Isazi esigunyaziwe nge-psychology yabesilisa, ukuqeqesha ebudlelwaneni beNgonyama yeLeshevatov encwadini yakhe entsha "BDSM: Unkulunkulukazi wendoda yakhe. Ukuthola, ukuheha, ubuhle, "kunikeza izeluleko ezibalulekile kwabesifazane, ukuthi kufanele ucabangele kanjani futhi wenze ngendlela entsha, ufuna injabulo ngendlela ehlakaniphile, nenhle futhi ephumelelayo.
Isu "lihehe - likhishwe" . Leli isu elibaluleke kakhulu kunoma yimuphi umuntu wesifazane. Leli isu lokuphila, futhi kuyadingeka ukuba ungumnikazi walo ngokuphelele. Konke empilweni yowesifazane - kungaba yisizungu, noma impilo yomndeni ende futhi ejabulisayo incike kuleli qhinga.
Ngakho-ke. Isigaba sokuqala - kowesifazane. Yebo, futhi yebo futhi yebo! Imbali iheha izingcezwana ngokubukeka kwayo, ngoba i-bumblebee ngeke indiza ibe yiNettle. Ngakho-ke, kuyadingeka ukuba ube imbali. Akunakwenzeka ukuheha umuntu oyedwa othathwe, angathandeki kubantu abaningi.
Bonke abesifazane bayithanda le nkulumo: "Umuntu kufanele abe umzingeli, makangigijime." Kwabanye, lesi sikhundla esimangazayo siba yisiqubulo sempilo. Ayikho inkinga. Asibhekane.
Ngakho-ke, ihlathi. Umzingeli onesibhamu wenza indlela yakhe ngokuvutha. Kungazelelwe, kungazelelwe ngenxa yesihlahla sikaKhisimusi, kwavela i-bunny. Izindlebe ezihanjisiwe, umsila we-rotator. Umzingeli waphawula (aha!) Wagijimela emva kwakhe. Ngenkathi abaleka, enqoba izithiyo ngesimo sezigodi, izimbobo, izihlahla eziphukile. Yilwa ngaso sonke isikhathi ngenkathi ngibona umvundla phambi kwami. Lapho nje i-hare yanyamalala - umzingeli wema. UBunny waphinde wavela ephendula ngqo kumzingeli, futhi umjaho uyaqhubeka.
Uma i-hare ivele nje kwikhilomitha ukusuka kumzingeli kwi-hump, ukuzingela kuzophela ngokushesha lapho kuqala, ngenxa yokunganakwa kokujaha.
Le mpendulo eyisimanga kulawo mantombazane akhala ngokuthi umuntu ngokuzumayo anyamalala kakhulu. Noma mhlawumbe wabona ukuthi ukude kakhulu naye?
Buyela ekuphishekeleni kwethu. Ukunqoba lezi zefulawa ze-tantalum, umzingeli usabamba i-hare, embeke ngokucophelela ezandleni zakhe. Umlingani obalulekile, ngoba isigamu sehlathi bekufanele sigijime nemilenze egazini.
Yini okufanele uyenze ukuze indoda ikwazi ukuzingela?
Manje ngawe nangamadoda. Konke kuyakuthanda okufanayo nasendaweni yesehlakalo echazwe ngenhla. Ukuze indoda yaqala ukuzingela, kudingeka ikhombise ukuthi yena (ukunakwa!) Kukhona ithuba. Futhi amantombazane amaningi ehamba emigwaqweni ebukeka benobuso obunjalo abesaba ukusondela kubo!
Kwenzekani emakhanda avela kwabesifazane abaningi? "Ngakho-ke, nakhu kufanele, konke kupholile, ngakho-ke yini? Nami ngipholile! Cishe ucabanga ukuthi bonke abesifazane banezinyawo zakhe ?! Pff, okunye! Yebo, uma ecabanga kanjalo, uma epholile, angikuthandi lokho, ngikhethekile, ngizomnika ukuwohloka, ngizokwenza sengathi akazange abulale. Myeke adonsele futhi aqale ukungifezekisa! Amadoda avele abeka konke! Kujwayele ama-Freebies! Lapha eMelika ... "
Kepha ekugcineni, akukho okwenzekayo. Futhi konke ngoba thina, amadoda, ukuxolelwa, isiphukuphuku. Lokhu kuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu kithi!
Ngabe amadoda athanda? Ukumamatheka - Kuyadingeka ukusondela futhi ujwayelane, angimamatheka - angikuthandi, ngizosuka lapha. Lapha silula.
Vikela impahla ethi "Chase":
Isiteji 1 - Aftikhukhwini.
Isigaba sesibili - indoda iphendula futhi yaheha.
Isigaba sesithathu - cindezela.
Isigaba se-4 - futhi ukuheha.
Isigaba sesi-5 - indoda iyanqoba izithiyo futhi iwele othandweni.
