Othile wembulwa ngomunye, othile uphethe "imfihlo" yabo mayelana nothando olungaphezulu kobuhlobo. Mhlawumbe, bambalwa abantu abayele isimo esinjalo. Namuhla sikwazile ukuthola iphupho, elichaza isigaba esifanayo ebudlelwaneni bomshado, kuzofanela kuphela ukwembula isizinda sakhe kancane. Iphupho lephupho empilweni yaleli phupho lalizovakashela elinye idolobha, azi ukuthi kunomhlangano nomuntu ayekuthanda.
"Mina nomyeni sisefulethini. Simi emphemeni, umyeni wami ukhuluma nami unomuzwa wokungakwazi ukusiza nokuphelelwa yithemba: "Ngangqongqoza intombazane enhle eSamara." Ngigcizelela ukuthi ngithe "muhle." Ngabuza ukuthi kungani angisho lutho ngaphambili. Kuphendule: "Ngacabanga, ngiyakwazi kahle." Ngiqale nje ukukhala kula mazwi. Ungakhali, okungukuthi uSoob. Ngemuva kwama-sobs, kwavela isithombe, kube sengathi ukubukwa okuphezulu, njengomyeni osemotweni endaweni yokupaka kwenzeka, kepha akukho ntombazane. Ngemuva kwalesi sithombe, sethabisa umoya ngimtshele: "Ubukhulu obusongelayo, yisikhathi esinemibandela." Akaziphenduli lutho. Lesi sithombe siyashintsha, futhi ngiyabona ukuthi umfowethu umyeni ukhuluma kanjani nehhovisi lamaphoyisa futhi uzama ukuxazulula zonke izinkinga. Iphoyisa lisayina amaphrothokholi athile futhi linikeza umfowabo. Inkinga ixazululwa. "
Ukuze siqonde iphupho, sihlukanisa ezigcawini ezinemibandela emi-3. Isimo sokuqala - Ukuqashelwa kwentombazane enhle ebangela ama-sobs, ukushaqeka okujulile, hhayi izinyembezi nje. Mhlawumbe, yilokhu impela ukwethuka okujulile kubona iphupho uqobo, ekubeni sesimweni lapho kwenziwa khona imizwa "yakhe enhle" kubakaki bobudlelwano obushadile.
Ingxenye yesibili ye "Lesi isithombe lapho amaphupho abona khona eqinisweni umyeni akazange 'ashaye noma ngubani" ukuthi waphenduka izimoto ngokwakhe. Cishe isithombe seqiniso lokuthi ngenkathi yonke idrama yenzeka emphefumulweni womunye, hhayi nabantu bangempela.
Ingxenye yesithathu - Lokhu kuhlukaniswa emaphoyiseni. Amaphoyisa ephusheni - umfanekiso kanembeza, izinkambiso, isimilo, imithetho okufanele enze ngokulawula ubudlelwano, kepha njengoba kungekho cala lobugebengu ngenxa yalokho, akufanele ajeziswe.
Uthando, uthando ngomuntu - lokhu kungamandla okuvuka
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Ngamanye amagama, amaphupho ethu abhekene nemizwa yawo njengento edinga ukulawula, ukujeziswa kanye nokuxazululwa. Ubona isibuko sakhe sedrama, ekubonisweni komyeni wakhe. Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi imizwa yethu ayisiyisiqondisi sesenzo, futhi eqinisweni ngeke ibalalele futhi ayilandeli izinto zokuzilibazisa zazo, ngoba le mizwa yangempela. Futhi okokuqala, babonisa isithombe esingajwayelekile lapho kusebenza khona lesi sikhungo somuntu njengomthelela omkhulu wemizwa nokuhlangenwe nakho okukhulu kunomyeni ojwayelekile, onempilo.
Kuphela amakhasi alesi sigaba, sasiguqula nesimo sokulungile kothando, vumelani ekhoneni lesithathu kulo ukuphakama, kuphela emaphusheni. Futhi kubhaliwe ngakho nje ama-kilobytes wolwazi ovela endaweni ehlukile yokubuka. Lokho obekungaba khona ngokubaluleka ukusho kulesi sigaba samaphupho ethu, ngakho-ke lolu thando, uthando oluthile lomuntu lungamandla okuvuka. Akudingekile ngokuphelele ukuyisebenzisa ngokuqondile nokubopha ubudlelwano nomuntu oshadile. Lokhu ngokuphelele akusho ukuphela kobudlelwano nomyeni wakhe, ngisho nosongo oluthile. Ngincoma ukuthi ngicabangele imizwa "enhle" komunye umuntu njengamandla, ngemuva kwalokho akunakwenzeka ukulala futhi, shisa ukwazi kwakho ukuthi konke kuya kuye! Lo mandla unikezwa leli cala, ngohlobo oluthile lomsebenzi womphefumlo, futhi kubalulekile ukunquma lo msebenzi, ukunquma futhi uqhubeke nokubulawa kwawo. Akuhlobene nakanjani kubantu abathile, kepha kuthokozisa umphefumulo futhi kuncenge ukudala ukudalwa komqondo omusha wempilo, okufanele kuzulazule.
Ngiyazibuza ukuthi uphupha ini? Izibonelo zamaphupho akho Thumela ngeposi: [email protected]. Indlela, amaphupho kulula kakhulu ukuwaveza uma encwadini eya kumhleli obaluleke kakhulu uzobhalela izimo zokuphila ezandulelayo, kepha okubaluleke - imizwa ngesikhathi sokuvuka Kuleli phupho.
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