Abesifazane - ukudala i-pragmatic. Ngemuva kokuhlangana nendoda, bayakwazi ukumethula ngemizuzu emihlanu nomyeni wabo noyise wezingane, bandize ngengqophamlando eholidini futhi bethuthele abazali babo. Amadoda alula konke. Balinganisela intombazane ngethemu elifushane: ubufazi bakhe, ukubukeka, ukumamatheka. "Ngize, ngabona futhi ngashada" - akuvamile ukuthi kwenzeka. Akunandaba ukuthi kupholile kangakanani, kufanele kudlule esikhathini esithile ukuze anqume: "Ngifuna kube ngumkami!"
Ubudlelwano phakathi kwabalingani buhlukile. Kwabanye besifazane, le yimihlangano yocansi amahlandla amathathu ngesonto. Noma ukugoqa ehhovisi e-xerox. Omunye ulindele ukuguqulwa kwezinga elisha, ngoba "sekuyisikhathi, sihlangane isikhathi eside - ukuthathwa kwezinyanga ezi-2." Kwesinye isikhathi ubudlelwane buxhasa i-Intanethi ngamadolobha kanye namazwe. Kepha ubudlelwane obuvumelanayo buyindlela ephelele emazingeni angokomzwelo nangokomzimba. Azikho izindandatho ezanele ebhokisini elincane.
Lapho umkhankaso wangaphambi komshado ufika, akunakwenzeka ukubeka ingcindezi endodeni. Kepha imvamisa le ntombazane ibonakala ibonakala nge-alamu yangaphakathi: "Isikhathi! Ngemuva kwakho konke, sengivele ngineminyaka engama-20. Noma 30. " Usikisela. Amacebiso angena ezingxoxweni zansuku zonke futhi aqhakaze ngomshado, ngenkathi indoda ingaqali ukuphonsa ubuchopho.
Iphutha ukucabanga ukuthi ukhohliwe noma akazange akwazi. Ngokunokwenzeka, le ndoda iyeka isiphakamiso sengalo futhi inhliziyo iyinto enengqondo - ukuqiniseka ukuthi akakakulungeli okwamanje. Ngeshwa, yizaba nje. Kuyinto elula ukuba yindoda enentombi, ayidingi okuningi. Ngokunokwenzeka, ubudlelwane obunjalo buzoholela ekulahlekelweni isikhathi. Uma indoda ilungile eduze kowesifazane, ifuna kube njalo. Kwenzeka ukuthi uvikele umthwalo wezezimali. Khumbula indlela inganekwane ngesithupha lapho kubalwa khona i-mole: "udla phansi okusanhlamvu ngosuku. Ngishada! " "Futhi unyaka ... - Cha, ungashadi!" Indoda iyazi ukuthi ukugcina umkakhe akuyona into efanayo nezindawo zokudlela eziholwa kanye nezipho okufanele zinikeze. Ngaphezu kwalokho kuzolandela ukusetshenziswa kwemali okwengeziwe ezinganeni. Futhi wayefuna ukubuyekeza uhlobo lwezimoto, aziphilele ...
Ungabeki ingcindezi endodeni yakho ethandekayo
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Kunamantombazane abonakala ebhalwa ebunzini: "Hheyi, othile, ngithathe umshado!" Amadoda ajwayelekile afundwa futhi akhiwe ngokushesha ebudlelwaneni ezigabeni zokuqala. Futhi amadoda afriziwe akhangwa amantombazane, ama-mamikina amadodana noma ama-pickpearts. Labo ekuqaleni abayesabi izifiso zakhe ukwenza umshado ngokushesha okukhulu. Ngemuva kwakho konke, uyazi kahle - lokhu ngeke kwenzeke!
Kepha amadoda ajwayelekile amisani? Amadoda nawo asaba. Kuliqiniso, ngokungafani nabesifazane, ukwesaba kwabo kungukushayela amandla. Nakhu kaningi Izimfuneko zokwesaba kwabesilisa:
- Ukukhetha. Isixazululo esibi sendoda kunzima ukwamukela kunowesifazane. Ngemuva kwakho konke, unakho, ngenxa ye-testosterone, i-hemisphere yesobunxele yobuchopho ithuthukiswa kakhulu, inesibopho sokuqonda. Indoda icabanga kahle, ihlaziya. Abesifazane banemizwa ngokwengeziwe, ngakho-ke bavame ukungakhathali "kuza kushada."
