Akuwona wonke amadoda angakwazi ukuzimela ngokuzimela ubuciko bokuyenga. Njengamanje, kunenombolo emangalisayo yezifundo, lapho amadoda afundise ukunqoba noma yimuphi umuntu wesifazane owayethandwa. Vele, "abathweswe iziqu" balezo zifundo ngeke bakwazi ukusebenzisa ulwazi olutholwe, kepha kusasele ngamaphesenti amadoda akwenza kalula akholelwe ukuthi yikho kanye okudingayo. Inkinga kuphela ukuthi unentshisekelo ngobusuku obubodwa kuphela, ngemuva kwalokho uzoya ekunqobeni izinhliziyo ezintsha. Ngakho-ke, ungawabona kanjani umuntu ophikisayo, hhayi nje indoda ethakazelayo? Sizamile ukuthola.
Ubiza impela ezinsukwini ezintathu kamuva
Uvele wajwayelana, nina nobabili nivumelana futhi nivumile ukuthi uzokubiza. Kepha usuku ludlula, owesibili, futhi akukho ngcili. Usuvele ucabanga ngeqiniso lokuthi umuntu omaziyo waphenduka engaphumelelanga, futhi lapha, ngosuku lwesithathu, kuthiwa. Yebo, mhlawumbe wayengeke akwazi ukuthola isikhathi, kepha kuvame kakhulu ukuthi le ndlela isetshenziswa ngabesilisa abahlonishwayo, ukuze bakushaye futhi bakhanyise inzalo.
Uzosho lokho ofuna ukukuzwa
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Uyazethemba ngendlela emangalisayo
Enye yezimpawu ezikhanyayo zobungcweti (noma cha) pikaper ukuqiniseka. Lokhu cishe kuyiphuzu lokuqala elisebenza ezifundweni zokuyenga. Umongo wale ndlela ukukwenza ukholelwe ukuthi unenhlanhla yokuhlangana nomuntu wangempela ogcina konke okulawulwa, yize empeleni angahlala ngaphandle kwalokhu, "egxuma" evela kuye.
Uzodlala nabanye besifazane eBukhoneni bakho.
Ake wazi amahora ambalwa, kepha usevele "ubeke iso" etafuleni elilandelayo. Le ndlela isebenza ngenkathazo ngokukhululeka ezingeni eliphansi: lapho indoda inesifiso sabanye besifazane abakubonayo ngokuzithandela njengomunye wabavotele kakhulu. Cha, ngeke ahlangane nawe ngqo, kepha azozama ukukukhipha emizweni futhi uzokwenza konke ukuze ube nentshisekelo.
Uzozama ukukuthinta
Uma indoda inesithakazelo ngempela kuwe, iyaqonda ukuthi usazoba nesikhathi sokukujabulela ukuxhumana kuwe, kepha i-picaper inenhloso ehluke ngokuphelele futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, ama-timeline. Ngeke alinde izinsuku ezimbalwa ukukuthatha ngesandla, kuzosebenza lapha futhi manje. Umgomo wakhe oyinhloko ukukunqoba ngekhanda lakhe ngokushesha okukhulu.
Uzozama ukukuthinta kunoma yisiphi isimo.
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