Abesifazane abaningi, besaba ukuvukela umbuso komyeni wakhe, ngasese bahlola ifoni yakhe futhi batadishe ngokucophelela amanethiwekhi omphakathi kanye nomlando wethebhu yesiphequluli. Ngizothi ngokungathandeki: akulungile, ngoba ukwesaba okungapheli ukuvukela umbuso kuyakwazi ukubhubhisa ubuhlobo obuqine futhi obunempilo. Iphutha labesifazane kuleli cala ukuthi liphula imingcele yomuntu siqu njalo. Umehluko ulimele futhi ucasulwa yindoda. Isinyathelo ngesinyathelo siqongelela ukunganeliseki, okuholela ekuchithekeni kwangaphakathi, ukungaqiniseki. Ngenxa yalokho, indoda enenjabulo iqala ukuthatha izimpawu zokunakwa kwabanye besifazane, futhi ukwesaba kwabesifazane kuba nengqondo.
U-Anna Saintanikova
Ake sihlaze ukuthi ukwesaba ukuvukela umbuso. Kunokufana okuthile phakathi kwalokhu kwesaba nabanye abantu abahlupheka. Siyesaba lokho esinawo amandla. Imvamisa, ezansi kwe-phobia, kunendaba ethile ezungezwe. Qiniseka ukuthi ungumngane, isihlobo noma umakhelwane, oseshintshe umyeni wakhe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lona wesifazane uhlala esondele esithombeni esifanele: inkosikazi, ubuhle, uchwepheshe omuhle. Ngenxa yalokho, "" iskripthi "esithile siyakhiwa, lapho umphumela wanoma ibuphi ubuhlobo uzovukela umbuso nokuwohloka kwawo okulandelayo. Konke lokhu kwakha isimo esingesihle, esiqala ukuthuthukiswa kwePhobia.
Inkinga lapha ukuthi owesifazane akakwazi ukuhlaziya isimo nhlangothi zonke. Izimbangela zokwesaba ukuvukela kufanele zifunwe ezinkingeni zokuzethemba. Abesifazane abanjalo basezingeni eliphansi kakhulu. Banethemba lokuthi kungafaneleki uthando alunakunika owesilisa lokho akulindile intombi yakhe. Ngenxa yalokho, ukuvukela umbuso njengoba kuzoqinisekisa ukukhathazeka futhi kuqinisa izakhiwo.
Sinciphise lokho kwesaba labo bantu labesifazane namantombazane abake bakhashelwa umlingani. Lapho ungena ebudlelwaneni obusha, bona, njengerekhoda ye-tepi, shayela izinkumbulo zabo kanye nemizwa yabo, bezama ukuthola iphutha. Ngenxa yalokhu, ebudlelwaneni obusha, wethula "isimo esingesihle", okusolwa futhi ahlasele indoda ecindezelayo ukuthola ukunakwa kwezinye izinhlobo zabesifazane.
Ezimweni ezinjalo, usizo lodokotela wezengqondo uvame ukudingeka. Umsebenzi wobuchwepheshe ukubuyisa umuzwa wokuzethemba wowesifazane, unikeze isiqinisekiso sokuthi umhlaba awunanzondo, kanti abanye bahlala bakulungele ukusiza. Buyela esimweni esihle somuntu ungakwazi ukuqonda ukuthi othile uhlukanise ubuhlungu kanye naye, wasekelwa futhi wamlalela nje.