Ungahlala kanjani ngoba ufisa futhi kuphela? Lo mbuzo awungehli namaqembu hhayi incwadi eyodwa. Futhi kufanelekile nsuku zonke. Abesifazane abaningi bavunyelwe ukuhambisa zonke izipelingi zabo namacilongo ukuze bathathe ukunakwa kwesilisa futhi babe kuye lokho. Kodwa-ke, kunemithetho emine engenakunyakaziswa owesifazane okufanele agcine ukuba abe eceleni kwakhe. Futhi akukhona kuphela ngobude bemilenze nobuhle.
Into esemqoka umphefumulo, okusele akunandaba?
Imfashini yesimanje inikezela ngamaqhinga amaningi: yenza imilenze isikhathi eside, i-eyelashes inama-eyelash, ama-eyelash amnyama, izindondo, njll.
Omunye ngokweqile yilamantombazane eshadile engasazi nakancane ukuzinikela, ngoba umyeni ubonile noma yini: ekuseni, nesiguli, kanye nokukhala. Abantu abaningi abanjalo bakholelwa ngokuqinile ukuthi into esemqoka ngumphefumlo. Futhi uma umyeni ethanda umphefumulo, khona-ke ukubukeka akusenandaba. Ngeshwa, inkolelo yokuthi izinzile kangakanani, ezingalungile kangaka. U-Alan noBarbara Piz, abacwaningi baseMelika emkhakheni wobudlelwano, baphetha ngokuthi amadoda anayo yonke imibuzo yabo yokuqonda nezinye izici azithandayo engazi ukuthi:
- Kuyathandeka ngokobulili;
- Iyakwazi ukuzalwa kwenzalo enempilo (njengoba besho isimo sesikhumba, izinwele, amazinyo, i-laistity gait, zilungiselele kahle nokuzwana);
- Uyakwazi ukusebenzela le ndoda : Cook okumnandi, landela izingubo zakhe, induduzo yasekhaya, uku-oda, nokunye.
- UVerny futhi uzinikele kule ndoda.
Uhlu oluthakazelisayo! Ngasikhathi sinye, sobabili kwabesilisa, futhi kwabesifazane kubaluleke kakhulu. Kumantombazane avuselelekile kakhulu wokunakekelwa, kungaba isinali ye-alamu. Umzimba wesilisa ukhiqiza izikhathi ezi-5 ngaphezu kwama-hormone wabesifazane abhekele isimo esinjalo njenge-adean nentshisekelo. Kungakho becophelela, bakhetha futhi bakhetha owabo umlingani. Abaningi basabela kabuhlungu uma abesifazane ekuqondeni kwabo bezenza bakhange kancane: bagawula izinwele zabo, bagqoke okuthile okunjalo. Ngakho-ke, abesifazane kubukeka sengathi bayaqonda ukuthi amadoda ayenephutha ngokuzikhethela okungeyona inketho yezocansi.
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Manje mayelana nalabo abangazi ukuthi bakha kanjani futhi bagcine ubudlelwano ne-gloss yangaphandle kanye nobulili. Lokhu akunakwenzeka ukuthi uchaze kuphela isizinda se-hormonal. Yize, noma ngabe unamathela ekuhlukanisweni kwezilinganiso zePiz, khona-ke inqubo yesoftware ye-CT 2 ihlotshaniswa nekhono lowesifazane ukuba "abe ngumlingani" futhi atshale imali ebudlelwaneni.
Ezingqondweni nasesiko labantu bethu, umqondo wokuthi "Invest" uvame ukudideka ngomqondo wokuthi "umnikelo". Abesifazane abaningi bakulungele wonke umuntu, nje ukusondelana nendoda bese ubeka umkhaza - "Ngisebudlelwaneni."
Isibonelo salokhu singaba: Ukulalela izindaba ezingenandaba; Ukuzama ukusindisa umngani kusuka ku-hangover, esikhundleni sokudlula ezindabeni zabo; Ubulili "ngoba ufuna"; Ukuhambisa imali isikhathi esingapheli; Ukunikeza izipho ezibizayo, noma ngabe zingafaneleki.
Abesilisa banomuzwa wokuthi umlingani wabo uthuthela. Uzizwa ende, futhi ngemuva kokuzinikezela izisulu kuye - futhi enecala. Ngakho-ke, kuvame ukubaleka ngisho nasebuhleni obumangalisa. Umuzwa wecala nesikweletu abulala noma yisiphi isifiso.
Ngakho-ke, ibhalansi ibalulekile endabeni yokwakha ubudlelwano, okusho ukuthi ngaphakathi kanye neqiniso lokuthi ngaphandle. Hlola ikhabethe lakho, uvuselele ukubukeka, kwenze lizilungiselele kahle futhi liqhekeke. Ngakho-ke amadoda azungeze uzoba ngaphezu kwalokho. Yebo, amandla okutshala imali ebudlelwaneni ubuciko obuzodingeka babambe yonke impilo yami. DARE!
UMaria Zemmskova, udokotela wezengqondo, udokotela wokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kwesikhungo sokukhulisa sokukhula kukaMarika Khazina