Uphume emgwaqweni ungoLwesihlanu omuhle ngoLwesihlanu kusihlwa. Esixukwini sabadlulayo i-gait yakho enhle nokubukeka okuhle (ukukhangana!) Amadoda ayi-100 aqaphele.
Kulezi × 100, banquma ukusondela futhi bahlangane no-15. Phakathi kwalezi × 15 zesine, ubunentshisekelo. Ngenkathi uxoxa nezinkambiso ezithembisayo, zezwa isimo sakho esihle kakhulu sokuxhumana (ukukhanga!).
Ekuxhumaneni nawe, bazizwa befana nento ekhethekile. Umzimba waqala ukondla izibonakaliso zobuchopho - kupholile, hhayi i-tupi. Ubuchopho bushaqekile nokukhulumisana okumnandi (ngokumelene nesizinda sabanye amantombazane), futhi ngokushesha unikeza amasiginali ukuqhubeka nokwazi, ngokufana, kufaka phakathi umsebenzi wesilisa.
Indoda ifuna ukufona futhi ixoxe, kepha awungabazeki kancane (ukucasulwa!), Futhi kukhona okugcwele okuvela kumuntu - ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa yintombaza into ethokozisayo kuvela, okubuye kukhuphule kakhulu inani lakho okwamanje. Ngemuva kwesikhashana, le ndoda isathola oxhumana nabo futhi ixoxisane nomhlangano. Uthe sawubona, kepha iqiniso lokuthi kufanele ashaye esigabeni sokuqala, kanye nendlela opholile (femini, ngokudlala kalula) eholwa, kwakha khona i-aftertaste ekhethekile. Indoda icabanga ngawe uma ungekho. Uyakhathazeka. Izinkinga. Skrola ukwazana kwakho. Ukuzama ukuthola ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, konke kunamandla futhi kunzima othandweni, ngaphandle kokwazi. Yebo, ke - Okuningi.
Kungani isebenza?
Sizoqeqesha nakanjani le ndlela (ekhangayo, futhi uzobona ukuthi kulula kanjani futhi kuyaphumelela. Nginakho okungaphezu kokubuza ukuthi kungani kunjalo? Futhi kuvela kuphi ukusebenza okunjalo? Impendulo ayiphoqelekile ukuthi ilinde isikhathi eside - le yimodeli yemvelo. Noma kunjalo, ngokuyinhloko abantu bayizilwane, yize kwezenhlalo, futhi kwasekuqaleni sinemvelo, khona-ke konke okunye.
Ngakho-ke, endabeni yobudlelwano, imfundo yabesifazane, i-erudition kanye nemikhuba idlala indima kuphela. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi owesilisa azizwe lapho useduze.
Ngiyabona, unemibuzo, futhi ufunda konke ngokucophelela! Yini okufanele uyenze, ukuze ama-arrismism ngokushesha azwa ukuphakama eduze kwakho futhi ahlangane?
O, kuhle, uzofunda ngakho ngemuva kwesikhashana, futhi sizobuyela kule ndlela emangalisayo ukuze isebenze ngakolunye uhlangothi. Futhi manje vele uqonde indlela yokuswayipha (ukuheha / ukusunduza), uyikhumbule futhi ufunde ukubona konke ukubonakaliswa kwayo empilweni.
Yebo, ngiyaqonda, ukusebenzisa isikhundla sakho sokuphila esisebenzayo okungenani. Kepha kufanelekile kuphela ukugeleza okuncane kwizengqondo zabesilisa, futhi ukwesaba kuzoqala ukwehla. Ngibone!
I-Active Vs Passive
Hlangana: Lo nguNikolai, uneminyaka engama-40, umnikazi wendlela yokudlela yaseMoscow, ngangifuna umfazi omusha.
- Nikolay, ngitshele, yini okudingayo, wena uqobo? Kepha ake sikhulume ngokubukeka, kepha mayelana nomongo.
- engifuna umfazi? Ngabona ukuthi impilo yayisekhona, uma kungenjalo impi, khona-ke umzabalazo. Lwela izinsiza, zendawo ngaphansi kwelanga. Futhi kaningi kulokhu kulwa i njengeyunithi yokulwa ngithola ukulimala. Lokhu kungokwesilinganiso. Kufika ama-Bailiffs, isivumelwano sephukile, inkampani iwela eceleni, umngani wakhaphela, ukuwohloka kwezinyawo kwezemidlalo, njll. Nabo osomabhizinisi, konke akulungile njalo futhi kulula. Ngokuphambene nalokho, sinqotshwa kuze kube phakade ngegazi, sijuluka ngisho izinyembezi. Futhi lapha, i-metaphoric, ngawa ngakolunye uhlangothi enkundleni yempi, konke egazini. I-Armor ihlatshwe, kepha isilonda asibulali. Umkami ugijimela lapha: "Hawu, uNkulunkulu, yeka ukuthi yikuphi! Well, unokukhanya okuphakade kwenye indawo! Hhayi-ke, yini okufanele ngiyenze nawe ??? Damn, igazi liya! Ngivuselelwa kuphela i-manicure izolo! Futhi ngokuvamile, angazi ukuthi ngenzeni ezimeni ezinjalo! Ngihlale ungicasule! Ukubheka nezinkinga zami! Ngifuna impilo yomndeni ezolile! "
Njengoba ngizocabanga, ngakho-ke ngokushesha ukuqhaqhazela ngokushesha. Cha, angifuni lokhu. Ngifuna lokho, yize kuneqiniso lokuthi muhle nowesifazane, okwesikhashana angathatha umshini osindayo futhi adubule aze avuleke alulame.
