Iphupho elithandekayo elabiwa nathi umfundi oyedwa osemusha wekholamu yethu. Futhi isihloko, ngizothi ngiqonde, ngithokozise futhi ngithathe umphefumulo, uma kungenjalo wonke umuntu wesifazane, khona-ke njalo ngomzuzwana - empeleni.
"Ngisanda kuhlukana nendoda yami ngenxa yobungani bakhe nenkosikazi yangaphambili, engangingayiqondi futhi ayizange yamukele. Bengithukuthele kakhulu futhi nginomona ekukhulumeni okunjalo. Uthe ngeke abe nobudlelwano naye. Intuition yami yakhuluma ngokuphambene. Futhi kusukela ekuqaleni kwaleli sonto, waqala waphila naye. Namuhla ngiphuphe ngokulala engixhumana naye, ngaba abangane futhi ngihamba, imizwa yayifudumele kakhulu ephusheni (empilweni ikhefu eliphelele). Futhi phambi kwami, ngivame ukungiphupha ngamaphupho, lapho ngingabangane khona nezimbangi zami. Njengoba ngangiqonda, leli phupho ngokubuyisana nokuxhumana nengxenye ethile yami. Kepha ungakuthola kanjani? "
Empeleni, ukulala kusobala. I-heroine yethu ayizange inikeze intukuthelo yayo futhi yaqhubeka nokuhlangana nomuntu isikhashana, yazi ukuthi yenza indawo yomunye umuntu. Ubudlelwano obunjalo, njengomthetho, bathatha kuphela amandla abo bonke ababambiqhaza. Zonke izinkanuko ezingokomoya zihloselwe umzabalazo, umhawu, ulaka kanye nokuncintisana, hhayi ukuthula nokudalwa kobudlelwano obuqinile. Yize isibonelo se-heroine yethu sijwayelekile kwabaningi ngezindlela ezinzima kakhulu. Isibonelo, bonke laba bantu babengashada. Amadrama onxantathu wothando adlalwa eduze nathi yonke indawo, futhi ngaphezu kwalokho, iningi labesifazane lithatha lesi sigaba ezimpilweni zabo. Lesi sipiliyoni siqala ukubaluleka ngokwengeziwe, ukuqonda lokho okungifanele, futhi yini engeyona. Ngike ngazwa abesifazane abaningi 'abalahlekelwe' ngezimbangi zabo. Ekuqaleni, lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kwakubuhlungu, kepha kamuva bathola ukuthi abalwanga ngomuntu othize, kodwa eqinisweni lobuhlobo. Ngaleso kanye kufanele ukuba nalo muntu, abafuni futhi ababonanga umbono wesikhathi eside naye. Kodwa-ke, ukwesaba ukuhlala umuntu kudlula isimo sengqondo esivuthiwe ngalesi simo futhi ngokweqiniso ukudalula izisusa zawo.
Ngokuqondene ne-heroine yethu, leli phupho lithi wabuyisana ngokuphelele neqiniso lokuthi umlingani wakhe wangaphambili wabuyela othandweni lwakhe lwangaphambilini. Intuition yakhe yaphakamisa ukuthi izinto zinjani ngempela. Manje kuzoqala ukuhlolwa kwangempela kuye: noma ngabe kuzokwazi ukuhlala isikhathi esisodwa ukunquma ukuthi uyamdinga yini, bese uqala ukwenza izinto.
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UMaria Zemmskova, udokotela wezengqondo, udokotela wokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kwesikhungo sokukhulisa sokukhula kukaMarika Khazina