Ngokwenziwa kwami, ngihlala ngithola ukungazethembi kimi nokungakwazi ukuzihlaziya ngokwanele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukubaluleka kwalezi zinkinga kubukelwa phansi. Umuntu ufika athi: "Faka phakathi" ukuzethemba, "QAPHELA" ukuzethemba. "Lapha, ngiyabonga izitembu eziningi kusuka kuma-movie kanye nama-pseudo-stovers akhuthaza ukuthi uma ungakutshela phambi kwesibuko" wena Can ", zonke izinkinga zixazululwa. Izimpande zezinkinga ngokuzethemba zijule kakhulu futhi zisebenza nazo ngokohlelo.
Okuvuthiwe ngokwengqondo
Ukuzithemba okungalungile kuvela kusuka kuhlelo lwenani elingalungile. Futhi uhlelo olungalungile lusuka ekuhlolweni kweminyaka yangempela kanye nengqondo. Khohlwa ngezinombolo kuphasiphothi, ngisho nasekugugeni, abantu bayakwazi ukuhlala ezingeni lokuthuthuka kwesikole. Iminyaka ehlukile yezengqondo ibalulekile - umphumela akuyona izinqubo zokuguga, kepha ukudlula kobuntu bezinqubo ezithile ezikhulayo. Lapho umuntu ezalwa, kudingeka afunde ukuba nomzimba wakhe, khona-ke ufunda ukulawula imizwa, osemusha aqongelele ukuba aphile emphakathini, njll. Izigaba zokuqala zicishe zibe yikho konke, Kepha-ke ukwehluleka kuyenzeka. Ngenxa yalokho, umuntu uyamdala ngokusemthethweni, kepha akakulungele impilo yabantu abadala, ngakho-ke akenzanga lutho.
Esikhathini sangemva kweSoviet, iningi labantu linamathele esigabeni sengane yakudala, futhi le yinhlekelele. Yini osemusha? Umuntu uncike emcabangweni womunye umuntu, elungele ukuphuma esikhunjeni ukuze uthole imvume yomunye umuntu. Kulesi sigaba sokuvuthwa kobuntu, umthetho wokuziphatha (ngokusho kukaKant) awukakhiwa, uthatha indawo yokufuna igunya langaphandle kanye nokungabikho kwemibono yakhe ezindabeni eziningi. Lapha unezinkinga ekuzithembaneni, nokungaqiniseki kwaphakade.
Ukuphela kwendlela yokuphuma ukukhula. Ungayifunda malini i-mantra phambi kwesibuko, ukuzethemba kwangempela kuqala ngezinga lomuntu omdala. Adume - yilokhu engikufundisa labo abaphendukela kimi.
1. Ungavumeli intando yemizwa.
2. khipha imiphumela yezenzo.
3. Ncoma okwamanje nekusasa, hhayi okwedlule.
4. Bheka ibhalansi phakathi kwezibopho zenhlalo kanye nezintshisakalo zakho.
5. IZwi ukuqonda kwakho "kubi" nelithi "okuhle", ungakunaki ukugxekwa kwabantu neminye imibono ngokuhle nokubi.
Ungazikhohlisi
Kwezinye izingqinamba, ubuchopho bethu yisitha sangempela kunazo zonke. UMkhandlu "awuzange uzikhulise" nganikela ngomkhuba wami, mhlawumbe, amahlandla ayisigidi. Lapho sizikhuza, sihlala singenzi okwakhayo futhi siphangwa ezigabeni esekwenzekile ezingaguquki. Sisonta lamakhasi amahlazo asekhanda bese sizijezisa ngeqiniso lokuthi akusekho kungenzeka ukuthi ushintshe. Vele, akukho ukuzethemba kimi, akukho ukuzithemba nenkulumo kungaba njalo. Wena iminyaka engamashumi amabili edlule, ngidle uBabashin SAM futhi ngilahlwe ekati! Oh cha cha! Nakanjani, umuntu omubi kanjena awukufanele ukukhokha iholo, akukho lutho ngisho nokusikisela ukuthi umphathi.
Ukuzethemba kuzofika lapho ukhumbula ukuthi okwedlule akuyona. Edlule kudlule. Kukhona okungokoqobo kuphela, okudinga ukuthi unaka kakhulu kanye nokuhlushwa. Ngakho-ke:
1. Ukuzithuka Yima.
2. Ngikhumbula amaphutha wesikhathi esedlule kuphela ngenhloso yokuhlaziya futhi angabe esaphindwa.
Funda ukusho ukuthi "cha"
"Cha" - igama lomlingo kakhulu ku-lexicon yethu. Lezi zinhlamvu ezintathu zizokuvikela kuma-inversicators ahlala enqaba izicelo zakho zokuxazulula zonke - zonke izinkinga zazo. Kungani kubalulekile? Ngoba lapho wenza ibhizinisi le-malipulator yakho, ibhizinisi lakho alisebenzi. Ngakho-ke ukungagculiseki ngokwayo. Futhi wenqaba ukwethusa, ngoba uzocabanga okubi ke - futhi umuntu osesigabeni sengqondo salowo msango osemusha ubaluleke kakhulu umbono wabanye! Manje uyaqonda ukuthi kungani siqale ngengxoxo yobudala bezengqondo?
Uma ngabe lezi zinhlamvu zemilingo ezintathu zinikezwe wena ngobunzima, sebenza lokhu:
1. Qonda ukuthi ukwenqaba okungenangqondo akukwenzi ube ngumuntu omubi.
2. Qaphela: Ukwehluleka akusho ukuthi uphatha kabi umuntu kabi. Ngubani osho okuphambene - lowo mkhankaso.
3. Ekuqaleni, beka inkambiso - 10 "Cha" ngosuku. Ungakwenqaba izikhathi eziyishumi nganoma yisiphi isizathu - muhle kakhulu! Uma kunzima, okungenani amahlandla ayisihlanu.
4. Uma ungakwazi ukuthola amabutho ukwenqaba, zibuze ukuthi uzogcina nini ucele usizo kulowo muntu othile futhi uthole lolu sizo. Kukhunjulwe - Usizo. Futhi ezimweni eziyisishiyagalolunye kweziyishumi ngonembeza ohlanzekile, tshela umxhasi "cha".
Kulokhu okuthathu, okwesine, iBhanali: Isifiso. Uma usesigabeni sokuthuthuka se- "Teenager", ukuze uthole ukukhula okwengeziwe, udinga ukwenza imizamo emikhulu futhi ubhekane njalo nokugqugquzelwa kwakho. Kuzofanele ube yi-baron Munnnhlausen, eyaphuma emgodini wengulube. Empilweni yangempela, iqhinga elinjalo bekungeke kuvume ukuguqula i-physics, kodwa nge-psychology, isisusa esiphakeme sisebenza izimangaliso. Zisebenzele, ungapheli amandla, futhi kanye nokuvuthwa okutholwe nokuzethemba.