Futhi owesimame kuphela ozoba, njengalapho ... EMMM ... iyaphotha ngolimi ... ngesikhundla sokuphila esisebenzayo, ku! Uma, lapho uhlangana futhi uxhumana, ngibona nje, ngiyaqonda ukuthi le yimpilo yonke esele. Owesifazane osebenzayo ungitshela ngokungabonakali: Ngiyasebenza, mina uqobo ngikwazi ukuphatha impilo yami futhi ngizikhethele labo bantu engiba khona empilweni. Nginesibopho senjabulo yami! Futhi kuhle! Ngakho-ke ngiyaqonda ukuthi lona wesifazane uyaqaphela. Kungumdala, hhayi infantile, kanye nezinga layo lobuhlakani ngaphezulu kwabanye abaningi. Ngizoqondisa emndenini, kepha uma kunesidingo, uzoxazulula inkinga ngomtholampilo ngengane yethu, uzoqhamuka nezinketho zamaholide eholidini, lapho ngiphenduka emsebenzini, futhi ngizoziveza kweminye imikhakha. Lokhu akuyona nje unodoli omuhle ngezindebe zedada, kungukuthi, umuntu ogcwele.
- Pholile! Futhi uthini abesifazane abesaba ukwenza futhi balinde isimo sezulu olwandle, bathi, ngiyintombazane!
- Ngizokusho lokhu: thina, abantu sebhizinisi, sihlale siphawula ubukhona noma ukungabikho kwamandla kumuntu. Ungaba nje, kepha ngasikhathi sinye ngokugcwala. Ngisibonile isimo esinjalo ngeledlule: Owesifazane ungene endaweni yokudlela yethu, wahlala phansi etafuleni waqala ukukhetha okuthile kusuka kumenyu. Ngambheka, futhi wayephelelwe isineke. Kodwa kanjani! Akuzange kusanda kungcwatshwa embhalweni, kodwa kwabheka emehlweni ami, ngakho-ke ngandlela thile ukuthula futhi, ngigijimela, kwamboza ubuso ngesandla sakhe. Kwakupholile kakhulu! Vele, ngasondela ukuze ngihlangane, kodwa ngeshwa, washada. Passive? Ngokusemthethweni Yebo! Kepha ngasikhathi sinye kugcwele amandla abesifazane. Futhi akunakwenzeka ukuba ungazizwa. "
Futhi nansi impendulo evela kuzithameli ezihlosiwe ezifunwayo! Kepha ngizwa ini? Ima! Uyini lo msindo? Ngokuqondile, izwi! Elinye Izwi Elibi Ngowesifazane!
"Mantombazane, ungamlaleli, yini yokusebenza okungenampilo? Uma umuntu uqobo eyenza lutho ekuqaleni, naye akafuni ukukhombisa noma ngubani futhi acwebezele noma ngubani. Ngaphezu kwalokho! Kuyadingeka nje ukuba yize, futhi amadoda azovela futhi enze konke. "
Konke kucace! Le yiSvetlana Semenovna! Ake sijwayelane naye ... Usebenza emtholampilo, futhi wayeyedwa impilo yakhe yonke. Uhlala enamashiya amnandi, noma esemhlelela umshana. Akanazo izingane zakhe futhi ngeke eze. Wanquma kanjalo. Amadoda amcasulile, futhi wakuqonda okungcono kunoyedwa. Uvame ukuvela engxoxweni yethu nawe, ngoba uSvetlana Semenovna unawo wonke umuntu wesifazane, nakuwe. Unguhlobo lokwesaba, ukulinganiselwa, ububi, ukudumazeka nokuphelelwa yithemba ndawonye. Ngakho-ke lapha. Mayelana nokulinda emsebenzini womuntu. Kunomncintiswano omningi kakhulu manje nangesikhathi esincane kakhulu sokulinda okuthile. Yebo, elikulindile, futhi yini? Lutho! Yekani ukulinda! Isikhathi sokuthatha isinyathelo!
Owesifazane, kodwa yenza! "