Cishe esinye sezikhathi ezinzima kakhulu empilweni yomzali ngamunye yisikhathi sentsha yengane yakhe. Umzali ongavamile ukulungele ukwamukela iqiniso lokuthi indodana noma indodakazi yakhe ayisaseyingane, okusho ukuthi ubudlelwano kufanele buguquke nakanjani. Ngokusho kochwepheshe bezengqondo, bekungalesi sikhathi lapho kwenzeka khona izingxaba phakathi kwezizukulwane ezimbili. Sinqume ukwehla amaphutha amakhulu babazali ukuze kube lula ukugwema izimo ezinjalo nengane yakho eyeve eshumini nambili.
Ufuna kusuka kuFuemun Frankness
Abazali kufanele babambe iqhaza kuyo yonke imikhakha yempilo yengane eminyakeni eyishumi yokuqala yokuphila ngenxa yokuphepha kanye nokuthuthuka kwentsha, kepha ingane iqala ukusukela phansi futhi ifihle amaqiniso athile avela kuyo Impilo evela kubazali, ijwayelekile ngokuphelele. Ingxabano iqala ngaleso sikhathi lapho umzali enqaba ukwamukela iqiniso lokuthi kusukela manje kuso osemusha uzobheka ubumfihlo obukhulu, uzama ukuqonda ukuthi ungubani. Ungazami ukufuna ubuhlakani obuphelele, ngeke kuholele kunoma yini, ngaphandle kolaka oluvela enganeni nasekuhlulekeni okugcwele ukuze uhlanganyele nawe.
Ungagcizelele ekuboneni okungaphelele
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Uphula isikhala somuntu siqu
Vuma, kwesinye isikhathi kuba nesifiso esibukhali sokuhlola ifoni yengane yakho eyeve eshumini nambili noma uqhube ukubuyekezwa kwesikhwama, kepha kuhle, uma kuhlala kuyisifiso sakho. Kumuntu osemusha akukho ukudelela okukhulu kunokungathembi. Njengoba sishilo, osemusha uyazifunela, wakha imingcele yokuqala, ukuhlasela kwakho kuphela kwenza ingane "ibone".
Awubali ngombono osemusha
Le nsicager mayingakabi yindoda endala, kepha umbono wakhe akufanele uhleke, futhi akudingekile ukukhumbuza osemusha ukuthi uqonde kangcono. Ingane ibona indlela yakho yokuhlekisa njengokungamhloniphi imicabango kanye nemibono yakho, ngaphandle kokucabanga ngombono wengane yakudala ezindabeni eziningi, uhlukaniswa kuphela komunye nomunye.
Eminyakeni yokuqala yokuphila, kudingeka ukulawulwa kwabazali, khona-ke wehla
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Awukwazi ukunquma ukuthi ufuna ukuthola ini enganeni
Khumbula, kungenzeka ukuthi okungenani wafuna ukuvela enganeni ukuyofunda, wabuza lo mbuzo: "Uzothola nini ingqondo?" Kumuntu osemusha, imishwana enjalo inesimo esifiphele: awufaki umsebenzi othile. Uma ukhathazekile ngokwehluleka kwengane, gxila ezinkingeni ezithile, njenge-algebra emibili, noma exoxa nengane, kungani uthola izikhalazo njalo kothisha, cela indlela abona ngayo indlela yesimo. Ukuphela kwendlela.