Emfuleni wezinto ezingapheli nezinsuku zokusebenza, iholide kungenye yezikhathi ezibaluleke kakhulu empilweni yomndeni lapho ungakhohlwa ngezinkinga zasekhaya, izingane kanye nezinkinga zansuku zonke. Kepha kuthiwani uma ungakwazi ukuphumula kanye nothandekayo wakho? Izizathu zalesi sisindo: Umqashi akakuvumeli ukuhamba, ayikho imali eyanele, futhi kwesinye isikhathi oshade naye ngeke akwazi noma angafuni ukukwenza ube yinkampani.
Kodwa-ke, akudingekile ukucasuka kusenesikhathi uma umlingani wakho uhlala eMoscow, futhi uya endaweni yokuphumula esizungu noma nomngane. Ngemuva kwakho konke, kwesinye isikhathi kuwusizo ngisho nokuphila komndeni. Abanye ngababili bayakhathaza ukuchitha ngaso sonke isikhathi ndawonye. Futhi lokhu kujwayelekile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zithi ukuphumula okuhlukile kunconywa nalabo abanomuzwa wokuthi inhlekelele iyahlukana ebudlelwaneni nomuntu othandekayo: Ukhathele omunye komunye, izingxabano zomndeni ziyanda, izingxabano zikhona. Kulokhu, iholide elihlanganyelwe lingalimaza isimo kuphela, ngoba abashadikazi baphoqeleka ukuba bakhulume kakhulu.
Ngakho-ke, yini izinzuzo zokuphumula ezihlukile?
munye. Ube nesikhathi sokuphuthelwa . Lapho sibona umuntu, noma ngabe othandekayo wakho, nsuku zonke, kungekudala, uqala ukubonakala njengokuthile okunikezwe. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngisho nezinzuzo zako zilahlekelwa ukuheha kwangaphambili kwangaphambili, futhi ababi futhi baqala ukucasula. Futhi ukulala kuphela ekuthuleni kwehhotela elibizayo, ungaqonda ukuthi awusweli ukusweleka kwesithandwa, esicasulwe ekhaya.
2. Uzositholela isikhathi. Ukuhlukaniswa kweholide kuzoba ukubhukuda, ekugcineni, othandekayo wakho. Iya ku-SPA, owawuphupha isikhathi eside kangaka, funda incwadi enhle, uwa, ekugcineni. Ngikholwe, ubuyela ekhaya, isikhathi sokulala esinempilo kanye nesikhathi sokuzivocavoca ngeke siphinde sanele.
3. Memeza. Ukuba sesikhathini esiseduze nesizungu esiziqhenyayo noma nezintombi, ungakwazi ukukhokhela isikhathi sokudla okungenzeka ukuthi kufanele ukhohlwe ngemuva komshado. Amakilabhu, imigoqo, ahamba kuze kuse - into esemqoka ukuze iqembu lingabi yisizathu somhawu walowo oshade naye.
ezine. Kubonakala sengathi okukhulu kwabonakala kukude. Le nkulumo inazo zonke izisekelo. Ukuphumula ngokwehlukana nomyeni, ungahle, uqine, uqale ukwazisa impilo yomndeni. Kungenzeka ukuthi "inxenye yakho", yonke indlu yedwa, izobheka ngendlela entsha, noma kamuva nje, nobabili ngithathwa ngokuthi "ukudla". Ngemuva kwakho konke, kuvela ezinkathazweni zansuku zonke nenjabulo yokwenza induduzo yasekhaya.
Kuliqiniso, ukuya olwandle ngaphandle kwendoda, kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi akaphikisana. "Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqaphela ukuthi noma yimuphi umbhangqwana udinga ukuphumula kusuka komunye nomunye, kepha uma kwenzeka kungekho ukungaboni ngaso linye futhi bobabili bavumile ukuthi enye indiza, futhi ngasikhathi sinye ivuma ukukhetha kothandekayo Okokuqala, - kusho isazi somsebenzi wezengqondo uNatalia Leonidovna Savchenko. - Uma umlingani ekhulula, kepha ngasikhathi sinye uqala ukuhlela isimo somhawu, ukubizela ngokungakhathali, ukumaka lapho wena futhi iholidi elinjalo lulimaza kuphela ubudlelwano. Kubalulekile ukukwazi ukuxoxisana futhi ukuzwana kunoma yisiphi isimo sempilo. "
Ngabe uthanda ukuphumula kanjani?
U-Eva Avdalimova, Omfundi Wonyaka Wokuqala