samaphupho abafundi bethu abajwayelekile. Wahlanganyela amaphupho okuqala, kanye nokukhombisa ukuthi kungani bephupha manje, ngakho-ke cishe akukho okuphawulayo. Kubukeka sengathi umsebenzi wekholamu lethu kwenzeka okungenani ngoba kukhona abafundi bawo abanesifiso futhi abangena emaphusheni abo, bafunda ukunquma imiyalezo yamaphupho.
"Izinyanga eziyisithupha ngihlangana nontanga yomuntu (ngingu-47). Uhlukanisile, unendodana yeminyaka emi-5, emthanda kakhulu. Sinobudlelwano esigabeni 'sina. " Sikhuluma ngokuningi. Izikhathi eziningana kwakuyingxoxo kaninginingi nangendlela yokukhulelwa, kanye nezingane: Sithanda - ngamunye ngokwahlukana - izingane eziningi. Wabuza, ngathanda izingane kuye uma ngikwazi ukuba nezingane eziningi. Ezinyangeni ezi-1.5-2 ngiphuphe ngalokhu.
Inombolo yokulala 1. : Ngibona umngani wami, umdala kunabaneminyaka engu-5-7 ubudala, okungukuthi, uneminyaka engu-53-55 manje. Ukhulelwe ephusheni lami futhi ujabule kakhulu. I-Tummy inkulu kakhulu. Ngimzungezile, ngijabule ngesisu, ngiyajabula futhi ngiyabuza ngaso sonke isikhathi: "Uneminyaka emingaki manje? Ngitshele ukuthi uneminyaka emingaki? " Futhi akasho konke, ukumomotheka ngendlela engaqondakali. Futhi ngicabanga ngephupho: "Uma enqume ukukhulelwa, futhi yikho konke kukhulu, khona-ke mina, ngisencane, ngoba ngiyakwazi!"
Ukulala inombolo 2. : Umngani wami uyazi. Ontanga yami. Inesixha sokuxilongwa kwezokwelapha, okubucayi impela, ngakunye kwayo okuphambene nalokho hhayi lokho ngokukhulelwa, kepha ukumane nje ukumane uphile impilo. Ngimbona ekhulelwe, emomotheka. Ngicabanga futhi ngephupho: "Kufanele, sipholile kanjani!" Ngiyahamba, ngiyamtshela ukuthi, bathi, Ngijabule kakhulu ngokuthi unqume kahle! "
Ukukhulelwa ephusheni akuhlali kuhlobene nokuzalwa kwengane
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Mhlawumbe akukho lutho ongangeza. USnoviditsa wahlangana nendoda, ubudlelwano abadinga ukuqhubeka nokuthuthuka. "Olula" kakhulu ngale ndlela isifiso sokubeletha ingane. Ngomqondo othile, lokhu kusho ukuthi phakathi kwazo kuyinto ethile ukwedlula indlela abafuna ukuzabelana ngayo lokho abafuna ukukufakaza. Kungenzeka kungabi yingane njalo: Kwesinye isikhathi iphrojekthi, ibhizinisi elithile, lingahamba, isifundo esihlanganyelwe noma indawo ehlanganayo yempilo lapho lo mbhangqwana uzozibona njengabantu abangahleliwe.
Ingane yisisombululo esilula esivela endaweni yokubukwa kwe-biology. Yize amaphupho ethu nakwakhe hhayi iminyaka evundile kakhulu yinselelo enkulu. Angaba ngumama? Ngabe ivundile okwamanje? Anganikeza umuntu impilo?
Ngale nkinga kunowesifazane ovuthiwe, futhi indlela yokuphuma kuyo ayihlali njalo ingane. Kuvame kakhulu ukulima ubuciko bakho bokudala, ukudala. Unganikeza impilo entsha ngezindlela ezihluke kakhulu. Futhi ngephupho, ubona abesifazane abakwazi ukudala okusha, noma ngabe ukusebenza kwabo kokuzala izingane okuqondile kungenzeki. Futhi uthi ngaphakathi kuye: "Bangakwazi, futhi ngiyakwazi!", Ngiyakuqinisekisa ukuthi akukho ukuzala okungakanjengowesifazane odala uqobo.
Ngiyazibuza ukuthi uphupha ini? Kanjani futhi kanjani nangowesifazane okhulumayo ngaphakathi kuwe? Izibonelo zamaphupho akho Thumela ngeposi: [email protected]. Indlela, amaphupho kulula kakhulu ukuwaveza uma encwadini eya kumhleli obaluleke kakhulu uzobhalela izimo zokuphila ezandulelayo, kepha okubaluleke - imizwa ngesikhathi sokuvuka Kuleli phupho.
UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin