Uyazi ukuthi ungazazisa kanjani? Uma okungenani eyodwa yale mishwana ihlala iphinyiselwa yindoda yakho, siyakucebisa ukuthi ucabange ngalokhu:
"Yebo, yebo, baphetha inkontileka kuLam - ngakho-ke, isidlo sakusihlwa ngokwanele"
Kumantombazane amancane asengakaze abe nesikhathi sokwazi ukunambitheka kwemali futhi ajabule ngawo, imishwana enjalo yomlomo womthandi ibangela injabulo yangempela. Ngowesifazane ozimele wezezimali owazi intengo yemali, lezi zitatimende zikhiqiza umbono ongemuhle. Indoda, into yokuqala ekhombisa ingcebo, hhayi izimfanelo zayo, ingaphonsa kuphela okhethiwe. Futhi, uma owesifazane ezobona izimfanelo ezingokomoya zomuntu azilinde aze avule, ngenkathi evutha. Kungenzeka ukuthi intombazane esebenzisa ubulili obuhlukile imane nje ibambeke ekuziphatheni okunjalo futhi isusa usuku lwesiNgisi.
"Futhi uzohamba isikhathi eside!"
Iya eshawini, yomisa izinwele zakho futhi ugqoke - lokhu konke ukulungiswa komuntu kumcimbi onesizotha. Owesifazane uvame ukuqoqa yena nezingane, ngokufana, engakhohlwa ukususa imali esele esele egumbini lokulala, adle ikati ahlole ukuthi ngabe ukukhanya namanzi kucishiwe yonke indawo. Kuyadabukisa ukuthi abashadikazi abaningi abazi ukuthi babelane kanjani imisebenzi: Indoda ayifuni ibheka izibopho ezengeziwe, yize iqonde ngokuphelele ukuthi isithandwa sakhe sidinga isikhathi esithe xaxa sezimali okungenani ngenxa yokuthi kudingeka ukuchitha Izinqubo ezinhlanu kuya kweziyisithupha - kusuka ekuqothulweni kokusebenza kwesicelo.
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"Yebo, angikwazi ukupheka futhi yini?"
Indoda eyayingafundanga ukuzinakekela ukuze azinakekele, ibangele ukukhathazeka. Kepha emangalisayo ngokwengeziwe, nokuthi intshiseko yabesifazane, etholakala kanjani nabesilisa abangenayo, badlale ukupheka, hhayi ngisho nokuzama ukuheha umlingani kuye. Kukholakala ukuthi le ndoda kufanele ikwazi ukulungiselela amaqanda aqhekeziwe bese ipheka ama-dumplings - futhi kwathiwa yanele. Sikholwa futhi ukuthi wonke umuntu uphoqelekile ukuthi akwazi kahle inkambo ephansi yokupheka - uma kungenjalo abazali bafundiswa leli khono, ngakho-ke kukhona izifundo zokupheka nezifundo zevidiyo, ukubhekana nalezo nganoma iyiphi indlela.
"Hawu, yilokho ekhaleni lethu ..."
Ochwepheshe bezengqondo baphawula ukuthi ngisho naseminyakeni yokuqala, abafana bavela ngentshisekelo kumakhekhenikha: bazama ukuqamba amathoyizi, bafunde ababandakanya nalo. Isithakazelo esifanayo kamuva sivuka emzimbeni wakhe - le nqubo yokukhula ijwayelekile ngokuphelele. Omunye umbuzo ukuthi amanye amadoda anentshiseko efanayo aphenya okuqukethwe yikhala, awela izinwele nokunye, futhi akwenza phambi kwabantu. Uma ubona umlingani, lokhu kuziphatha, ukuhleba kuye ngamehlo, awemukelwa emphakathini.
"Haye, Phinde! Kanjani? "
Amabinzana angenangqondo, avume? Kodwa-ke, phakathi neminyaka yobudala yeminyaka engama-30 no-40 ubudala, kubonakala sengathi amadoda abonakala exakile ngomcabango wobudala babo. Asikho isidingo sobuntu obuvuthiwe ngokwezinto ezinobuntu: babona ngokwanele iqiniso lokuguga futhi bathathe okungcono kakhulu eminyakeni yabo. Okunye, okungeke kungahambisani nabo futhi kuncishiswe ngenkuthalo iminyaka yobudala bengubo yobusha, ukulimala kwa-botox nabanye, kungazelelwe kufika engqondweni "ukuvuselela" isichazamazwi sakhe. Lapha, kuphela osemusha olala emlonyeni womuntu omdala ubangela ukuhlekiswa komuntu kuphela uma kusetshenziswa esimweni esingafanele sombuso futhi kungezwe ngenhloso engxoxweni.
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