Abaphenyi bathi ukwesaba kwempumelelo kunamandla kunokwesaba ukwehluleka. Ube mubi kakhulu kunokufana nakho konke. Kubantu abaphumelelayo, izidingo ziphakeme, zilindele ezivela kuzo eziyinkimbinkimbi futhi zibumbene, zikuhlelele, kwafundwa amaphutha ngengilazi ekhulisayo. Ungakholelwa - hlola imvelo yakho. Uma uphumelela kakhudlwana, umngani, isihlobo noma osebenza naye, ophumelele ngokwengeziwe, ngokucindezela okukhulu, ingqondo yethu enzima ifuna amaphutha kuwo. Ukuba konke kuphephile, kuthembeke kakhulu. "Njengawo wonke umuntu" - le fomula yokufushane, engasuswa kalula amaphutha awo, ukuze aqinisekise ukungasebenzi noma ukumboza indlela yokuthola impilo.
Ukwesaba ukwesaba ukuphumelela entweni ethile, abaningi bayeka ukuqeda uqobo ukuze bahlale eduze kwaba "abasondele" abangabeka engcupheni yokuqhubekela phambili, bethola indawo ethembekile empilweni.
Nali iphupho lephupho elilodwa, elifeze ngempela ukugxuma kwe-quantum empilweni yakhe. Wakhulela emndenini ojwayelekile, izinga lokuphila kwalo kwakulula - okungukuthi, ukonga kwezomnotho kukho konke. Futhi iminyaka yakhe emisha yaphuma yaya ezingeni elihluke ngokuphelele lokuphana nangobuningi. Angakwazi ukukhokhela noma yikuphi okumhlophe - kusuka entweni encane kuya kwezakhiwo noma ukuhamba isikhathi eside futhi uhlala kwamanye amazwe, ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngakusasa. Usanda kutshela ukuthi wathuthela kanjani endlini ekhethiwe enombono omuhle wesifunda saseMoscow yaseMoscow yobuntwana bakhe, lapho wake waphupha khona, angaphupha ngempilo yakhe enjalo.
Nansi iphupho:
"Ngiya ekhaya lami elisha, kodwa angikwazi ukukuthola. Ngihamba amamitha ambalwa, kodwa ngiza ezindlini ezindala, lapho ngake ngahlala khona. Futhi konke akusikho lokho abadlulayo abathola kubo, engingakwazi ukubuza. Ngokusobala abazi ukuthi indlu yami entsha, emangalisayo. Bahlala ezindlini ezindala futhi bazi imigwaqo kuphela kubo. Ngakho-ke ngiyazulazula, ngifuna ikhaya lami, ngibona ukuthi useduze kwenye indawo. Ephusheni ngiyaqonda ukuthi leli yiphupho, futhi uvuke. "
Ukulala kwe-heroine kumbonisa lokho, yize enze ukuthi wenza ukugxuma okukhulu njengoCinderella, owaba yindlovukazi, kudingeka afunde ukuze aphile naleli qiniso. Akunjalo, vele welule umbono wakho. "Ukunquma ukwazi," kodwa empeleni, "ukwazi kunquma ukuba yiyo." Ukuzimisela kuphela ukuhlala kuyoholela kakhulu ekuningileni, isivumelwano neqiniso lokuthi "ngifanele uthando" luzothuthukisa kule ndlela.
I-heroine ephusheni iyashesha phakathi komqondo wakamuva ngaye njengowesifazane wombuthano othile wezindlu ezindala ", nombono omusha ngaye - impilo ebaluleke kakhulu. Ukulala "okubanjiwe" isimo saso sesikhashana. Futhi, ukulala kukhombisa umzuzwana lapho afuna khona okuthile okungcono kuye, yize esevele ekhona. Mhlawumbe, ukulala kumbonisa ukuthi kufanelekile ukubuyela endlini afanele futhi afunde ukuthi angakujabulela kanjani, aqaphele amalungelo abo nesithunzi sawo.
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UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin