Ngokusho kochwepheshe bezengqondo, cishe ama-15% abafundi abasebasha ababhekene nezinkinga zengqondo abangakwazi ukuzixazulula ngaphandle kosizo lwabazali. Uma ezinye izifundazwe ezesabekayo zidlula ngokwazo lapho ingane iba khona, khona-ke lezi zimpawu ezilandelayo, uma ziba njalo, abazali baphoqelekile ukuba banake.
Ukushintsha Kwemizwa Ejwayelekile
Kuyiqiniso, awekho umntwana ongeke agibele abazali bakhe be-tantrum komunye noma omunye, kepha kufanele uqonde ukuthi lokhu akufanele kube yinto evamile. Uma ingane ihlala isesimweni sokukhathazeka, ukwesaba futhi ingaba nolaka, kunesizathu sokufaka isicelo sosizo kudokotela wezengqondo wesikole futhi uhlanganyele ekuxazululeni inkinga.
Ungavumeli ingane iye kuwe
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Ingane ivela ezinkingeni ngokulala
Ezinganeni zobudala besikole ezincane, kuyadingeka ukubona usuku losuku ukuze ngokuzayo ingane yakho ayinankinga nokuzikhuza futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, ngempilo. Ukwehluleka kwe-Biorhythk kubangela ukulimala okungathi sína kwe-psyche esheshayo, ngakho-ke abazali kubalulekile ukulandelela ngokucophelela imodi yokulala yengane: Uma kunzima ukuya esikoleni sakho emahoreni ambalwa noma iphupho " Ayikwazi ukunganakwa nganoma iyiphi indlela, ngoba ukuqwasha okungamahlalakhona kunzima ukulwa ngisho nabantu abadala, yini okufanele ukhulume ngayo ngezingane.
Ingane yakho ayikwazi ukugxila
Njengomthetho, ezinyangeni eziyisithupha zokuqala, ingane ivumelana nesigqi futhi ingakwazi ukwenza izifundo zesigamu sehora ngaphandle kokuhlukana. Abazali kubalulekile ukuthi bangaphuthelwa umzuzu lapho kungalibaleki kungadideka ngokwephulwa kwengqondo okungekho ingane ukuqedela ingane yaqala. Kulokhu, ukubonisana kwesazi sezengqondo kuyadingeka.
Izinkinga zokuhlushwa zingakhuluma ngokwephulwa kwengqondo
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Ingane ilahlekelwa noma ithola isisindo
Ukwehla kwesisindo noma isethi engazelelwe yamakhilogremu angezekile nakho kungakhuluma ngokwephulwa emzimbeni, futhi ikakhulukazi inkinga yesisindo inomlingiswa wengqondo. Konke kuqala ngezinguquko ezincane ekudleni, okungaba umkhuba oyingozi kakhulu, ngokwesibonelo, umkhuba 'wokudla' inkinga yemigoqo yekhalori.