Ngabe umlingani wazama ukukuvimba ngobumnene lapho uziphakamisa ngayo yonke inkanuko? Uma impendulo yakho ilungile, akudingekile ukukhathazeka ngayo: Emakhanda ethu, i-stereotype ihleli ngokuqinile ukuthi umuntu uhlala 'elungele, kodwa ngowesifazane angabe esabalwa, kepha empeleni, amadoda awasakwazi ukushiya ubulili, Uma, ngokwesibonelo, ukufudumala kwayo kungaphansi kwakho. Sizozama ukuthola ukuthi kufanele senze kanjani uma ungahambi ndawonye ezingeni elingokomzwelo.
Akuwona wonke ama-pair abona umehluko emikhundla njengenkinga enkulu, kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi isimo singaholela ekuxabaneni nasekucasukeni. Lapho senqaba ucansi, sizizwa singafuneki futhi sanqatshwa, esingazikhathaza kakhulu ukuzethemba futhi ekugcineni siholele ekhefu ebudlelwaneni.
Hlela ucansi
Imvamisa kakhulu isizathu sokuhluleka kwezocansi ukukhathala kwe-banal. Sonke siyakuqonda ukuthi yini okufanele yenze uhlelo olucacile lobulili akuyona into engcono kakhulu, ngoba akukho lutho olungcono kunokubonakaliswa kwentshiseko, futhi noma kunjalo zama ukuhlela okungenani isigamu esisodwa esisondelana nesigamu sakho sesibili ngengxenye yakho yesibili ngengxenye yakho yesibili. Kunezinzuzo ezimbalwa ezimbalwa kulokhu, ngokwesibonelo, umlingani onomsindo ophansi uzokwazi ukwenza kahle ngokwengqondo nangokusondela.
Ucansi akudingeki ukuthi lwenzeke nsuku zonke
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Ungahlali ucansi ngokungena kokungena
Cha, ubulili abusho nje ukusondelana kokuqonda kwakhe kwakudala. Ungakwazi kalula i-satellite okwesibili, ama-halves asebenzayo, izandla nolimi. Lapha, ucansi ngomlomo ukukusiza: Akudingi ukuqeqeshwa okukhethekile, kepha ngasikhathi sinye kuzonikeza ukukhululwa okudingekayo kumlingani othobekile, okungekho okunzima kakhulu.
Nquma imvamisa ephelele yokuxhumana
Ake sithi awuboni umqondo ocansini kaningi amasonto amabili kaningi, futhi awukugcina nsuku zonke: Kungani ungavumelani ngocansi kanye ngesonto? Futhi-ke ungangeza nesikhathi esisodwa esengeziwe. Zama ukuxoxa ngalo mzuzu.
Okungenani kanye ngesonto, hlela ubusuku obusondelene
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Thola ukuthi yini ejabulisa umlingani wakho iningi
Zibeke esikhundleni sendoda yakho: ake ucabange nje ukuthi akazange abe nesikhathi sokujabula, futhi cishe usemugqeni wokuqeda, ukuze kusondele ekusondeni kuyadingeka ukulungiselela zombili. Uma uyazi ukuthi uhola umlingani wakho ngaso leso sikhathi e-ecstasy, nobabili nijabulisa kakhulu inqubo, naphezu kokwehlukana.