Ochwepheshe bezengqondo bayazethemba, iningi lezinkinga zethu lisuka ebuntwaneni. Lapho siba ngabazali, sinethuba lokugwema amaphutha abazali bethu abawavumela, noma kunjalo, asikuboni njalo lokho, bezama ukwenza izingane zakho ngangokunokwenzeka, kwesinye isikhathi sizositshela ukuthi yimaphi amaphutha enza umzali wesibili.
Uyakukhohlisa ingane
Okomntwana wanoma yimuphi unyaka, awukho umusho omubi womzali "angikuthandi / ukusabalalisa." Uma uhlala ukhumbuza ingane ukuthi izoyeka ukumthanda uma ingazifezi imiyalo yakho, ubeka engcupheni yokukhula umdala ongavikelekile ozoqiniseka kuphela entweni eyodwa - uthando kufanele lufaneleke. Esikhathini esidala, umuntu uyohlala ezama ukunqoba ukuqashelwa kwabanye abangaphenduka umbono ongathandeki.
Uyingane eningi kakhulu
Ukuze umuntu abonise inkululeko, endaweni ethile, ukugcinwa kudinga buthaka. Abantu abadala bezinsana abalula kangako ukwakha njengomsebenzi ophumelelayo, ngakho-ke ukwakha impilo yomuntu siqu.
Akunasidingo sokwenza ingane lokho angakwenza, kukhuthaze noma yiluphi uhlelo, ngokwesibonelo, lapho nje ingane izwakalisa isifiso sokuphinda igqoke umbhede noma ukugqoka ngokuzimela, kungabikho macala.
Khuthaza ukuzimela
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Awufuni ukuthatha iqiniso lokuthi ingane yakho ingumuntu
Kwenzeka ukuthi abazali bamane nje bangaziboni izintshisekelo zengane, bakholelwa ukuthi bazi kuphela amandla indodakazi noma indodana, futhi bakhethe isifundo esingathanda ukukwenza, hhayi ingane. Uma unamathela kumaqhinga anjalo, ungamangali ngenxa yombango osemusha futhi, mhlawumbe, ukushiywa okuphelele kokuxhumana nawe lapho ingane izimele ngokuphelele.
Khulula ukunakekelwa
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