Uma ukuya esikhathini kungaphezu kwenqubo yemvelo kowesifazane, amadoda amaningi eza cishe athuthumela ngencazelo eyodwa yesimo samantombazane ngalesi sikhathi. Kodwa-ke, ngeminyaka, amadoda aguqula isimo sawo sengqondo maqondana nezinsuku ezibucayi zehafu zazo, ezingowokuqonda izinguquko ezimweni zemizwa nokulahlwa kocansi.
Yini amadoda okuya esikhathini acabanga ngayo cishe iminyaka engama-30
- Cishe ama-30% acasulwa, ngoba inqubo yemvelo yephula amasu asondelene wendoda maqondana nengxenye yesibili.
- Ama-25% atholakala ekubekweni kokuya esikhathini isizathu sokwenza ezinye izinhlobo zocansi lapho intombazane ingavumelani ngezinsuku ezijwayelekile.
- Amaphesenti angama-20 abantu awaneme, kepha anqume ukushiya le ntombazane kuphela futhi azibandakanya izindaba zawo: hlangana nabangane, uzinika isikhathi sakho.
- I-15% itholwe lilindiswe lapho "izivakashi ezivela eKrasnodar zizobuyela emuva", zibhekisela kulokhu kuthula.
iningi lincamela ukushiya umfazi wedwa ngalesi sikhathi
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Amadoda ngemuva kweminyaka engama-35
Njengomthetho, abesilisa kule ndaba sebevele "bajulile" bashadile, ngokwemvelo, umbono wabo wezinsuku ezibucayi uhlukile ngandlela thile:
- I-30% ezolile, ngoba "kulezi zinsuku" zibasindise ekusebenzeni kwezikweletu zomshado.
- Ama-20% acasulwa yizinhlelo eziphazamisekile ngesikhathi nowesifazane wazo.
- Ama-20%, kanye nabamele isigaba sokuqala, hamba uyophumula nabangane, ungakhathazeki kumkakhe.
- 15% Prakthiza ochwepheshe bezocansi abangafundile.
- 10% Gwema ukuxhumana nowesifazane wayo ngalesi sikhathi ngenxa yokushintsha kwesimo sayo.
Umehluko mncane, kepha kucace bha ukuthi kucace ukuthi umuntu omncane, ecasulayo ukungabikho kocansi kule nkathi ebucayi kowesifazane.
Uma ungazizwa kabi kakhulu, akunangqondo ukuyeka ubulili, into esemqoka ukulungiselela kahle ..
Uma ungazizwa imizwa engemnandi, awukwazi ukuziphika ecansini
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Pheka amathawula
Onamandla uyojabula, okubiza kakhulu, okungonakalisa imibhede yakho futhi awele ekushashweni komoya obuthakathaka womlingani. Ukuze lokhu kungenzeki, faka ithawula elilodwa eliminyene ngesendlalelo esengeziwe, bese ubeka eceleni okumbalwa.
Sika ingubo
Futhi, okuncane "amabhonasi", okuhambisana nokuya esikhathini kubona umuntu, kuhle kakhulu, ukusondela kwakho kwenzeka, ukwenza lokhu, ukumboza ingubo futhi kuzame ukungakubheki ngaphansi kwawo kuze kube sekupheleni.
Cela umlingani ukuthi enze kahle
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I-pose enhle kakhulu - isithunywa sevangeli
Ukuze sinciphise inani lemfihlo, le ntombazane kungcono ukulala emhlane, futhi umlingani ethatha isikhundla esilula avela phezulu, okwenza ukungena okucocekile ukugwema ukulimala kwesibeletho.
Kodwa-ke, kungcono ukuhlehlisa ukusondela okungenani kosuku lokugcina lokuya esikhathini, khona-ke uzothola imizwa engathandeki engathandeki futhi ungalimazi umzimba.