- Ukulahleka kwenkululeko. Ngemuva kwakho konke, noma ngabe lo mbhangqwana uhlala ndawonye, inkohliso yenkululeko endodeni ihlala. Wethuka umbono wokuthi "kuze kube phakade." Ukuhlakanipha kwabesifazane ukushiya umuzwa wenkululeko nangemva komshado. Ngaphandle kwalokho, indoda ibonakala sengathi akuyona indandatho kuye, nemijondolo.
- Ukwesaba umthwalo wemfanelo Lapho eqonda ukuthi ngemuva komshado, kuzofanela ungabi yindoda kuphela, kodwa futhi noYise. Umhlaba uzophenduka ubheke phansi, izinga lezibopho lizokwanda ngokushesha nje lapho liwela umkhawulo wokuqopha. Kepha umthwalo awunikezwa isitifiketi somshado. Kungenzeka ukuthi ubekelwe endodeni noma cha.
- Izibonelo ezingaphumelelanga Ujwayelene, bangani futhi ikakhulukazi abazali. Akazi ukuthi yini isehlukaniso, idrama, ingxenye yempahla, i-alimony. Lokhu kwesaba kuzosusa owesifazane onobuhlakani nobuhlakani obunobuhlakani obuhle kakhulu abazofakazela - lokhu ngeke kwenzeke kithi!
- Ukwesaba kwe-PERM. Usazizwa enomoya okhanyayo ngempilo ye-bachelor. Noma uhlala ndawonye. Uthanda ithuba lokukhanyisa ephathini futhi akhombe ubusuku ngebhayisekili. Ngeke azisebenzise. Kepha mhlawumbe! Isitembu ephasiphothi liyisinyathelo sokukhula. Futhi akuwona wonke amadoda alungele ukukhula, futhi akudingekile ukuba abe yizinsana kulokhu.
- Ukwesaba ukwehluleka Njengoba indoda ingafuni ukudumazeka ekukhetheni. Kumele akha ama-200% ukuthi lo wesifazane oyingqayizivele kakhulu nonina ophelele ezinganeni zakhe. Futhi wamkhetha hhayi ngenxa yemali, ukuxhumana noma ukulawulwa kwedolobha elikhulu.
Buyisela emuva ukuphendula
I-Ring ne-Stamp ku-Passport akusona njalo isihluthulelo sobudlelwano obuvumelanayo.
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"Ushada nini?" - Umbuzo owuthandayo wezihlobo nabangane. Akazwakali lutho emsakazweni emotweni yakhe. Ngaphandle ngaphandle kwenza ukwenqatshwa kubantu, ukubuyela emuva emuva: "Kungani kufanele ngenzeni, ingabe u-anti ka-Clara uwohloka kanjani?" Kulokhu, kuyadingeka ukudala izimo ezinjalo ukuze indoda ingabikho. Ngabe umama wakho uyabuza kaningi? Yebo, uyakhathazeka. Kepha chaza ngobuhlakani ukuthi emshadweni ungcono sekwephuzile, kepha ngonembeza.
Ngokuvamile, manje siphendukela ezenzweni ezithile ukuze isitembu sagcina sivele kumaphasipoti akho.
1. Khuluma ngokuzithoba. Thola ukuthi akakufaneli njengabesifazane. Noma okuphambene nalokho - ufuna okungaphezu kwalokho akulungele ukukunikeza. Uma umuntu evalwa, ufihla isizathu sangempela. Ukulungele ukubekezelela ukunqunyelwa ngokuqinile futhi uguqule? Yiya uwele noma usebenzise amandla ukuze uthole okufunayo? Akufani neze nobudlelwano obuphilile nobuvumelanayo. Indoda kufanele ifune imishado uqobo. Kulesi simo kuphela lapho umshado uzojabula.
2. Beka umthengisi wakho. Uzizwa kanjani? Kwesinye isikhathi kunenkinga ekuzethembeni okuphansi. Owesifazane ubonakala sengathi akekho umuntu oyokuthanda, anelise futhi athathe, njengale ndoda. Lokhu kusuka ekuzeneliseni, kusuka enovalo olunesizungu. Ngikholwe, kunamadoda amaningi emhlabeni ongajabula naye!
3. Zithathe. Ube ngowesifazane ofuna ukushada. Sebenza ngokuzethemba, mpomposela izimfanelo zakho zabesifazane. Ngemuva kwakho konke, isitembu ephasiphothi akuyona indawo. Lesi yiphuzu eliphakathi nendawo kwimephu enkulu yokuhamba ebizwa ngokuthi ubuhlobo obujabulisayo. Unezixhumanisi - sekuyisikhathi sokuya endleleni!