Ukuhlukanisa kungumzuzu emva kwalokho wonke umuntu uzama ukuphonsa umcabango womuntu owayethandwa ekhanda. Abanye basike izinwele futhi bashintshe kakhulu isitayela sezingubo, abanye bathola into entsha yozwela - ukuziphatha kwabantu kuyahluka ngokuya nge-psychotype yabo. Kepha into enzima kunazo zonke kulabo abaqale inoveli emsebenzini - Amehlo abizayo "okwaphambili" kuthatha cishe amaphesenti athile emicabango yakho. Sichaza ukuthi ungasusa kanjani le nhliziyo eqinile yomuzwa wokucasuka nomhawu.
Awuwona owokuqala
Ngo-2013, i-vskiom yenze inhlolovo, lapho ama-26% kaSteam avuma ukuthi bahlangane nalo emsebenzini. Futhi lokhu kuyingxenye kuphela yalabo abanobudlelwano nozakwethu - abanye abelokhu behlukana futhi bancamela ukukhumbula ababambisene nabo phambilini. Izibalo zibonisa ngokusobala: awunasidingo sokuzihlela ngokwakho imizwa yemvelo, uma "iphutha" elifanayo lenza cishe umsebenzi wesibili. Thanda futhi unikeze intando yothando - injabulo, hhayi isijeziso sohlanga lwesintu.
Shiya umuntu wedwa
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Ukunqande ukuhambisa
Ezikhathini zokuqala, ngemuva kokuhlukana, uzokuthukuthelisa umlingani wangaphambili, bese kuba negagasi lesisa sesisa lizogcwala nawe - lizofuna ukuwela owesilisa bese liqala ukunakekela indoda ngokuzithoba zobungani. Ima! Ungazenzi ngokwakho - lokhu akusona ubungani, kepha ukuntuleka kokukhulumisana okujwayelekile nomuzwa womuntu wendabuko oseduze. Ngokuphela kwenoveli empilweni yakho, isiphambano asifakwa - vele ulinde kuze kube yilapho umuntu omusha ezovela emvelweni, ekwazi ukukuthanda. Futhi ngalesi sikhathi, zisebenzele: qaphela ukuthi wena nowesilisa wangaphambilini ngabantu ababili abahlukene, hhayi ama-halves aphelele. Kusukela manje kuqhubeke, uzokwakha isiphetho sakhe kweyakhe futhi, ngesabekayo, ngisho nokuqala ubuhlobo nentombazane entsha. Impilo yakhe akusekho ukukhathazeka kwakho, ngakho-ke vele ushiye umuntu futhi umenze aphile ngokuzolile.
Ungacabangi ngozakwabo
I-fantasy, njengokungathi konke okusemvelweni yakho kuphela yenza ukuthi bahlebeke kumakhosi ahlukene kanye ne-petit, ehlekisayo. Thatha iqiniso: Abantu banesivumelwano sempilo yakho yangasese ngokoqobo ngokoqobo imizuzwana engu-10-15, kanti umuntu ubazisa ngekhefu lakho. Ngemuva kwalokho baya kwesinye isihloko noma baqhubeke nokuzibandakanya ezindabeni zabo. Cabanga ukuthi uvame kangakanani ukubonisana ngempilo yozakwabo ... akukaze, kunjalo? Ngakho-ke yeka ukuzibamba futhi uthathe umthwalo oqondile wokusebenza.
Ozakwabo bazophumelela futhi bakhohlwe ngawe
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Izimpawu eziyimfihlo yonke indawo
Amantombazane amaningi akhipha impumulo yawo ephakeme futhi azenze sengathi akhethekile futhi ahlukaniswe nekade nokwabanganakele abangani abakhulu. Kepha iqiniso ukuthi ligcina isimo se- "Friends" ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, ukulondolozwa kokuxhumana nezithombe kanye nezithombe ezihlanganyelwe kumane kubufakazi bethemba lokuhlangana kabusha. Uma wonke njengesoka le-ex-ndodana ubona njengokusikisela, uyazi ukuthi akulungile. Umuntu ofuna ukuqala kabusha ngokuxhumana uzokubhalela yena uqobo, futhi wanikela kangcono ukuhlangana naphansi komsebenzi. Ngakho-ke shiya inkohliso esikhathini esedlule - ubuhlobo bufika ekugcineni ngesikhathi sokuhlukanisa kwakho.